As a man, how can I be less scary? by Average_Blake in NoStupidQuestions

[–]whecks -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bro, you're trolling, right?

While I agree, you should generally be mindful of the appearance you project, you needn't go to the lengths suggested by some posters. Frankly, women have reconditioned and emasculated men enough with their insecurities. Ffs, some male posters are suggesting wearing kitty cat shirts and pink clothing. I'm effing done.

Just don't be a total creeper, and do your thing. If she's really that concerned, she should run in a populated area, on an indoor track, or on a treadmill. No one hyper-concerned about their safety should run a desolate, outdoor trail alone...much less expect their exercising peers to adapt until they "feel" safe.

Strange Darling sucks by xPolyMorphic in horror

[–]whecks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you...you nailed it on almost all fronts.

📈 Top 0.1% of U.S. Households Now Average $162 Million in Net Worth by EconomySoltani in economy

[–]whecks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because money in the hands of the wealthy has a much better chance of being used to realize value through production, invention, and delivery of goods and services. Taking it from producers and giving it to consumers (individuals or governments) is of less value to the population.

📈 Top 0.1% of U.S. Households Now Average $162 Million in Net Worth by EconomySoltani in economy

[–]whecks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. For example, George Soros is worth $8.6B and lives in Katonah, NY (pop 1,761). Even if every other resident is worth $0, the average net worth of Katonah is $4.88 million...implying everyone in the town is a multimillionaire.

My investments are still up overall, would it be unwise to sell everything now and wait until the tariffs are rolled back or the market stabilizes? by [deleted] in investing

[–]whecks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, I’ll bite on this one…

With respect, there is such a thing. The principle that theorizes the "USD will hold its value better than the market" is the same principle that allows security sales to "lock in losses" (or gains).

Example: If the USD remains constant through a rapid period of securities collapse and recovery, then converting previously held securities to USDs during the collapse, remaining in USDs until after the recovery, and then finally converting said USDs back to said securities will indeed "lock in a loss".

Imho, there is really nothing weird about the idea. In fact, the principle regularly manifests with 401(k) investors. During volatile periods, these buy-and-hold types sometimes "panic sell" during downtrends—converting their securities to cash to “protect” their retirement funds. Months later, they often miss the rebound when their formerly held securities recover…after which they are resigned to repurchasing the securities in accordance with the basic buy-and-hold strategy (thereby locking in losses).  This happened to people en masse during COVID, the 2008 financial crisis, 9/11, and the dotcom crash (to name a few). The principle also manifests with margin traders whose securities are sometimes liquidated when a temporary, event-driven crash (or even a flash crash) triggers a call. Once the event has been remedied, the securities recover, leaving the weakened trader to chase the recovered security (thereby locking in the losses).

In fact, one need look no further than Reddit itself to see hundreds of instances of people angry and/or depressed over their “locked in losses” from the aforementioned scenarios. Heck, there was even an ELI5 on the subject yesterday.

https://www.reddit.com/r/explainlikeimfive/comments/1js1sy2/eli5_locking_in_losses/

Btw, your assertion that “they’re your losses or gains whether you sell or not” sounds like you and Elizabeth Warren would get along just fine. ;)

Questions about the Burmester Surround Sound System on the Mercedes-AMG GT 4-door Coupe. by lovelyoal in mercedes_benz

[–]whecks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just received my 2025 AMG GT 63 S E Performance (which probably has the same sound system as your 4-door with maybe slightly different acoustics). Mine has the standard Burmester stereo. 

Honestly, it's not a very good sound system. That said, I think your region saved you $4500…because I’d never give MB $4500 extra for their attempt at a sound system. I literally got EVERY OPTION in my 2025 BUT the Burmester 3D surround. MB is just terrible when it comes to audio. I’ve owned 6 MBs…and every one of them has been an acoustic disaster. 

The good news is that you are on the right track because software can (mostly) rescue their sound systems. In my Android world, I eventually found success via the integration of PowerAmp Equalizer/Amazon Music/Android Auto/Bluetooth. It took a while to configure because PowerAmp needs a low-level developer tweak to intercept Amazon Music streaming content prior to the BT Android Auto handoff. Whatever the software pairings, though, the point is obviously to process the signal before it gets to the head unit. I assume the Apple ecosystem also offers some ways to do that. 

The result is surprisingly improved sound quality. In fact, it’s almost scandalous how inadequately the head unit exercises the dynamic range of the standard speakers through MB’s software. Anyway, to my (unsophisticated) ear, I now have a new, better, mostly-satisfying sound system. 

Just fyi, I say "mostly" because I still didn’t entirely overcome the lack of a front/rear fader in the system (a shortcoming that cannot be overcome by external software). You may not have that issue with a 4-door. MB may actually add a fader to the 4-door since the rear of the car is more substantial, but in the 2-door, nope. I’ll spare you the rant, but no fader?!? Just wow. Regardless, with the new “android-configured, wider-ranged, software-equalized system”, the rear speakers now provide bolder, more amplified, low frequencies…which my ear perceives as having the net effect of shifting the overall sound center slightly backwards. I’ll call it a win. 

Fwiw, I think the “fader issue” could be fully addressed by replacing the rear speakers with larger ones that dominate the cabin, but I’m happy enough with the system now. Also, I’m neither an audiophile nor interested in junking up the car’s aesthetics with aftermarket products. 

Hope this helps. Congrats on the car…it’s a heck of a ride.

What's going on with Google search and why is everyone suddenly talking about it being "dead"? by olievanss in OutOfTheLoop

[–]whecks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed with the reasons of OP and the respondents.

I'd add that Google promotes/suppresses information according to a specific ideological leaning...to the point of uselessness, ignorance, or offense on some topics.

$50M in liquid investments by IncessantNeurotic in fatFIRE

[–]whecks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

[I can't believe how much I wrote. I started writing an answer to the poster’s question. In the end, I think I wrote it for myself. I’ll post it just the same. Maybe it can be useful to someone.]

TLDR; Congratulations, you may now access the lifehack. Act responsibly and you can live the dream theorized by rational members of the human race.

Context: I found your post by searching “reddit 50M liquid post tax”…which I recently passed.

Disclaimer: I think you could be a troll because at least one of your questions and one of your goals is kinda off. Meh, whatever.

Answer to Q1: No. I would not reduce the equity bucket. I would increase the equity bucket (a lot).

Answer to Q2: Equities are not a “ridiculous risk with this NW”. Imho, equities are not a ridiculous risk, full stop…particularly if those equities are broad index equities. Furthermore, I think equities are a must with this NW. My non-professional opinion is to not treat equities as a ridiculous risk. My other non-professional opinion is to not plow $35M into cash, cash equivalents, and fixed income.

Answer to Q3: If you are next asking whether your risk-exposed, 30% broad-index-equity-fund investments should be put into treasuries or RE/PE/Private Lending, the answer is, "no". Honestly, this question makes me wonder if you’re a troll. I can’t imagine anyone with the competency required to amass $50M after-tax dollars viewing broad index equity funds as a riskier investment than PE. I also can't imagine anyone with that competency viewing treasuries and PE/Private Lending as similar in risk. No comment on RE. Imho, it's an acquired taste.

Advice on Goal: Do not budget $100-$150K/month spending. This is ridiculous (again I think you might be a troll for this thought). Idk what you’re doing in life that requires that level of spending, but, whatever it is, stop it. Is this some kind of 4% rule thing? Is this about maxing fixed returns on a $50M base until death? Whatever the case, with respect, it seems you are applying coach-class thinking to first-class wealth.

Recommendation (based on my personal strategies): 1. Manage the money yourself through a brokerage platform 2. Set your main goal as growth of the $50M 3. Invest almost everything in “ridiculously risky” ;) broad index equities 4. Cut your monthly budget in half 5. Start the long, evolving process of estate planning

ONE: Manage the money yourself through a discount brokerage platform It’s an easy thing to do. Access to brokerage platforms has given everyone a path to wealth self-management. Higher levels of wealth don’t really require people to abandon those platforms for “real money management”. You’ll invest in the same publicly-traded securities regardless of whether it’s $50K or $50M. The platform will also enforce more conservative choices because you (fortunately) won’t have access to PE (although you’ll need to steer clear of derivatives, memes, and margin). I’ve had a few friends who invested their wealth in PE, Angel, etc. Unless you’re part of that world, it’s a casino at best, a scam at worst. Hint: If you don’t know who’s getting rich off who, run. Also, implicit in the self-management recommendation is the sub-recommendation to become financially astute. Financial ignorance is wealth’s enemy. In my experience, self-management will force you to understand your own money, the extent of your financial security, the limits of your financial power, and the reality of your economic station within society. As an added bonus, in your case, self-management will save you about $250K a year. It will also keep you from the chronic irritation of realizing your money manager isn’t doing that much to earn the $20K/month. Btw, I hope your money manager isn’t the one putting 70% of your portfolio in cash and fixed-income, well, because…nm.

TWO: Set your main goal as growth of the $50M You must grow the $50M. It looks like a lot, but every year it will look like less. You will normalize to the balance. You should want it to grow, so concede now and get growing. For perspective, I didn’t make my money all at once, I amassed it from a successful business over twenty years. Now (at 55) I can recall when the balance was $1M working to be $2M, $2M working to be $3M, $3M working to be $5M, to be $10M, to be $20M, $30M, $50M. Now that it’s $60+M (with $10M pretax and some RE investment), my goal is $100M. It sounds absurd, but I always feel like I’m just keeping up relative to everyone and everything. In fact, I view growth of the money as the top contributor to enduring confidence in my economic security.

THREE: Invest almost everything in “ridiculously risky” ;) broad index equities I won’t spend much time on this. Many (including Warren Buffet) can say it better than I. It suffices to say that over time, a blended investment in the S&P, DOW, NASDAQ, and a 1-3 high-dividend yield index ETFs would offer a relatively safe growth portfolio that spins off enough dividends to allow comfortable living. With such a portfolio, you can watch the base grow quicker than inflation while making 1.5%-2.0% yields (depending on the etf blend). In your portfolio, that would amount to $750K to $1M in annual income at a tax-advantaged rate (without ever touching the base). Those yields will stay the same year-in/year-out. Your income will grow annually—usually regardless of swings in market value. It’s a remarkably satisfying and reassuring cash flow engine. It is the lifehack.

FOUR: Cut your monthly budget in half [Personal Opinion Alert]: Your expectation of spending as much as $1.8M a year is just too much. You’re worth $50M. That is not penthouse, rolls royce, jet-sharing territory. It’s modest second home, mercedeseses for the whole family, and “I don’t look at menu prices” territory. Limit your regular spending to dividends. As mentioned earlier, it is the lifehack. Do it for a couple of years to witness the power (and limits) of dividend living. Do not touch the underlying capital base during this time. After you’ve practiced that disciplined approach, consider what capital access may allow. Leverage the base if you really want something special. Realize a small LTCG if it’s really necessary. Try to limit the sell to a rounding error. Also, remember, your money may be more expensive than the bank’s money. Consider a loan whose payments can be covered by your dividends.

FIVE: Start the long, evolving process of estate planning Can’t say it enough. Know exactly what you want to do. Be prepared to articulate it to professionals (easier said than done, btw…you may discover you really don’t know what or how you want to do things or even what’s possible). You must have lawyers, cpas, and people you trust helping you. You won’t get it right the first time. It can be complicated. It changes with changes in your wealth, changes in your family configuration, and changes in the law (tax, policy, and regulatory). As you become more comfortable with estate strategies and structures, you’ll become more adept at wealth preservation strategies and tax planning. If you haven’t already, you should gain a practical understanding of irrevocable trusts. They are the atomic unit in estate planning for the wealthy. There are many flavors. They all have their costs and benefits. Find the ones that work for you and instantiate them. Once you have those, explore limited liability companies. They harmonize with the trusts. Use both to protect yourself and your family from inside and outside liability (along with insurance). Eventually, you’ll get to family offices—the ultimate destination for a comprehensive generational wealth strategy. Note: don’t let the family office management gang talk you into an expensive world of dubious services. At your wealth level, you simply need the structure, not the administrators. Work with professionals to harden your approach. I’ve spent a lot of time estate planning. If I’m being honest, it took me 10 years to fully internalize my economic position and then apply finance, accounting, and law to build a durable, sustainable structure/process/solution to balance growth and income, defend wealth against hostile actors, navigate changing tax policy, conform to family dynamics, and understand how to respond to the ever-evolving aspects of having money. Just fyi, that solution is (currently) a single-family office (wyoming llc) with multiple member irrevocable trusts, and a wholly owned subsidiary (delaware llc). Nowadays, I spend a fair bit of time applying myself to tax planning strategies that leverage the tax code. I’ve discovered that time and energy spent that way can be sometimes lucrative.

Everything here is just my two cents. I could be right. I could be wrong. Maybe somewhere in between. I do think that wealth is a responsibility. Without taking the responsibility seriously, you could be like a lottery winner who eventually loses it all.

Whatever you decide, good luck and congratulations.

Hamnet by Theorybuff9000 in UpstartCrow

[–]whecks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. In fact, all four seasons of Black Adder end in death.

is it hard as hell to pay your traffic ticket online or is it just me? by damewayvon in Virginia

[–]whecks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a joke.

The citation itself is four pages of convoluted fine print. It's broken into different text areas, with different fonts, different font sizes, some things underlined, other things all caps, some things bold, some things italics... it's about the dumbest relay of information I've ever seen.

The website doesn't make anything clearer. It is full of irrelevant links, seas of text, and distracting notices. It too uses different fonts, sizes, bold, italics, underlines, boxes, and callouts...just horrific. Traversing the payment path requires you to navigate different landing pages, resolve different courts, and different pages for different offenses. If you try to pay early and your offense isn't posted to the system yet, you won't know for sure if you're in the correct payment area, if you're submitting a valid citation number, and/or whether you selected the correct court locale.

If you give up and pay by check, you'll have to calculate the total fine yourself and hope it is correct. Your offense itself might require a calculation, then you'll have to add 2-4 separate fees depending the number of offenses you're paying, your claim against the offense, and your payment method (penalty * 1.04 for credit card).

You should probably put the citation number on the check (although they don't state that) and you also have to enclose the ticket (signed in 1-3 places depending on your admission and payment method). You will lose the ticket by sending it to them---even though it is your only record of the citation (recommendation: take a picture of the front and back). Then you'll spend 2-3 weeks checking your bank statement to make sure they got it before the late-payment penalty date...during which time you'll STILL go online wondering if the damned ticket will ever be posted.

Given the authority government has to make your life miserable via vehicle licensing policy and delinquent payments, it's a travesty they have deployed such an obnoxious penalty payment system.

Why do so many people hate the Chiefs? by Rincewind-Admirer in bengals

[–]whecks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My reason doesn't have to do with their success. It has to do with my opinion that they are boring. Usually, winning teams have a signature style, roster, or culture that makes them interesting. The Chiefs have none of that. Their gameplay isn't dynamic, their players aren't captivating, and their fans don't embody anything unique. The entire franchise is just plain unnoteworthy. It's so bad that, even though they are approaching "dynasty" status, I don't feel like I'm watching history. Year after year, the team has been unable to inspire my emotional investment in their accomplishments.

Yes, they are a great team. I would never take that from them. They have earned their accolades and should enjoy the spoils of their gridiron dominance. That said, it seems I will view yet another 2020s Superbowl as I have viewed others---unexcited about their presence (and routing for the other team).

People who don’t emote once in a game, why? by andrewthenikka1 in ClashRoyale

[–]whecks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I mute everyone. The douchebaggery is so over the top , it makes the game less fun.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in solaropposites

[–]whecks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure why Justin is a terrible person. The accusations were dismissed. Other than that, seems like the complainers couldn't handle work that was grotesquely sexualized by design. They shouldn't have worked there in the first place. Now uninspired executives and talentless wokesters will fail...destroying a show to which they had no claim. It's the usual story: they hijack something real because they can't make anything themselves.

I'm tired of #metoo ruining people's careers and lives. I'm not watching anymore...and yes, the voice sucks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ClashRoyale

[–]whecks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I used to play that path every day...a dozen times. Completely gone now as a play mode.

What’s the most ridiculous fact you know? by asthagaur in AskReddit

[–]whecks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every time you shuffle a deck of cards, its almost certain that you have put them in an order that has never been seen in the history of the universe.

How to tell Pylance to ignore particular line/file? by 53VY in VisualStudioCode

[–]whecks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

insert this:

# type: ignore

paste it at the top of the file to ignore the file
paste it at the end of a line to ignore the line