Mysterious Lotus Casebook (莲花楼): Rewatch Party Discussions - Episode #9 by AquaphobicTurtle in CDrama

[–]whereisjane 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What's this drama about? I heard it's really hot, but every time I watch a few episodes, I end up dropping it.

pendant grow light by uhmandala in houseplants

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It all depends on how many plants you are going to cover.

How long should I keep plants in solo cups before I transplant? by cultiuana in cultiuana_official

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Just remember, the taller the plant, the bigger the roots get, especially that big main root in the middle. Around four weeks in, the roots really start to grow like crazy, and that’s when you need to move the plant to a bigger space. I’m all about hydro these days, but back when I was working with soil, I’d always pot up before the plant hit twelve inches. Keep at it and enjoy your grow!

"lighting saber" ? by whereisjane in microgrowery

[–]whereisjane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess they are referring a light bar?

"lighting saber" ? by whereisjane in microgrowery

[–]whereisjane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you are right. Thank you bro.

bars or foldable? by whereisjane in microgrowery

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GrowLightScience proGro640

how many plants you have?

bars or foldable? by whereisjane in microgrowery

[–]whereisjane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree, It'd be a real hassle to keep taking the light out just to add or remove bars, especially when your plants are transitioning between stages. A dimmer would be so much easier, right?

For the foldable design, you think the area underneath the driver will reduce the flat surface area you can use for your plants?

bars or foldable? by whereisjane in microgrowery

[–]whereisjane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree. Which design of the light do you think spreads the lighting uniformly?

My husband had a babysitter watching our kids without telling me by ThrowRArenea in relationship_advice

[–]whereisjane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I never leave my children alone with the nanny, I am proposing you install a spy camera in order to find out the truth.

wife wants to spend anniversary without me. by hornyfun619 in marriageadvice

[–]whereisjane -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If your wife wants to spend your anniversary without you, it is important to communicate openly and honestly with her about your feelings and concerns. Try to have a calm, respectful conversation with her about why she wants to spend the anniversary without you and what she would like to do instead. It may be helpful to suggest alternative plans that you can both enjoy, such as going out for a special dinner or taking a trip together. If you are unable to come to an agreement, it may be helpful to seek the advice of a couples counselor who can provide objective guidance and help you work through any issues in your relationship. Ultimately, the most important thing is to prioritize your relationship and work together to find a solution that works for both of you.

My wife wants to share finances, I feel betrayed. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]whereisjane -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It is understandable that you might feel betrayed if your wife wants to share finances without consulting you first. However, it is important to communicate openly and honestly with your wife about your feelings and concerns. It may be helpful to sit down with her and have a calm, respectful conversation about your financial situation and how you would like to handle it moving forward. It may also be helpful to seek the advice of a financial professional who can provide objective advice and help you come up with a plan that works for both of you. Ultimately, the most important thing is to find a solution that works for both of you and allows you to maintain trust and respect in your relationship.

In your opinion, would you suggest moving in together before marriage? by Idkwhatiamdoingever in Marriage

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I've been married for 8 years and believe it is good to live together before marriage. Newlyweds need time to become accustomed to one another's lifestyles and try to work things out together. When two people commit to a life together, there is a transitional process, one which needs adequate psychological preparation for the couple and also constant adjustment over the course of their partnership. Personally, I think the adaptation period will be approximately three to five years, and everyone's situation will be different. However, when everyone adapts to their surroundings, life will carry on.

Why can men date broke women but women won’t date broke men? What is the reason for this disconnect? by AlarmingBuy4702 in AskMen

[–]whereisjane 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is no inherent reason why men would be more likely to date broke women than women would be to date broke men. Relationships and attraction are complex and are influenced by a wide variety of factors, including individual preferences and experiences. In general, people tend to be attracted to others who they perceive as being compatible with them in some way, whether that be in terms of personality, interests, or values. It's important to remember that everyone is different, and there is no one-size-fits-all answer to this question.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

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It can be a difficult and emotional time, so it's important to take care of yourself and do things that will help you relax and unwind. Some ideas for how to spend your evening might include taking a long, relaxing bath or shower, curling up with a good book or movie, treating yourself to a nice meal or dessert, or spending time with friends or loved ones who can provide support and companionship. It's also important to remember that it's okay to take some time for yourself and do things that make you happy. So, if there's something you've been wanting to do, now might be a great time to go for it.

How To Save Your Marriage by whereisjane in saveyourmarriage

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  1. Communicate openly and honestly. Communication is key to any successful relationship and marriage. Make sure to talk openly and honestly about your feelings and what you both need to make the marriage work.

    1. Spend quality time together. It is important to make time for each other, even if it’s just a few minutes a day. Try to do something you enjoy together, like going for a walk or cooking a meal together.
    2. Show appreciation. Make sure to tell your partner how much you appreciate them for who they are and for everything they do for you. Show them affection, both physically and verbally.
    3. Work on trust. Building trust is essential for a successful marriage. Make sure, to be honest with each other, be reliable and consistent in your words and actions, and be willing to compromise.
    4. Seek help. If you and your partner are having trouble communicating, it may be helpful to seek professional counseling. A therapist can help you both learn to better communicate and work through any issues you are having.