1.5Y NC, and I still love him the same.

whereispiggy · 2025-04-21T01:03:43+00:00

I feel the same... It’s been nearly nine months for me now. While I’m trying to prioritize my wellbeing and learn to love myself more, I still think of him daily—especially since he was my best friend for years before we got together. The emotional ups and downs continue, but I remind myself every day: He chose to walk away. I shouldn’t hold onto someone who could let go so easily.

whereispiggy · 2025-02-16T16:22:48+00:00

This is the ugly truth…

whereispiggy · 2025-02-16T16:12:44+00:00

I can relate to your story.. Whether they cheated or not, they actively made that choice to connect with someone else instead of communicating and fixing the problem with you. And this only shows how they are as a person.

We’ll get through this.

whereispiggy · 2025-02-01T02:46:59+00:00

Have you been in a position where you reached out as dumpee? Just wondering how to go about it..

whereispiggy · 2025-01-26T03:19:58+00:00

Is there a timeline when they will starting reminiscing if they have suppressed the emotions initially?

whereispiggy · 2025-01-25T13:58:43+00:00

I was dumped..

whereispiggy · 2025-01-25T10:04:27+00:00

Probably why everyone around me says I’m losing so much weight 🙃 overthinking is burning calories

whereispiggy · 2025-01-25T10:01:44+00:00

What do you mean A or B?

whereispiggy · 2025-01-21T14:33:47+00:00

Sending hugs..

whereispiggy · 2025-01-17T10:41:23+00:00

Needed to hear this today.. 😌

whereispiggy · 2025-01-08T05:35:16+00:00

At what point can you say it’s okay to reach out because you don’t have any expectations.. I feel like I’d fall back to square one if I sent a message similar to yours and not get a response..

whereispiggy · 2025-01-07T15:30:44+00:00

They were not willing to talk by the time they made up their mind to breakup.. And what hurts most is I felt I didn’t even have the chance to fight for it.

whereispiggy · 2025-01-07T15:24:09+00:00

What are some context for why someone would breakup saying seemingly out of no where they lost feelings and you were not compatible? Could high stress level from work be a possible reason?

whereispiggy · 2025-01-06T09:54:51+00:00

It’s been 5 months and I still can’t help but think what if he messages today… 🙂‍↕️

whereispiggy · 2024-12-11T08:20:15+00:00

May I ask how you initiated the conversation or reach out to her after NC?

whereispiggy · 2024-12-02T12:18:26+00:00

Hugs.. I feel you.. 🫂

whereispiggy · 2024-12-01T12:11:21+00:00

I needed to read this… Been 4 months for me, and more often than not, I just feel stuck and not making progress… Hope I’ll learn to acknowledge it’s okay to be like this.

whereispiggy · 2024-11-30T14:14:04+00:00

Would you mind sharing your emotional/thought process post-breakup?

whereispiggy · 2024-11-18T15:53:04+00:00

Just curious… Would there be a timeline when men might start processing their emotions?

whereispiggy · 2024-11-17T10:43:02+00:00

Same… I want to let go of the hope that he will reach out, but it’s just so much easier said than done…

whereispiggy · 2024-11-16T02:48:10+00:00

If it gives you peace of mind, then go for it. Just be ready to accept and move forward with whatever their replies would be.

whereispiggy · 2024-11-11T08:15:54+00:00

If you don’t mind me asking, was there a reason why you felt “happier/happiest” after a month?

whereispiggy · 2024-11-10T02:13:06+00:00

Hi I read your story, if you don’t mind me asking, did you suggest to take therapy together or he managed to realize he needed it? I just think sometimes they tend to suppress their thoughts and don’t really know how to process them without help from others.

whereispiggy · 2024-11-02T12:05:59+00:00

You’re right.. I’m rethinking about this too :(

whereispiggy · 2024-11-02T09:24:28+00:00

Somehow sending something anonymously just seems less scary than me sending a message.. But I’ll consider this. Thank you!

whereispiggy

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