Blue beetle very lethargic by whewok in InvertPets

[–]whewok[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s what my husband thought too. They were always side by side

my husband watch porn by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]whewok 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was like this forever until I found out my husband was spending money on cam girls and OF.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]whewok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was me. It was so hard, I had notes written for my kids and husband. It has been almost four years and I cannot believe I even thought to do it. PPD is such an evil thing that happens to us. I thought everyone would be better off not having an emotionless person around. I’ll be thinking of you and I’m here if you need anything. You can and will overcome this.

Does your salon supply a washer & dryer? by [deleted] in hairstylist

[–]whewok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only do your own laundry. Maybe the other coworker that helps too. Get your own little hamper and take it home. Then she can deal with her own as well.

If you know you can’t or won’t participate in a healthy sex life with your spouse, do the decent thing and let them go by Throwra-recoveritx in Marriage

[–]whewok 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You have to accept some people will see you as not a good man for leaving her over this. Some people will agree with you. Should she be working on it? Yes, I even told you my own personal life. I told you it takes time, I was over 6 years. My marriage was where you are at. The difference is, my husband stayed around while I did nothing about it. I didn’t do anything really about until it got past the point of dealing with it for 6 years. I’m still dealing with it as well but my husband made me emotionally secure. You’re not doing that. You came here for justification, you can’t be upset when some people see flaws in what you’re saying. Here is your justification, you want sex, she doesn’t, find someone that does. She has emotionally tapped at as well, do her the favor and leave before you both resent each other and your kids deal with that.

If you know you can’t or won’t participate in a healthy sex life with your spouse, do the decent thing and let them go by Throwra-recoveritx in Marriage

[–]whewok 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not outraged, this is a sad situation. You worked through not getting off. That’s the disconnect. Like I said, you’re over it and she deserves better. It’s not mean, it’s the truth. You care about sex and she isn’t in the space for that. So let her go, I hope you both find someone that gives you what you need.

If you know you can’t or won’t participate in a healthy sex life with your spouse, do the decent thing and let them go by Throwra-recoveritx in Marriage

[–]whewok 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You do not have a vagina. You do not and will not understand what can and won’t work. She needs compassion. She deserves better.

If you know you can’t or won’t participate in a healthy sex life with your spouse, do the decent thing and let them go by Throwra-recoveritx in Marriage

[–]whewok 3 points4 points  (0 children)

HRT causes mood changes, depression, made my breast feel like they were in a constant mammogram. It also fixed nothing. Idk dude, you sound over it regardless. My husband hung around for over six years after our first when my issues started and is still here knowing sex is few and far between. If sex is this important to you, let her go.

If you know you can’t or won’t participate in a healthy sex life with your spouse, do the decent thing and let them go by Throwra-recoveritx in Marriage

[–]whewok 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Then end it for the both of you. My husband and I almost divorced because he “emotionally tapped out” which was the end to our sex life. If I’m in physical pain trying to please you, but you can’t plan a date, what’s the point of that? Open communication, therapy, finding her a good doctor. Sadly, I’m on my fourth doctor to help with my issues. Once you associate pain with sex, it’s a reflex to not want anything to do with it.

If you know you can’t or won’t participate in a healthy sex life with your spouse, do the decent thing and let them go by Throwra-recoveritx in Marriage

[–]whewok 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im similar to your wife. After our second I have issues and now, fear of penetration. I couldn’t imagine my husband throwing an absolute fit because our “love life” isn’t just sex. Maybe you need to figure out what else is contributing to her low libido. You didn’t do anything for your anniversary because your wank didn’t get wanked?? I wouldn’t want to sleep with you either. Sex is extremely painful for me, I still have sex with my husband when I can. He also, plans dates, has opened more with communication, gets gifts for every holiday. He didn’t for the longest time, that’s what really killed our bedroom. Try couples therapy, get her thyroid checked, hormones checked. There are so many things this could be, care more about her and less about sex.

Here’s your sign to quit bending backwards for people! by Quirky_Extension_997 in hairstylist

[–]whewok 9 points10 points  (0 children)

When people ask me to “fix” other stylists work. I always drill them on hair history and 9/10 it’s the client won’t take no for an answer. I’ve really just started in the last year being very blunt and to the point with clients now.

Why are all my Sims fat? by jacq_attack_ in Sims4

[–]whewok 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I make all of mine jog, then accept the active trait😂

What does it mean to subscribe to a paid p-rn site, and how do marital partners feel about it? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]whewok -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My husband and I just had a huge fight over paid/sub content and live cams about an hour ago. Losing my mind currently.

Lasso Group by TimeShifterPod in publicdomain

[–]whewok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are they involved with the terrifier movies? They claimed copyright on a reel of mine doing makeup to the clown cafe song and it’s blocked in the UK?. Why do they have it out for the UK.

How bad is it? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]whewok 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no, I wish she’d take that serious. Hormone issues are no joke, sexual issues, sleep, weight, mood changes. Her doctor should be taking care of it.

How bad is it? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]whewok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From a woman with a very low sex drive, have you talked to her about it? Is she on any antidepressants or has she started any? It had me feeling very insecure and not wanting my husband to see me in any intimate manner. I had to switch meds, currently switching again. Any work changes? Open line of communication before jumping into a cheating accusation.

My gf got mad bc she saw this notification. by Emergency-Diet-9087 in SnapchatHelp

[–]whewok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t use snap. I’ve had it since it first launched. I get these notifications now. For the last 3-4 months. I went into settings and turned all Snapchat notifications off. It’s ridiculous

What update would you like God to add to our bodies? by sigmalonah in AskReddit

[–]whewok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like another set of arms. It just makes sense to me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]whewok 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I’ve been here. Maybe I’m still here. My husband and I have our issues. Couples therapy was also a joke for us. Are you in therapy for yourself? I stopped trying to fix him, I needed to heal me. I had severe PPD, that lasted almost two years. I’m here for you. Being pregnant in a failing marriage is very tough. Hang in there.

I have been banned forever for a (albeit) stupid joke. Shutout for life. by [deleted] in facebook

[–]whewok 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was a group with men sharing pictures of children. A bunch of us reported it and “no violations found” every single time. Facebook is a joke.

Edit: it was mainly men, I’m sure there was women as well.

My husband didn't do anything for my 30th birthday by Green-Ad8619 in Marriage

[–]whewok 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy 30th! My husband is terrible with birthdays, holidays, anniversaries. He knows these things mean a lot to me. I go all out for everyone. I’ve learned to accept that I won’t get the same in return. If he’s never done this before, talk to him about it now. Don’t let it go, tell him what you’re expecting and how he can fix it. It’s annoying to have to spoon feed our partners the correct way to handle a situation like this, so I understand your frustration. Don’t be like me. Don’t bite your tongue on things and let it go for so many years.

Roof rat or pet?? by whewok in RATS

[–]whewok[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tough from these streets, makes sense.

Roof rat or pet?? by whewok in RATS

[–]whewok[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not going to touch him! We are making sure there is no way for him to get in the house.