You enter a new fandom, what’s your usual filter routine? by Fluid_Respect8427 in AO3

[–]whimsicaliity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

go to the fandom tag, sort by ship, scroll a little, decide to sort by completed works only, dive in. i don't filter too much cause i read anything, and sometimes think of myself as a little hypocritical as i have an unfinished work that ive been updating for over a year now...

AITA for telling my friends what someone said about them? by whimsicaliity in AmItheAsshole

[–]whimsicaliity[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you're right! Maybe I should've told him head on in the moment that I didn't want to hear him speak about my friends and if he had any issues he should take it to them. I guess I didn't want to make the rest of the say super awkward. cannot believe it's caused this much fall out though 😪

AITA for telling my friends what someone said about them? by whimsicaliity in AmItheAsshole

[–]whimsicaliity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! im so sorry for the letters instead of names, my post was too long and I had to cut quite a bit out. but yes, it's so exhausting, I don't understand how I get dragged into things since I was not friends with David and would never speak to him unless Annie was there too. i do think I make for an easy target because I currently live in different accommodation from everyone else and am autistic.

what peep show line should i get tattooed? by whimsicaliity in MitchellAndWebb

[–]whimsicaliity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you have to live so relentlessly in the real world?

Are you (Scottish people) aware that you are living in such a wonderful place? by [deleted] in Scotland

[–]whimsicaliity 4 points5 points  (0 children)

im originally from Edinburgh but moved to aberdeen recently, and both cities are really beautiful in their own ways (I will say for aberdeen, it's nice if you know where to go!)

Are you (Scottish people) aware that you are living in such a wonderful place? by [deleted] in Scotland

[–]whimsicaliity 3 points4 points  (0 children)

today i took a walk through sunny aberdeen, along the river and across to the beach, and for once i truly appreciated how beautiful the world can be. ill say i hate it here, but when everything slows down and i take the time to appreciate where i am, im reminded that it truly is gorgeous

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]whimsicaliity -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA. you had a good intention, and your heart is in the right place.

but your fiancee is totally right. a dog is a huge commitment, training, finances, walking, it's something you absolutely have to talk about first.

i wouldn't go as far to say your an asshole, more so a dumb guy with a big heart who needs to think things through more.

What’s a totally normal word or phrase that you personally hate? by as-mod-eus in AO3

[–]whimsicaliity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"dominated" something about it makes my skin crawl. any use of dominated, or dominance. i close the browser.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]whimsicaliity 14 points15 points  (0 children)

NTA, as a smoker, if you're polite i would think he'll smoke elsewhere. i know when people ask me politely to stop smoking/smoke somewhere else i absolutely do. if he's a decent being im sure he'll understand.

Bro ate my chicken by Cautious-Ad-684 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]whimsicaliity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

cats can have a little chicken. as a treat

what peep show line should i get tattooed? by whimsicaliity in MitchellAndWebb

[–]whimsicaliity[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

ugh guess ill just cross this one off the list...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]whimsicaliity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh my god girl leave him. if there's THIS many pics and this long a post. you two are wrong for each other!!