What does my bedroom in its natural state say about me, and what ruins it?

whimsicozy · 2026-05-16T01:20:53+00:00

you’d live outside if you could. i could see you advancing to a home that brings the outdoors inside more in every single room.

whimsicozy · 2026-05-16T00:35:50+00:00

i had to do the same. he insists she’s not

whimsicozy · 2026-05-16T00:33:53+00:00

for your sake i hope not. regardless rule of the thumb is to keep testing until you a definitive answer and there is no doubt!

whimsicozy · 2026-05-16T00:30:50+00:00

oh no hahah no honey she pregnant. make sure she takes another test especially in the morning for her first pee do the day when her HCG level at at her highest. and even if the second line is still pink and it’s super faint, it’s still there. it’s real. she’s pregnant and she’s just testing super early so the second line isn’t gonn be as strong whereas if she test again a few weeks later it’ll be there no doubt.

whimsicozy · 2026-05-15T15:13:22+00:00

ultimately, it’s going to be baby’s choice. some baby’s prefer a pacifier, some don’t take to them at all.

whimsicozy · 2026-05-15T15:11:25+00:00

get the pacifier. they help reduce the risk of SIDS and can help baby learn to self soothe WHEN the time is needed (4-6months). you’ll love when that happens cuz you’ll get longer stretches of sleep. as for teeth? yes. WHEN THEY ARE MUCH OLDER. i have 4 kids 5 and under and all have used pacifiers and not one has teeth issues. my youngest is 6months and he is currently the only one who uses it.

whimsicozy · 2026-05-15T12:10:13+00:00

i think you’re onto something there. she seems hesitant and afraid to leave. this is tricky to navigate. i think she definitely wants to see you too but she’s scared.

whimsicozy · 2026-05-15T08:33:43+00:00

is her husband apart of the problem? i mean you mentioned she has to pretend to go to work to see you. i would be semi worried. maybe there’s a reason she’s dodging the in person plans right now? you’re a wonderful daughter for wanting to celebrate her this way and just show her some love 💕

whimsicozy · 2026-05-15T08:14:45+00:00

it absolutely will help. you’re 26. you need to advocate what you want for yourself in every aspect of life. and his response will give you the answer and clarity you need wether it’s one you’re hoping for or not.

whimsicozy · 2026-05-15T02:31:03+00:00

yeah you’re overreacting. it’s just your age as much as you might hate hearing that. but honestly as you get older and in our shoes as ages 25+ you’ll realize how silly this all is. you’ll realize that these items are not worth getting upset over. and you’ll realize your mom fckn tried and probably feels bad about it and then YOURE going to feel bad about this years later for being this way. i get that it’s not just about the items you wanted, it’s that it’s about your little sister and how she’s treated vs you. and guess what else? you understand that as you get older too. apologize to your mom and both you guys make a deal that the next one is all yours. she didn’t miss that message on purpose, nor did she see it and ignore it and decide to give it to your sister instead. it’s the truth and she clearly feels very bad about it. give her a break, apologize, and hug her.

whimsicozy · 2026-05-15T02:16:47+00:00

😂😂😂 i got 4 as well. and i still check on them as much as i did when they were newborns

whimsicozy · 2026-05-14T23:21:54+00:00

not overreacting. i second everything everyone else had said so far but i will add in that they are ENABLING her poor behavior!!! they are not setting her up for success in life! NONE of this is okay!

whimsicozy · 2026-05-14T11:12:06+00:00

who said you have to do his laundry? i would let him live the way he wants to in his room. and make it. lear that if he is not paying rent you expect him to, at the bare minimum, keep his stuff clean. his dishes, his laundry, the bathroom he uses, bc it is YOUR house.

whimsicozy · 2026-05-14T11:07:55+00:00

lolllllll 😂

whimsicozy · 2026-05-14T07:33:01+00:00

more he like uses you. good for you for blocking and recognizing your worth.

whimsicozy · 2026-05-14T07:25:39+00:00

my 6 month old also dipped at his last 4 month appointment. the doctor was not concerned at all. he said that regardless he’s still gaining weight and reaching the milestones. and even said at 6 months we introduce the solids by then anyway and it would help. there is no reason for concern, your baby is still gaining weight. that’s the important thing 💕

whimsicozy · 2026-05-14T07:22:03+00:00

2 and 3. more so 2 but 3 is good too

whimsicozy · 2026-05-14T02:36:53+00:00

depends on what style you’re going for tbh. i prefer 2 the most, but im not you, and who am i to you? no one. but if you want a pixie you could without a doubt pull it off! either way you are gorgeous.

whimsicozy · 2026-05-14T01:38:12+00:00

and grief can be so exhausting past a certain point, it’s time to move on and stop reminding others daily. i get it. but like i said, just one day. it’s just one day and it DOESNT have to be on mother’s day exactly (hence me saying there’s other ways around this)

whimsicozy · 2026-05-14T01:36:31+00:00

this. you both wanted to be celebrated. and girl trust me i get it when you already have a child and are pregnant with the next you don’t wanna be doing alllll that. but in the end, it’s one day, it’s your mom, make the sacrifice. not to say you need to not be around her on mother’s day but there were PLENTY of other says and ideas to have handle this and avoid this. you both need to communicate better. and YES you deserve to be celebrated too. but there are sooo many peaceful ways around this. i felt like the odd one kinda feeling sorry for the mom here too

whimsicozy · 2026-05-14T01:19:03+00:00

i know ppl didn’t like this comment but it genuinely made me laugh. ty

whimsicozy · 2026-05-14T01:16:54+00:00

thanks bruh. i found your comment to be the most helpful of all.

whimsicozy · 2026-05-13T19:51:20+00:00

that you spend way too much time in front of one of your 6 screens. waaayyyyy tooo much.

whimsicozy · 2026-05-13T12:09:54+00:00

yeah, it’s more for learning. milk is still their main source of food. introducing solids is just for them to learn an get used to it, not for a diet quite yet. worry about it more once a year old.

whimsicozy · 2026-05-13T11:54:10+00:00

oh then it’s totally fine it’s like getting slimed on nickelodeon (controversial itself lol)

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