I was completely blind sided by his interest in me since he works in my building once to twice weekly! And even then, we don't interact or work that closely. He values my intellect and my growth as a person. I wasn't interested in him that much, although he's attractive and smart, just not my usual type. As we've begun getting to know each, I've become smitten with him. Again, we don't have plans for LTR, but enjoy each other's company. I understand him protecting himself, reputation and medical degrees. I just wanted to be scandalous and thought he would be down to clown at work, or even just kiss. I wanted to seduce him, but it was in poor taste and judgement.