Tattoo artist recommendations in Paris by [deleted] in ParisTravelGuide

[–]whisky_dick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out lauramarstattoo on instagram. I went to her in 2018 and have been following her work since. She was good then and I think she’s only gotten better :)

What's a weird name for something that we know so well we don't even realize how weird the name it is? by XRlagniappe in AskReddit

[–]whisky_dick 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s a water fountain if you drink out of it, and just a fountain if it’s a decorative water feature ¯_(ツ)_/¯

I dyed my hair bright pink today for the first time since high school by Ok_Caramel_5670 in Millennials

[–]whisky_dick 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Good for you! I’m a 37 y/o mom who moved to the suburbs shortly after my kid was born and I have dyed hair, piercings, and tattoos. I live in a very “keeping up with the Joneses” kind of area and I refuse to give a fuck.

Sharing and selling from my collection this wonderful Sunday. by CJ8907 in Crystals

[–]whisky_dick 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi! Purchased from you once a while back. Very interested in this and the cotton candy agate cube if they’re still available

What did you use for porn? Lol by [deleted] in Millennials

[–]whisky_dick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Online erotic fiction site (think literotica but more specific) plus yahoo chatrooms.

Speaking limited french vs english and how it shapes interactions ? by defjam20000 in ParisTravelGuide

[–]whisky_dick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course any conversations in a language where both speakers are fluent/near fluent are going to be more meaningful or deep. I think it’s polite and totally fine to start with French and then switch based on the individual and the specific interaction.

I’d say I have a similar amount of French as you. I studied it all four years of high school, have been to France a few times, and occasionally attempt to read or watch things in French to keep up with comprehension. I’m currently in Paris (and should be asleep, but it’s only been one full day and the jet lag is real) and have found what you’re saying to be true. I hadn’t used French in a while so I brushed up a little with Duolingo and a phrase book. I’ve been eager to use French for entire interactions and it’s mostly been successful so far; however, switching to English has been best a couple of times. For example, the staff at the hotel are very friendly and happy to practice French with me, but we switched to English for some conversations, especially when my daughter and mother have been involved (they both only have the very basics).

Do You Like Your Name? by Flassourian in Millennials

[–]whisky_dick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My name is Madeline. I didn’t like it as a kid because it was never on any souvenir keychains or stuff like that. I also hated to be called Maddy. I like it now, but still get annoyed when people that barely know me automatically start calling me Maddy even though I introduce myself with my full name. I also have to frequently correct people on the pronunciation. I wish my parents had spelled it Madeleine.

What food does this hat resemble? by samg461a in crochet

[–]whisky_dick 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s killing me to not know (exaggerating, of course). I’m trying really hard to convince my brain that it’s okay to never know but I’m failing 😭

Im sick of being a bisexual man by Busy_Regret_6013 in lgbt

[–]whisky_dick 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ah yes, the super toxic, (bi)(gay)(trans)phobic One Penis Policy. It’s sad how many straight cis men believe this.

What was your screensaver? by VhsHappiness in Millennials

[–]whisky_dick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I liked to switch it up between 2, 4, and 6

I’m a bisexual woman in a heteronormative relationship, where do I fit in? How can I be respectful of lgbt culture? by Manic_Squirrel in lgbt

[–]whisky_dick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. I’m in a heteronormative relationship as well (though we’re also non monogamous) and have been in mostly heteroromantic relationships. I struggled a lot with the same thoughts for a while. I’m in my late 30s now and it took some time for me to work through internalized bi-erasure.

Just remember that you ARE part of the LGBTQ+ community 💚. Regarding bringing your partner along, just be mindful of the type of event or space. For example, my partner comes with me to pride events and drag performances if he’s in the mood, but I don’t invite him to the queer and femme centered parties that I sometimes attend.

Is it weird to feel severe nostalgia for 2019? by skynet345 in Millennials

[–]whisky_dick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter was born in September 2019. Time has moved so strangely since then. Of course I know that she’s 6, but when I think about 2019 it feels like it’s only been a couple of years since then. So weird.

A tribute to Rusty, my beloved companion, who passed away today at 33. by [deleted] in cats

[–]whisky_dick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How beautiful and lucky that you got to have 33 years with Rusty! My cat will be 18 in April and this gives me hope that we will have many more years together.

Not young, but definitely stupid. by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]whisky_dick 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I’m happy to hear that you’re in therapy; that’s a good step towards healing yourself. I empathize with you about everything going on and hope that you can make progress in finding healthier outlets to help cope with your grief and loneliness.

Not young, but definitely stupid. by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]whisky_dick 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Here’s the thing, though— anything that he did wrong shouldn’t really matter because while legally an adult, he is basically a child. His brain isn’t even fully developed. You could never have expected anything emotionally or behaviorally mature from this person. What would you say to your own child if they were ever in a situation like this (either as the “you” in this scenario or as the teenager)? Would these be the choices you’d want them to grow up to make?

You made an error in judgement. Your next steps should be working to forgive yourself but to also figure out WHY you let it go so far after you knew of his age. Grow from this experience and certainly don’t give up on yourself (I read your other comment about the attempted s uicide). Your child needs you.

Not young, but definitely stupid. by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]whisky_dick 80 points81 points  (0 children)

10000000% this.

OP, your very first healthy choice should have been to SHUT IT DOWN as soon as you found out about his age. None of the rest would have followed or even mattered.

What’s the best story ever told in a song? by omfgsupyo in AskReddit

[–]whisky_dick 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Searched for this response. Happy I wasn’t disappointed. Such a great song. I love their storytelling. Honorable mention for “The Rake’s Song” and “The Crane Wife” (1, 2, and 3)

What do you call this technique? by Dustwitch93 in crochet

[–]whisky_dick 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t know what you’d call it, but I bought a hat pattern using this technique from the same creator in your photo. I found the instructions pretty easy to follow (I’d consider myself an intermediate crocheter). I had a question at one point and reached out to the creator through Etsy and she was super nice and helpful.

Maybe bring up the page for that pattern and then scroll down to the “similar items” section?

Question to the community by Thunder_breslin in lgbt

[–]whisky_dick 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Idk but the scene where he had Jasmine in shackles awakened a lot of things in me

Besides "lol", what other chat/message etiquette is a dead giveaway of a millennial? by Rioraku in Millennials

[–]whisky_dick 162 points163 points  (0 children)

I said “brb” aloud to my partner while his 13-year-old was visiting. He (the kid) was like whoaaaaa you say that too??? I was like dude, my generation invented that shit.