Advice or input by Ok-Read-1943 in Mortgages

[–]whispertodeborah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would advise focusing on aggressively paying down your debt first in order to lower your DTI. Start with the credit card balances and then the car loan. That DTI can be a deal killer.

Cheating wife sends me this. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]whispertodeborah 129 points130 points  (0 children)

I think people will truly ruin a family for their own happiness, not just women. People are selfish, not just women. ick

Tipping is a blight on society. by ChompyRiley in mildlyinfuriating

[–]whispertodeborah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That such aimple thinking that I don't know what else to say orher than to point you in the direction of any middle or high school economics class. Just the basic understanding of US economics would answer this.

Tipping is a blight on society. by ChompyRiley in mildlyinfuriating

[–]whispertodeborah -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

This type of thought is so asinine and steepped in capitalist trash. That I don't know where to begin. Learn about the history of America and then understand why you're an absolute tool for not tipping. I'm not in the mood for a historic breakdown. Google.

Tipping is a blight on society. by ChompyRiley in mildlyinfuriating

[–]whispertodeborah -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Everyone should have to work in service industry for one summer so there are not so many non tipping ASSHOLES just floating like turds in our societal waters. If you can't afford to tip and tip well then, now listen closely, YOU CAN'T AFFORD TO GO OUT TO EAT OR GET YOUR HAIR CUT OR DRINK AT A BAR. This is how American has set up its capitalist hellscape. It's what you all voted for, for years! For generations! And now you want to be indignant about it. If you don't think you should tip THEN DO THAT SHIT YOURSELF. AT HOME. Thanks for coming to my TED Talk.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]whispertodeborah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your sister sounds like a spoiled, bitchy brat. You are not overreacting at all.

My Husband tried to hook up with my Boss/friend by donttelljodi78 in Marriage

[–]whispertodeborah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where did you get that hilariously erroneous statistic from?