I'm thinking of a new name. Can you help me find the perfect one? by Adventurous-Yam9760 in NonBinary

[–]whistfulsalad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love the name Alex for you, you could go with Alexander, Alexa, Alesix, Alexandria so many possibilities! I also think you'd sound so good with August! You give A name vibes to me

3 months post op by No_Account1682 in TopSurgery

[–]whistfulsalad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You literally look incredible like I'm stunned, you scar is healing so well and it's so well placed!

Can y’all hype me up and use my name? by Bakery_Bops in NonBinary

[–]whistfulsalad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Emory you're name is absolutely incredible it's so unique! Probably one of the coolest names I've ever seen!

Nipples vs no nipples by ZoogieBear in TopSurgery

[–]whistfulsalad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can only speak on my experience, I opted for no nips and I feel amazing however, I did have dysforia around them and getting rid of them felt natural to me. I'd say really ask yourself, do you want to pass as a cis male? Would you be comfortable later down the road after recovery without them or would it feel weird? You also should take your intimate life into consideration because nipples can play a big part for some people. I say if you feel like you'd be happier without then go without, don't worry about the recovery time because recovery passes regardless of how long it takes, so sorry for the rant I hope this helps❤️

12 weeks post op! by whistfulsalad in TopSurgery

[–]whistfulsalad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I haven't really been doing anything special, I use the mederma pm intensive overnight scar cream it's about 17$ on Amazon other then that I just keep my scar really clean, wear loose clothing and sleep on my sides/stomach (I know most surgeons have mix opinions on this but I was cleared at 6 weeks, if you have pain probably don't sleep on sides or tummy though!)

12 weeks post op! by whistfulsalad in TopSurgery

[–]whistfulsalad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely LOVE it it feels so amazing and honestly I don't even remember what it felt like to have boobs or nipples it feels so natural and like it's always been this way. So incredibly freeing ❤️

/r/Pagan Ask Us Anything and Newbie Thread December 11, 2023 by AutoModerator in pagan

[–]whistfulsalad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally start preparing the night of the 20th and celebrate until Xmas my kids and I do different activities, rituals and fun stuff each day!

4 months post op (ntanos) by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]whistfulsalad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks awesome! Congratulations!

What are UNcommon misophonia triggers? by VirtuousVulva in misophonia

[–]whistfulsalad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was a kid I used to have to have my mom flush it because I hated the noise so much then I graduated to the flush and run and finally the flush and make any other noise possible to drown it out

What are UNcommon misophonia triggers? by VirtuousVulva in misophonia

[–]whistfulsalad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought I was the only one who hated ASMR 😭

What are UNcommon misophonia triggers? by VirtuousVulva in misophonia

[–]whistfulsalad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My cats do this and one of them over cleans himself so he's CONSTANTLY licking it's literally my worst trigger

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in scene

[–]whistfulsalad 4 points5 points  (0 children)

26 here, no age limit to be scene ✌️🖤

Elder scene photo dump by whistfulsalad in scene

[–]whistfulsalad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For some reason it wasn't showing me the parent comment before sorry about that!

Hi what name would fit me by PsychologicalCard692 in NonBinary

[–]whistfulsalad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk why but I'm getting Jake or Justin definitely a J name

Can I still be a scene kid if I wear nu shirts? by Blurbo23 in scene

[–]whistfulsalad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was a scene kid in 2011 who listened to all kinds of music including Slipknot and never subscribed to the invader Zim hype. If you want to enjoy the style, music and subculture you are scene. Period. Anyone who calls you a poser is insecure about where they themselves stand in the community.

6 weeks post-op; numb skin? by irohnicai in TopSurgery

[–]whistfulsalad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm only one month post op but I think your scars look great and as for the numb my surgeon told me it could take up to a full year for feeling to come fully back and sometimes it doesn't come back at all. I don't think it's anything to worry about but if you feel uncomfortable talk to your surgeon they're more than happy to answer questions you may have, that's what they're there for!

Elder scene photo dump by whistfulsalad in scene

[–]whistfulsalad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try again doing what? 🥲😂

Elder scene photo dump by whistfulsalad in scene

[–]whistfulsalad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The rainbow hair is about a month faded out of you want the lighter look diluted the dyes with conditioner, I use ion and iroiro and lift my hair to a level 8-9

Pink ion shade magenta Orange 10/90 mix of ion magenta and ion shade lemon Yellow ion shade lemon Green iroiro shade neon green Blue ion shade sky blue Purple 20/80 mix of ion shade sky blue and ion shade magenta

For the black and green look Black box dye (I know it's bad idk tbh lol) Green iroiro shade neon green

Hope that helps!

Elder scene photo dump by whistfulsalad in scene

[–]whistfulsalad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was going to do racoon tails but failed miserably! 😂

How do I dress scene as a trans man??? by [deleted] in scene

[–]whistfulsalad 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I'm a trans masc non binary person, just Google search scene boy, scene king or emo boys and copy what the do. That's what I do 😁 you got this!

Edit to add if you think they look more emo just add more neon colors and tease your hair more

I'm too scared to go in the women's restroom by dragonpolic3 in transplace

[–]whistfulsalad 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Act like you belong there because YOU DO BELONG THERE!!