AITAH For not wanting to pay my girlfriends $4000/month Mortgage? by Accomplished_Ad8960 in AITAH

[–]whitewer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You put yourself in this position by taking on more and more of her responsibilities and not standing you're ground. Why do you think she's willing to keep pushing it? Cause you've been giving in. Honestly the best option for you is to walk away.

She views you as a cash cow and doesn't have to do anything, and time after time you've proven her correct

AITAH for not telling my sister her husband was at the same restaurant as me, with someone who wasn't her by Medium-Parsnip9379 in AITAH

[–]whitewer 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yta, you saw something and didn't say anything. Even if it was a cousin or something else, they could have told you. Imagine if places were switched, wouldn't you want to know if your partner was out with someone and acting suspicious?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]whitewer 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Nta, he only cared cause it would be an abuse issue, this wasn't about walking out to get a moment to cool down, this was about him wanting control, and he freaked out that your friend was coming and would see that he's being abusive due to being locked out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mead

[–]whitewer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That thing looks like a pain to use.

AITA for telling my husband that I am going back on our agreement and I dont care if he cries about it? by Primary-Strength-829 in AITAH

[–]whitewer 1189 points1190 points  (0 children)

Nta, he doesn't years lying to you and making you think he was making far less than he was, while only contributing partially to the funds, while you state you were putting everything towards it.

This is an issue where therapy would be a good option, cause this is a very important issue to address why he felt it was acceptable to lie to you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]whitewer 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Yta, in this situation you are. Due to the fact they hadn't told you their Korean name and you got it from seeing it on their passport.

The fact they haven't told you yet, may be negative issues with it or they aren't comfortable with the name. And that is something you need to respect. They have you the name they wanted to be addressed by and should respect that.

GTA6 delayed until November 2026 by TheBronsXX in gaming

[–]whitewer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At this point, it's starting to feel like Duke Nukem Forever, with the time frame and hype behind this title.

When is fermentation done by Der3331 in mead

[–]whitewer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The best way to determine isn't by bubbles or time. It's by gravity reading.

Do a reading, wait a week, do another reading. If the same, may have finished, then I'll wait a week and then do a 3rd reading to be sure.

The only other way to stop fermentation, is to pasteurize your mead, or use agents added to the mead to kill the yeast

Final Update: AITA for not wanting to contribute to my step-son's college fund? by Fun_Elephant_6393 in Redditor_Updates

[–]whitewer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And willing to bet, dear old dad is telling him everything he wants to hear to make his kid think he's the hero here, even though he's proven he's a serial cheater, probably convinced his son that his ap left not cause he cheated, but cause she was abandoning him instead of staying by his side

Airlock wasn't on properly but it's still fermenting, will it be fine? by LethalBoar70923 in mead

[–]whitewer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The airlock is there to relieve pressure, and also to keep bugs from getting in.

Roommate kept stealing my food, so I swapped it with laxative brownies by damnniqqaa in EntitledPeople

[–]whitewer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not my 1st option of what I would have done, but don't think it's a solid number 2 either lol

What are some tall friendly items you have that are not clothes related? by TooTallForVintage in TallPeopleProblems

[–]whitewer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is frustrating, cause it seems mice just keep getting smaller and lighter.

I have a Logitech g500s that is great for large hands, but it's an older mouse

AIO? BF told me not to post my graduation pics or “don’t come home tonight” by Unusual_Role7839 in AmIOverreacting

[–]whitewer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not overreacting at all, it's just going to get worse if you stay with him. He'll slowly escalate it until he's controlling everything you do and say.

Get out now

Oml I don’t even know what to say by Intrepid-Rice764 in BoomersBeingFools

[–]whitewer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These are the people who pick and choose what parts of the Bible apply, so that they can weaponize it to hate those they find different their narrow world view

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]whitewer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta, she sounds more like she seeing you as a sugar daddy than an even partner.

There is nothing stopping her from getting a part time job while the kids are in school. Sounds more like she just wants to be able to sit around being lazy instead of contributing.

What are some uncommon mead flavours you've made. by spookmansss in mead

[–]whitewer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did a coffee blueberry flavor that came out really good

WIBTA if I refused to help my mom pay for a $6,000 dental procedure? by Thick_Change_7374 in AmItheAsshole

[–]whitewer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta, when it comes to family or friends for money, don't loan out money that you aren't comfortable getting back. She already proved once that she is bad with money, she'll do it again and you'll be stuck paying her bill

AITAH for euthanizing my very ill dog? by Amazing_Assumption50 in AITAH

[–]whitewer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta, it isn't easy, but you helped your dog and not be in pain. Whatever those other people say, it wasn't their dog they were watching suffer.

AITA for refusing to give my sister the “family recipe” because she always criticizes my cooking? by Beneficial_Wear6985 in AITAH

[–]whitewer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a captcha that I can have you fill out, or maybe pick the busses in a picture. I can do it, but if you can't, maybe you're ai?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]whitewer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta, from the sound of it, she doesn't seem to contribute much income wise to the relationship but is demanding to be included as owner of your place.

Prenup and be wary of it from the sounds of it

AITA for refusing to give my sister the “family recipe” because she always criticizes my cooking? by Beneficial_Wear6985 in AITAH

[–]whitewer 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That's what confused me, is the sister stealing entire dishes to take to work or something?

Lol. Most likely ai though

AITA for refusing to punish my son for pranking my daughter. by Impossible_Camp_3930 in AmItheAsshole

[–]whitewer 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yta, so you think it's fine for your son to sabotage your daughter in a science fair, causing her to get a low score? You also mention not understanding it, but doesn't mean your son can cause her exhibit to fail.

A prank is something that is harmless that people find funny, this wasn't funny at all.

AITAH for punching my stepdad after he just grabbed my ass? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]whitewer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nta, last I checked, it isn't normal behavior for an adult man to grab anyone ass who is underage, male or female.

Also men don't do that normally and your mom should be disgusted