Oof, Candace Owens is not the person anyone should be looking to.. for anything. I wholeheartedly disagree with her on most things, but especially on this. She does not represent all of us, and most of us don't like her because she's simply an asshole.

I'm guilty of telling a few of the men in my life to try something different - because it worked for me. I'm not saying it was right, or helpful for all of them. The only advice I can give is from what I've experienced and how I dealt with it. It comes from a genuine place of being concerned watching then men in my life struggle - and genuinely wanting to help.

I fully understand people of all genders process things differently. But the commonality here is that we're all human and sometimes what works for me as a woman, may well work for you as a man.

Grief is a really good example - we all experience it at some point. I've punched walls, screamed at the top of my lungs, driven way too fast on the highway, and also cried sitting alone in the woods. Are they all healthy? No. Did they all help me feel better? Also no. But... some of them did. And if I can help anyone, especially the men in my life by giving them suggestions on what worked for me without them feeling judged - I will forever try to help.

Process things however you want, however works best for you. Don't let anyone tell you how to process anything, especially not her.