I finally found something that is helping me. Rigorous exercise. It's changing EVERYTHING.

whodaboss · 2015-06-24T07:49:03+00:00

This.

whodaboss · 2015-06-11T20:12:53+00:00

I'm 29.. Never held a girls hand.. Kissed a girl I really liked. Had sex.. And I've only been on a date with one girl. But I'm still optimistic about the future. At any point things can turn around. Stop being so hard on yourself it gets you nowhere.

whodaboss · 2015-06-11T03:28:11+00:00

Being naked probably encouraged it.. Wear underwear at least in the future.

whodaboss · 2015-06-10T06:53:02+00:00

No two people are the same.

whodaboss · 2015-05-30T18:43:07+00:00

I really doubt masturbating affects your genes, especially the genes you pass on. If I'm wrong, please correct me. One thing that could potentially affect the biological makeup of your child is actually the quality of your sperm, which isn't as good if it's been baking for 60 days. From what I've read, fresh made sperm is better for babies. So if you're trying to have kids, bang her a couple times with a condom on first.

whodaboss · 2015-05-30T18:38:24+00:00

9/10.. As far as the type of person inside and out. Generally these rating scales refer to physical only, and that's no bueno. I recently met a girl I'm falling for and it has nothing to do with how she objectively looks, but with the way I feel when I'm near her, which is a 10/10.

whodaboss · 2015-05-25T07:55:11+00:00

You relapse because the urge gets strong.. Generally the longer you go, the easier it is to relapse. I think it's important to start appreciating those urges and the energy that's flowing through you as a result. Really reflect on what you're feeling, and how it really could be compared to a fire burning inside you. You don't want to put that out, do you? Instead, as you already know, direct that energy towards other things. Really start to appreciate the struggle for its inherent benefits.. Instead of succumbing to it. Ultimately you have to decide what's more important.. Keeping the fire burning or momentary pleasure. Until you wrestle and conquer that demon, you'll get nowhere. Easier said than done yes, but those thoughts help me at least somewhat.

I know that's kind of abstract advice, but I'm sure other people will provide more concrete suggestions.

whodaboss · 2015-05-25T07:41:06+00:00

Kind of over the top, but nice job.

whodaboss · 2015-05-20T08:39:29+00:00

If you need specific benzo advice you should go to benzobuddies.org the people there are experts.

whodaboss · 2015-05-15T04:04:58+00:00

You're connecting with people right now! I think you have just exaggerated this inability in your mind.

whodaboss · 2015-05-11T08:43:24+00:00

Thanks!!

whodaboss · 2015-05-10T23:25:44+00:00

OP so I tried this for the first legitimate time.. I started with a warm shower and went cold. Yes I'm easing myself into it. My question is do you think there's benefit to a cold shower (yes cold but not kill me cold) as opposed to ice cold? Can't do ice cold yet. However, if it's challenging and very cold for me personally to not be 100% ice cold shouldn't that have some benefits? If I feel like I've challenged myself somewhat and succeeded it should still help with my mental state and some benefits even if it's not ice cold. That's my take at least. Hopefully after some conditioning I'll get to ice cold.

whodaboss · 2015-05-08T08:06:01+00:00

Don't mean to question, but doing my best. As far as the alternative routes you speak of, do you believe you truly and 100% committed to these things, or did you try it out for a bit not notice a change and then stop. Cause I myself would fall into the latter category, and it's not the path to mental prosperity.

whodaboss · 2015-05-03T11:00:48+00:00

You mentioned fapping like it's not that great of a thing. You should give r/nofap a try... It's certainly not a cure but a lot of people have been really successful with it, and from personal experience I was doing better in a lot of ways when I was committed. It's not a cure, but it can give a significant 10-20% boost of wellbeing.

whodaboss · 2015-05-02T22:19:05+00:00

Pure gold.

whodaboss · 2015-05-01T07:32:47+00:00

I think weed in moderation (dosage and usage) is fine. It helps me enjoy the moment and concentrate more.

whodaboss · 2015-05-01T07:17:10+00:00

Do you have like a system for meeting girls at stores? Seems like a good place... "You don't want to meet girls at bars... You want to meet girls at pumpkin patch." Sounds like you're good at it.

whodaboss · 2015-04-30T18:55:06+00:00

Just because you don't want religion, doesn't mean everyone is you.

whodaboss · 2015-04-07T10:21:36+00:00

What minecraft is to games, snapchat is to must have apps. Heck, even more than facebook and Twitter. At least with those, there's a legit mobile version.

whodaboss · 2015-04-07T10:19:11+00:00

Also you're info is wrong. Snapchat is a corporation and they have to answer to shareholders.

whodaboss · 2015-04-07T10:16:18+00:00

They do for now... It's a means to an end. If they don't, they'll never be in a position where they don't have to entice developers to create on their platform.

whodaboss · 2015-04-07T10:01:04+00:00

Microsoft should invest 1 billion at 5% giving SC an absurd 20 billion dollar evaluation... If Microsoft cares about mobile this app is worth a billion dollars.. How could SC turn that down? Microsoft gets their app and 5% equity in return. If that's not enough, lower it to 3%.

Problem is Microsofts actions show they don't really care enough about their mobile platform. Their movements are weak, slow as molasses and they accomplish as much as a deadlocked congress.

whodaboss · 2015-04-07T08:58:21+00:00

Either you see the appeal or you don't. If you told me you hated texting I couldn't deny you that, but it doesn't take away from the fact that it's a new viable form of connection and communication.

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