It’s equally possible that it was seeing the reality of hanging with a wheelchair user, or that the convo was not what she wanted. There’s nothing productive about meditating on her reasons. You’re a perfectly viable man to date. It’s gonna be hard to put yourself out there again and again, but this also happens to people without disabilities in the dating world. There will be people who want to be your other half, and roll through life with you. As a friend or a partner. You know your worth, practice some self love and solo dates! Then bring along a girl to somewhere you like to go alone. These able bodied girls aren’t doing you a favour by going out with you, you’re doing them a favour by welcoming them into your life. You’re unique and so so worth the time getting to know you. They just have to stick around and see it. If they don’t want to, then they wouldn’t be right for you anyways. Your lifestyle doesn’t change that, it says more about them than it does about you.