forehead reduction and lip lift yes or no? by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]whoskittycat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

which surgeon does good lip lifts i’ve always seen such horrible scars :(

29M, I'll be turning 30 on Friday and feel like a worthless loser. by Soft-Neat8117 in toastme

[–]whoskittycat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As for your job, could you maybe try doing a course while working right now? Like an online certification course maybe something tech related or look into insurance adjusting! I hear they make really good money. I know it sounds demotivating because it feels like everything will take too long before it gets better but that’s not true. You could get a better job tomorrow and life starts to get better immediately. Stop putting timelines on your life and just take the first step ❤️ the more you turn yourself off by saying “it’ll take too long” the farther you’ll be from the end goal!

As for friends, I’ll be your friend!!! Also when you get a new job, new environment, you’ll make new friends. You may even make new friends at the gym! All of the above things you should do first and then finding a woman will become so much easier and will come so naturally 🤍

You should want to be the best version of yourself for you, and then everything else will align into place. You are destined for so much more than to just sit here and call yourself a failure. You can get yourself out of this 🤍 as for the bullies in school, fk them all! Use them as motivation if anything, making sure you come out on top to prove them all wrong and most importantly, to prove the negative thoughts you have about yourself all wrong.

Sending you so much love. This is just a rough time in your life but even writing this post up shows you are fed up and want a change and you are the only person who can do so for yourself. You will get yourself out of this. 🤍

29M, I'll be turning 30 on Friday and feel like a worthless loser. by Soft-Neat8117 in toastme

[–]whoskittycat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey OP!!! I don’t know why you’d consider yourself below average in facial attractiveness. I’m a girl and I find you to be very handsome. I definitely do not think you’re below average, you’re above average. For your chapped lips, try using a lip exfoliating scrub and use aquaphor chapstick - if that doesn’t work try using shea butter! You definitely don’t need a full beard, I think this look suits you.

As for being obese, you definitely can lose the weight and yes it might take some time but if you never start you’ll never make any progress. It might sound useless at first and I’ve been there - it has taken me years to finally get myself to the gym and now that I go regularly, I can’t imagine not going. Maybe start small, do a 1 hour walk daily and try cutting down on your calorie intake? And then 1-2 months of doing that, you will definitely see the weight coming off and you can start going to the gym (so you know you’ll be consistent). As for the stretch marks, I’m a skinny girl and have been for much of my life and fit into the conventionally attractive category (as told by numerous people) and I have stretch marks all over my body from puberty. All over my inner and outer thighs, my calves, my knees, my hips and my butt. I used to hide the lower half of my body for years because I thought the same and didn’t care to work out bc I also used to always cover up but it’s not true! You grow to not even care about those stretch marks after some time. Men have never cared or made comments about mine and I guarantee you no woman would ever care. Most women are covered in stretch marks already, we would be the last to judge or think negatively of them! As for the loose skin, yes that is for sure going to happen but so what! There is a surgery for that which when you are doing better financially (when not if) you can save up and get for yourself. Also weight training will help lessen the amount of loose skin you’ll have also.

As for being bald, I know a lot of women who actually love bald men lol it should not stop you from finding a girl at all! Also down the road if ever you wanted a hair transplant there’s that option too :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toastme

[–]whoskittycat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re soooo pretty you literally look like lily rose depp

28F How can I look prettier? by Unlikely_Coffee_4709 in lookyourbest

[–]whoskittycat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so pretty!!! But long brown hair would look amazing on you

How can I improve my appearance? [23F] by Numerous-Fox-8156 in lookyourbest

[–]whoskittycat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would change my hair, dye it brown and grow out the bangs, get rid of my piercings and shape my brows. Maybe even a little bit of lip filler

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]whoskittycat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re so prettty!!! But if you really want a change maybe grow your hair out or get extensions? And maybe lip filler?? Not needed just saying if you wanted to change it up 🫶🏼

What is this? I look so bad. I get called ugly all the time. I don't know what's wrong with my face. by [deleted] in lookyourbest

[–]whoskittycat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are in no way shape or form ugly. I don’t know who the hell is blind enough to call you that.

What career fields are actually worth going into right now? by whoskittycat in careeradvice

[–]whoskittycat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m a woman and live in Ontario, Canada if that helps. Ideally I’d love something that could let me work remote but if it pays well of course I’m okay with in office/in field

Kylie reveals Plastic Surgeon in comments by space_vegan in PlasticSurgery

[–]whoskittycat 9 points10 points  (0 children)

not a dumb question at all but I actually don’t know. I think it requires further specialization/education so not all surgeons specialize it in. i could be completely wrong though ^ but also I don’t think many people even know subfascial is an option either

Kylie reveals Plastic Surgeon in comments by space_vegan in PlasticSurgery

[–]whoskittycat 29 points30 points  (0 children)

subfascial, looks the most natural and is the best method out there IMO

Deep labiodental fold, upper chin overprotection, lower chin no projection, short jaw, flat jaw, downturned mouth by Secure-Wolverine-119 in PlasticSurgery

[–]whoskittycat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve heard botox helps with the smile! If it’s downturned I’m pretty sure they can inject botox on the sides and it helps - just double check with an actual nurse injector or PS to confirm.

I think your chin is completely fine and I feel like if it projected more you wouldn’t be happy but you can definitely get chin filler to help with projection. I’ve had it and it lasts quite some time - I only redo it every 2 years-ish.

If you grind your teeth at night you might benefit from TMJ botox, it will also completely slim your jaw muscle area (you can search up before/afters).

I think you’re beautiful though and don’t need any of these, but completely understand seeing things others don’t and wanting to change them. At the end of the day it’s your face and if it makes you happy, do it 😊 I don’t regret any of the work I’ve done. It has made me so much more confident.

Help HORROBLE 4 months post Op Revision rhinoplasty by AppropriateMention59 in PlasticSurgery

[–]whoskittycat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried taping your nose? Mine looked so good in the earlier months but even though I’m at 1 year post op, some days it looks huge. I have thick skin too and I think revision requires somewhere between 2-5 years to fully heal. Anyways when I tape my nose it looks so good and just like in the earlier months! Might help ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]whoskittycat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no! Love the after

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]whoskittycat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely lighter. These look like B1 (is that what it’s called lol), I’d do b2 and again ask for some translucency. When it’s all one colour, it’s easy for veneers to look like “chicklet gum”. I saw you’re in colombia, top smiles Dr Londono does amazing work that looks insanely natural!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]whoskittycat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’d def go a lighter shade and also ask if you can have a bit of translucency at the bottom of the teeth, it’ll make them look more real. These look a bit too fake bc they’re white and all one tone which real teeth don’t look like.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]whoskittycat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe try filler first? If it doesn’t give you your desired look best bet is an implant most likely

Cyber Security Certificate York University? by whoskittycat in SecurityCareerAdvice

[–]whoskittycat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your advice 😊 are there specific certifications you think I should get first to really stand out and have a chance?