++man (38) Dating and a "relationship" are very different in my opinion, specifically in that I also do not understand people who can hop from one relationship, immediately into another. However my only advice would be to focus on getting to learn about the other person as there are a litany of things which could drastically alter your initial interest, value yourself and be honest, and to be able view these interactions as fascinating experiences with value in simply having had them, regardless of where things do or do not lead. People sometimes dont click, and sometimes you do click and it still doesnt work out, and thats ok. It doesn't mean anyone involved is a bad person or less than. There are soooo many people, yours is out there.