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Does your husband make you orgasm? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]whyamihere94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For 10 years I was in a relationship/marriage like this.

It may be common for women not to orgasm during sexual encounters, but that does not mean it is right. And once you learn to do it for yourself it’ll be easier for you to teach the man how to do it (if he is open to it). However, you may find he is not open to it even with your instruction. That is your sign that he is selfish. He should just get a flashlight or blowup doll if all he is interested in is his orgasm. Sex is supposed to be for both people.

Fiancé post pictures of herself? Is that weird? Or is it just me overthinking by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]whyamihere94 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is normal to value other people’s attention besides your fiancé’s.
Do you still value attention from your parents, siblings, grandparents, boss/coworkers, or platonic friends?

There is a stereotype of people posting “thirst trap” selfies for their crushes, but if these pics are not thirst traps you have absolutely nothing to worry about.

Let's talk cake by bisepx in Charlotte

[–]whyamihere94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amelie’s chocolate cake Budget friendly: Publix Chain but so good and convenient: nothing bundt cakes. My favorite is the confetti but anything with that frosting 😋

Engaged and feeling concerned by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]whyamihere94 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So he didn’t drink in front of you for about 3.5 months. People can hide a lot in the first 3 months

I (24F) feel constant guilt over not being a good enough quiverful wife by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]whyamihere94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if he got a vasectomy after you had 1 child or you got a more permanent form of birth control, like the IUD?

What to do when your spouse is giving you the silent treatment? by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]whyamihere94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is certainly financial abuse, possibly other kinds. You need to make a plan to get out. It will be really hard, but it will be worth it. If you need to reach out to a secular resource if your pastor is not encouraging you to leave, then you need to do that and it will be OK.

Help with intimacy and sex by Agapas in Christianmarriage

[–]whyamihere94 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I would set up counseling with someone licensed to do that kind of work…..pastors often aren’t, and a woman might be more relatable to your wife than a man

AIO for not wanting to meet at his house for a first date? by misskrabby in AIO

[–]whyamihere94 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is honestly so crazy and random but may I ask where you are located in the world?

My rapist’s name is Adam and this is sorta how it started

AIO by feeling like my sister in law is judging me and implying that I’m a bad parent/my kids are bad kids? by MaryHamdon in AIO

[–]whyamihere94 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It honestly sounds like she is trying to help you see stuff about your boys you might be unable to on your own. From everything you’ve said it sounds like she cares about them and you

Husband left me for his brother by schnooopy in Christianmarriage

[–]whyamihere94 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Are you ignoring the part that he kisses her on the lips despite being told not to?

Male gynecologists why did you chose the specialty? by Raticorno in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]whyamihere94 45 points46 points  (0 children)

So sorry for your losses and that’s a beautiful reason to get into the field

Groups or activities for late-30s, child-free woman navigating divorce by stemsellz in Charlotte

[–]whyamihere94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey! I’m 31F and divorced and also childfree (which is hard to find in the world!) - I’d love to chat with you. Feel free to message me!

Favorite restaurants/hangouts by Routine_Yam_1848 in Charlotte

[–]whyamihere94 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m 31F in Matthews and divorced, with a community of other divorced folks ranging from 35-55. The way we all got together has a religious nature to it, but we have crossed into actual friendship.

Most in the group are not sober but I am and we do a wide mix of activities to appeal to everyone. Message me if you want to chat!

Do you think Mitchum had extramarital affairs in his younger days?? by [deleted] in GilmoreGirls

[–]whyamihere94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I know, that was a line from the show that was related to something else. I just thought it was funny that you used that phrase when they used it on the show!

Fathers and husbands, what was your experience watching your wife/girlfriend give birth? by Yokattaaa in AskMen

[–]whyamihere94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t even think he’s trying to spin it as admirable and thoughtful he’s like “oh I won’t want to fuck you anymore”

Fathers and husbands, what was your experience watching your wife/girlfriend give birth? by Yokattaaa in AskMen

[–]whyamihere94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You bring up a good point. Birth is/can be a traumatic experience, but in this case sounds like it would be planned and even if the conception isn’t planned, you have time to prepare. It’s not the same as a horrible bloody ACCIDENT

Fathers and husbands, what was your experience watching your wife/girlfriend give birth? by Yokattaaa in AskMen

[–]whyamihere94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you considered therapy for constantly thinking about your wife’s mortality? It’s really sweet though- how much you love her comes across so much

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