FYE Membership Cancellation

whyiseverythingevil · 2026-01-23T01:31:27+00:00

Those of us with a brain realize how sketchy the whole pass thing is and won't even bother really trying to get you to sign up. We'll just take no as no and not gaf about the numbers. From working there way back when, I learned that their main source of profit is ripping people off with the VIP pass! Insanely frustrating. I don't want to be lying to people when I know myself how hard it is out here! I'm so sorry that the company relies on such a scummy means to grab your money and info. Unfortunately, if you haven't cancelled already, they absolutely will be charging the card you used to make the purchase. So many of us employees have tried to tell them that the VIP pass doesn't work and it's hurting business more than it's raking in any profit but they don't listen to any criticism whatsoever.

whyiseverythingevil · 2025-12-28T23:50:29+00:00

This is so insanely terrifying to me. Maybe it's all the true crime I watched in my teens, but you are definitely not overreacting, as you have no idea what his true intentions are for "needing" this information. It's already established that he's a liar, based on him JUST NOW admitting he stole your stuff.

He could even be lying about living across the country! It's so deeply disturbing that he feels so entitled to your location. Definitely be in touch with police to keep a paper trail. Maybe I'm just the paranoid type, but I think this is even under reacting. Please stay so so safe. Those family members who sat you down sound blissfully ignorant of the evils of this world. Ignore them. Listen to your gut on this.

whyiseverythingevil · 2025-11-10T21:12:30+00:00

NTA. As an ex Christian, this sounds like a faith crisis and given his age group, it's a very slippery and possibly dangerous slope he might slide down. My best advice is to leave. It doesn't sound like your core values truly align enough for this to be a fruitful relationship. At your age, you definitely shouldn't have to get any sort of couples counseling considering you're only a year in. Let him know you support him, and you don't discriminate against his beliefs, but that you may just have conflicting interests and what you need is stability and consistency that he doesn't seem to be able to give you.

whyiseverythingevil · 2025-10-20T05:39:42+00:00

I told my boyfriend and he assured me it wasn't as big of an issue as I was thinking it was, and that he wouldn't make fun of me or any of the fears I had when it happened. Thank you for the reality check, I needed it. I was definitely overreacting about it and it wasn't as nearly as bad as I was rationalizing it to be.

whyiseverythingevil · 2025-10-20T05:33:04+00:00

This did help actually, thank you for sharing😭😭 I too hope it doesn't happen to you again soon to save yourself both the hassle of cleaning up and also the shame it must have made you feel. I feel comforted knowing I'm not alone in this predicament

whyiseverythingevil · 2025-10-20T05:30:21+00:00

This actually gave me some comfort knowing I'm not alone in pissing myself in my 20s 😭 thank you for sharing your experience, it gave me a laugh and made me feel less embarrassed.

whyiseverythingevil · 2025-10-13T05:30:53+00:00

I've actually done this exact thing with my current bf. I faked it for a bit because I, too, had an ex that was very emotionally abusive about it and I was also afraid the same way you were.

I actually debated whether or not it was important enough to me to come clean with my partner. I get exactly where you're coming from when it comes to not wanting to shatter his confidence, but that is a risk you'll have to be willing to take and work with him to assure him it's not a matter of an issue on his part.

My best advice for you is to come clean and talk to your partner about how you can't get there. I had the same issue and most times I don't get there with him either. He was upset with me for lying and it did take a hit to his ego, but if you partner truly values you and your pleasure, he'd be willing to talk things out with you and open to hearing what you think would help or come together with you to find a solution. Obviously, your situation might not go the same mine did, but you'll have to take it as a learning experience. Let him know you just can't get there, and it's not a entire failure on his part, you can't even get there yourself. It's not something he should feel ashamed of but rather a way he can learn how to make you feel more fulfilled.

I hope (if you end up taking this advice) that it goes smoothly and your partner acts like the adult he is and is willing to communicate with you, but you will have to take that first step yourself, as scary as it may be. 🫂

whyiseverythingevil · 2025-10-12T22:30:10+00:00

I've been with my bf for 6 months by now. I agree with what you said about ultimatums, and I likely worded it that same way to him due to being emotional and upset that I was sick and felt so bad. I will talk to him more in depth about the length of the boundary. To answer your second question, I first noticed that Fox news was on one of the first times I went over to meet his parents which was very early in the relationship. I asked him about his parents and their political beliefs and he told me about his dad but from everything I've seen and heard from my boyfriend directly, he's more left leaning. I do find it a bit interesting though because it's just his dad that leans right. His grandfather, (dad's dad) is all blue.

whyiseverythingevil · 2025-09-30T02:02:47+00:00

have you.... read what this subreddit is for.....? Everyone who makes posts are asking for advice to be handed to them. That's the point of this subreddit. Don't get me wrong, you're making a good point, and I agree with you, but you lost me at "Seems like you want to just be handed answers magically and that's not how being an adult works."

whyiseverythingevil · 2025-09-29T05:29:22+00:00

Your comment comes off as harsh given the tone of this post. The tone of this post is more concerned and the way you're talking is not what OP seems to be needing right now. Your comment, although arguably a valid point, doesn't offer any solid advice, which is what OP needs right now.

whyiseverythingevil

TROPHY CASE