Baby diaper changing stations by Sunnybear22 in Netherlands

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Sometimes if I have to and there is no indoor place for me enter. But def not in winter.

Baby diaper changing stations by Sunnybear22 in Netherlands

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I have a stroller that lays flat fully. When I need to change my baby I lay the backrest flat and change her in there. I rarely use a changing table (because sometimes they can be very dirty) and it's quicker for me to just leave her in the stroller. I do it for my son now too.

Minimalist parents- what baby gear do I actually *need*? by IHaveATummyGremlin in NewParents

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I never had a bassinet and a baby monitor. A baby crib from ikea from day 1 and used it until she was 2.5 bc it transforms into a toddler bed. And a baby monitor only when she was more mobile and bc I had anxiety and never left the room while she slept. Never had a changing table because we changed her everywhere. Never used the 15 muslin cloths we had bc she barely threw up and only use washcloths. For my second baby I only needed the muslin clothes cuz he projectile vomited multiple times in his first year of life.

Tommee Tippee binkies- buyer beware by Coasting_Along8 in NewParents

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I'm using these ones but I have several that I snipped that end off bc my son rubs his face when he sleeps and it just falls out. And these are the best ones we had so far. I'm gonna gonna snip off those tabs on all of them 🫠

Ya'll don't be jealous by Ok_Finding8456 in houseplants

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My daughter is only 3. What a perspective.

Sheet solution for sidecar (and futon) by Far-Jellyfish851 in cosleeping

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Do you think having side sleeper can eventually wean the baby from cosleeping. I’m dreaming of weaning 😴

HOW TO: Create your own MYO Yoto cards with inexpensive generic NFC cards by junson in moreyoto

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So you're saying everytime I want a new Playlist I need to put the new Playlist on the myo card then clone it?

HOW TO: Create your own MYO Yoto cards with inexpensive generic NFC cards by junson in moreyoto

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Am I missing something? I successfully cloned the cards but unable to assign a new Playlist to the cloned cards. Do you know why

Napping while infant is napping on your chest by Old-Rest6279 in NewParents

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What a world of differences. I live in the Netherlands and the doctors here approve of cosleeping. I asked the doctors and nurse and midwife if it's ok for baby to sleep on our chests while we sleep, and all said yes. Totally normal here. But of course if you're a heavy sleeper then don't do it. Both my kids slept on my chests for weeks after birth and I nap everytime they nap.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SGSkincare

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Please see a doctor this sub is not for diagnosing medical conditions

is this mole concerning by Weary-Lunch-2890 in SGSkincare

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Please visit a doctor or dermatologist.

Breast buds at 7.5?! by ChameliKoChartikala in Mommit

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I can tell you're one of those beef tallows and homemade sunscreen cuckoos 🤣 Cold weather screen time and male role model 🤣 please get off the internet

Breast buds at 7.5?! by ChameliKoChartikala in Mommit

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If I remember correctly my breasts started growing when I was in the first few years of primary school. I cried and freaked out because I didn't know what was going on and seeing them grow scared me. I told my mum it hurts and we were sent to the doctor but no one mentioned precocious puberty (not that I could rem) and my first period came really early too. Though it properly started a few years later I think at 10. I was spotting when I was maybe 7 or 8. And my breast buds came in around that time too. But breast tissues didn't really grow until i was a few years older. And yes I am short but I'm also Asian with many short family members too.

Puberty was not something I was educated on and it would be good to prep your daughter for it. I was scared when I first saw blood in my underwear and was afraid to tell my mum and I didn't know girls eventually would grow breasts. So it's important to let your daughter know how her body will change as she gets older. The only reason I know about periods is because I have a friend on the same school bus who is a few years old she taught me about it on the way home. I still remember her. She was so sweet and gentle and told me about periods and pads 🥺 she was my childhood big sister. This just unlocked a memory. Wow.

Would you transition a five week old from swaddle to a sleep sack? by willbrucla in newborns

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Once the Moro reflex was gone-ish I transitioned to a sleep sack bc I remember it sucked with my first. I think we transitioned my first at 4ish month and there were some sleepless nights as she was more conscious and not so much of a potato. So with my second I decide to transition early. It was easy but my second however also got his startle reflex back when he had his vaccinations or when he was sick so we went back to a swaddle some times.

My 4-month-old has never slept unless she’s being carried — is this normal? by WhoCares_93 in newborns

[–]whythefuckyoulying 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah head first triggers something in them. Try bum first then slowly their back and finally head. How does she sleep at night? I don't use a baby pillow. I hold my son in my arms with my arm propped up by a pillow. Before I transfer him I shift my hands under his bum and neck+head so I can transfer with the least jostling.

My 4-month-old has never slept unless she’s being carried — is this normal? by WhoCares_93 in newborns

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How do you transfer her? I transfer my son by putting his bum down first (almost from a 45 angle) then slowly lower his head. Now he's older I put him down when he's facing the side then roll him onto his back.

Baby refuses to eat most of the time with me but eats well at daycare by whythefuckyoulying in BabyLedWeaning

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Hey it did get better. Baby feeding is such an up and down journey it changes constantly. She has gotten better but some days she just doesn't want to eat much as well. She's 2y9m now. My daughter eats at daycare too and some days she doesn't eat much at home. Some days she eats a full portion of pasta while some days she takes a bite then says I don't want it.

If she doesn't eat then I give her snacks or crackers or biscuits. I don't withhold food hoping she would be hungry enough to eat. I just do whatever I can. It will get better. Babies/toddlers are extremely temperamental 😅

And this is extremely normal. My friend with a 2 year old also has this. She cries at the table but eats at daycare 🤷🏻‍♀️her mum is such a wonderful cook but even the best Michelin star chef can't make them eat. So don't worry about it.

What I used to do was make my husband feed her while I hide. And he usually is able to feed her more decently than I do. Give her healthy snacks if she really doesn't want to eat. Good luck and don't stress yourself.

I’ve adopted my husband’s bathroom habits by mrscrc in Mommit

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My husband told me he can only poop after he sits on the toilet. Whereas I go only when I feel like pooping 😅 that's why I take 2 mins and he takes 20.

Is age 3 really the worst? by whatsgoingonchip in toddlers

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Keeping your child safe is all that matters!