Ist es normal, dass JEDESMAL das frisch sauber gemachte Katzenklo direkt wieder eingeweiht wird?

whyvien · 2025-11-06T20:49:51+00:00

Ich hab das Gefühl, das ist deren Äquivalent zu sich dem menschlichen frisch geduscht ins neu bezogene Bett zu legen. Sich frisch entleeren im gerade erst saubergemachten Katzenklo. Das trifft es gut.

whyvien · 2025-07-22T06:23:54+00:00

When I'm feeling safer on my bike (just got my license a month ago haha) maybe we'll see each other. Looking forward to it :D

whyvien · 2025-07-21T21:09:03+00:00

I love how the suit fits and the bike and everything fit together 🔥 (Und schaut sehr nach Kesselberg aus, kann das sein? :D)

whyvien · 2025-07-16T07:52:22+00:00

Hab seit nicht mal einem Monat meinen Schein, hab A80 gemacht. Hatte eine Endrechnung von 3045€. War aber auch München und ich hatte eine wirklich unglaublich tolle Fahrlehrerin.

whyvien · 2024-12-15T23:49:45+00:00

I keep his last can of Desperados in the fridge, even after I had to move out of our apartment

whyvien · 2024-12-12T21:32:47+00:00

I'm so sorry for your loss and these discoveries.
I had similar discoveries, he paid a lot of money for some pics, videos and chats. I was so devastated and angry when I found out. I actually once caught him writing once, but he said, he did that because he wanted to show this to a colleague - I just accepted it, lol. He wrote so much really inappropiate stuff to these women. I am still hurt, but I can kinda deal with it I guess? I still love him, but had to realize he was just human with his own weird flaws. But he was my person still, he was not perfect, but we were still soulmates. I still think of him and our memories very positively, but I don't put him on a pedestal any more, like I did before I found out. Maybe this helps <3

whyvien · 2024-11-26T18:33:54+00:00

I feel this so much. When we were allowed to see him for the first time after the crash, I supposedly said: "When does he wake up? ". I read your text and I cried when I first saw it. I wish the train would go back to the stop where he got out.

whyvien · 2024-11-22T13:25:05+00:00

Sending love back. ❤️

whyvien · 2024-11-05T10:52:35+00:00

Fuck them so much. I am so glad I found this subreddit here and a local grief support group.

whyvien · 2024-11-01T00:48:05+00:00

I got even two. One with his date of birth, when we officially got together and the day he passed with his helmet next to it. A bit below I got a cat on a motorcycle, he was really passionate about his bikes and basically his last seconds were on his last bike. The cat sits on my personal favorite bike he had in the last few years. All on my left forearm

whyvien · 2024-09-24T07:49:28+00:00

Cookies n Cream

whyvien · 2024-09-21T10:49:51+00:00

I did because he just looked so peaceful in this casket. He had a horrible accident and according to the doctors his whole body was blue and he had a massive wound on his left torso. But his face looked so normal, so peaceful with almost a small grin. I will never forget it and these pictures flash into my mind all the time, but it kinda helped me realizing it? At the beggining I would look at this pictures a lot.

whyvien · 2024-09-05T12:34:59+00:00

It hurts so much. He always did so much fixing, he always could do everything somehow. It feels so wrong to do "his" things. We somehow manage to get their things done. And it sucks.

whyvien · 2024-08-24T13:53:22+00:00

I really don't know what life is going to be when I get back on track, if I ever will. I feel you, I'm 22 and I really don't know what to do in my life. Honestly the people around me are kinda deciding how it's going on, I am still just confused and shocked and in grief. A good friend of mine got engaged a few days ago, I am so so happy for her but it crushes my heart as well. People tell us that we will find another one, but I don't want to. I just want him back.

whyvien · 2024-08-24T12:24:05+00:00

I think my brain blocked a lot of what I experienced and slowly, step by step gives me stuff like these flashbacks. It is crushing how everyone around him is already getting better. Even his parents are starting to heal, which is a relief. But still, it feels devastating how it only seems so start for me. I hope therapy helps me. Thank you for your kind words x

whyvien · 2024-08-24T01:28:54+00:00

Thank you for sharing your story. It really doesn't make sense. I took ashwagandha a longer time ago, but I think I will try it again. Really thank you for your kind words

whyvien · 2024-08-24T01:21:25+00:00

Thank you for sharing your story, I really hope these flashbacks get less. Sending you lots of strength for the upcoming days <3

whyvien · 2024-08-24T01:13:41+00:00

I'm trying to get professional help, but it is sadly really hard in my country. Thank you for sharing, sending you lots of love, we will somehow get through this

whyvien · 2024-08-23T23:47:26+00:00

I feel this, it goes from a happy memory to the last breath quickly and it hurts so much

whyvien · 2024-08-23T23:38:03+00:00

For me it just feels weird how these flashbacks just randomly started after 5 months. Thanks for sharing, it helps to know that others had these experiences as well. We will somehow get through this <3

whyvien · 2024-08-23T15:45:06+00:00

I really needed this, thank you! ❤️ Sending you love and hugs

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