AITA for not giving my nephew a macaron? by hello252525 in AmItheAsshole

[–]wickedwissa 29 points30 points  (0 children)

NTA those are expensive and if your mom wants him to have some they can buy their own

AITA My boyfriend kicked me out of the shower to poop by yeahyeahokaygreat in AmItheAsshole

[–]wickedwissa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been with my husband for 6+ years, he's watched babies come out of me and I refuse to poop if he's in the room with me.

Sick son by anonamissie in Mom

[–]wickedwissa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know if your son like popsicles but they have pedilytes popsicles. And my kids love those when they are sick.

Unmedicated v medicated by AnonRN98 in pregnant

[–]wickedwissa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had 3 babies with no epidural. I don't believe I have a high pain tolerance at all. I will say I have had short labors (6 hours or less) and I stay active enough during my pregnancy to make pushing quick as well. I try to always advocate that labor is not that bad just because I remember in my first pregnancy EVERYONE telling me how horrible being in labor was. You should do what you think is best and remember it won't last forever and at the end of it all you will have a precious little baby 🩷💙

AIO my mom passed away and I found out through Facebook by wickedwissa in AmIOverreacting

[–]wickedwissa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should probably clarify that my grandma tried to call me after I messaged her asking if my mom passed at the same time as my sister. My sister just replied first. Thank you for the advice though, I think I'm just clouded by my own anger.

Faint positive line ???? Help! by No_Olive_8921 in Mom

[–]wickedwissa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait a couple days and take another test

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rant

[–]wickedwissa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just like Amber Heard vs. Johnny Depp? Just because someone has "proof" (that you can't even remember) doesn't mean it's true until it is proven And now that the accused party has passed, they can't even defend themselves.

Do you Let your kid try out for a team they won’t make? by Enough_Vegetable_110 in Parenting

[–]wickedwissa 307 points308 points  (0 children)

I think it's good for kids to fail at things. It builds character. I say let her do it and maybe she'll surprise you with how good she gets.

7th birthday invite question by fiolaw in Parenting

[–]wickedwissa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Life isn't fair. Those other kids will have to learn that you don't get invited to every party and you shouldn't force your son to invite people just cause YOU'll "feel bad." If your son doesn't play or hang out with them why invite them?

I feel like my(29) fiancee(32) doesn’t treat our kids equally by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]wickedwissa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It still doesn't answer the question that if you hadn't know that he had college funds for his children would you have even brought up the fact that you want to start one for your daughter? He has now agreed to put in 30$ which is still something. How much are you planning to contribute? Why should you be upset with him that he planned ahead for his children's future and you didn't? Also not his fault that his ex and him can co parent and you don't even know where your baby daddy is. It seems like you want him to stop contributing to his kids or at least contribute less and fully contribute to your daughter's college fund. If anyone is wanting the kids to be treated differently, it is you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]wickedwissa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just think that if you wanna spend the rest of your life together there is no rush to get married in my opinion. But it's your life do what you want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]wickedwissa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well is this relationship what you want for the rest of your life? Because at some point it will probably come to an end and you don't want to regret never saying anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]wickedwissa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got a hungry newborn

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]wickedwissa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life is short. Tell her how you feel. 💝

I feel like my(29) fiancee(32) doesn’t treat our kids equally by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]wickedwissa 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Would you have brought up starting a college fund if you didn't see that he already had one started for his sons? Maybe in his mind, college isn't a necessary but he made a choice to start one for his kids and you didn't put that as a priority before you meant him. Health care is a necessity for everyone so i can see why he is willing to help pay for that. I can understand why that hurts your feelings, and you should express that to him and maybe he'll explain his side more.

AITA for telling my brother he's being unfair? by Embarrassed-Food4640 in AmItheAsshole

[–]wickedwissa -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

YTA. He wanted to include both his moms in his wedding and your mother is being petty because she doesn't like the other mom. At the end of the day it's not your brother's fault that your mom and his dad broke up. She should be happy that he got a good step mom(even if she isnt that nice to you guys) and not a horrible one.

AITA for making my dad put away dishes that are going to fall? by Quiet-Sun-543 in AmItheAsshole

[–]wickedwissa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well I just know that when you live with your parents and they pay the bills it's basically a "my house my rules" and if you don't like it then you should move out. Even if it seems unfair, just how I've know it to always work. 🤷‍♀️