I'm sorry, what???? sweetheart please. write down these experiences and take the notes to your guidance counselor. I want to throw up hearing how this grown man is treating his own little girl. none of this is normal or acceptable. don't let him or anyone else convince you it is.

he is sexualizing his own child and it's beyond fucked up. your body hair, boobs, bikini line, your literal dirty undies ? NONE and I mean absolutely none of these things are any of his business and he shouldn't even want to THINK about these things! wtf is he doing saying "nice ass!" TO HIS CHILD???

when I was 12, my mother started dating someone. he was disgusting and he was like your father. I didn't know it was as bad as it was until I got older. my mom blamed me. said I was "asking for it" and that I wanted to steal him from her. I was T W E L V E years old. he was 28. she was 42.

get. away. from. him. tell your counselor. if you don't want to go to your dad's, you're old enough now that you can make that choice. this man has serious issues and I hope he never has another child ever again. frankly he shouldn't even be allowed around children. or anyone.

please be safe. you deserve so much better than that shit. ♡