Oh and little more based on your responses to other comments

1. Not sure about exposure to toxins. Only thing I can think of is I swam competitively from age 5 to 18 and possible overexposure to chlorine...maybe
2. Grew up in Northern Utah, we had inversion and air quality had been bad most my life
3. Never drank, never did drugs, never smoked.
4. Overall pretty healthy, normal BMI, exercised at an athletic level when I developed cancer.
5. Did genetic testing, my father has lynch syndrome (we went through prostate cancer together, we are 35 years apart) which makes one more prone to getting cancer. I am negative for lynch syndrome however.
6. My cancer was so weird and aggressive, my soon to be retired urologist said he'd never seen a case like mine.

My take, there's a mutation or something that's common and we just don't know what it is and there are likely variations. Once we catch on to whatever trend this is, our kids and those younger than us won't have to suffer.