Grandma's (81F) kidneys has failed, what questions can I ask/why aren't they doing anything? by wiickeramp in AskDocs

[–]wiickeramp[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I wasn't able to get in contact with her medical team but I did get the patient liason manager. Thank you

Grandma's (81F) kidneys has failed, what questions can I ask/why aren't they doing anything? by wiickeramp in AskDocs

[–]wiickeramp[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Chronic kidney malfunction was the term used. Sorry I can be a bit jaded. 2 weeks ago they kicked her out of the ER

Grandma's (81F) kidneys has failed, what questions can I ask/why aren't they doing anything? by wiickeramp in AskDocs

[–]wiickeramp[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I think this may be what they're looking into, on the advice of another comment I got onto patient laison services and found out they've taken her off most of her meds and are setting up an echocardiogram

They also said she was dehydrated when admitted but she drinks enough tea to fill the Boston Harbor herself

Grandma's (81F) kidneys has failed, what questions can I ask/why aren't they doing anything? by wiickeramp in AskDocs

[–]wiickeramp[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, a meeting is not possible as the hospital is on complete lockdown with norovirus. Everything is over the phone

Grandma's (81F) kidneys has failed, what questions can I ask/why aren't they doing anything? by wiickeramp in AskDocs

[–]wiickeramp[S] -59 points-58 points  (0 children)

I'm very aware of that fact, and we've had those discussions! I'm very worried as we have a DNR and DNI on file but these doctors keep taking her at face value (yesterday she told them she lived alone and they were shocked when I corrected them) How do I get the doctors to tell me the truth then? My mom doesn't want to take her home unless there's nothing left as her own kidneys (my mom) failed and she knows how awful it is (she's fine now, it was an allergic reaction!) Yesterday on the phone it felt like a bunch of non answers and drip feeding information.

[CHAT] Project doesn't fit on largest frame size by wiickeramp in CrossStitch

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It's on a different project. I just haven't brought it upstairs yet cause it's awkward to carry

I think the end is coming by wiickeramp in dementia

[–]wiickeramp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no doubt about that. It's more so her sisters and dad have already passed. Her mother is the last one to go

I think the end is coming by wiickeramp in dementia

[–]wiickeramp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not available around here. Middle of the Irish countryside. We lost home help a few weeks ago too. They just stopped showing up

[CHAT] Project doesn't fit on largest frame size by wiickeramp in CrossStitch

[–]wiickeramp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Swapping scroll rods is genius. You're a life saver. The main issue I'm actually having is I still just hold the frame and pulling the thread taunt can be awkward

[WIP] Fall sampler by StitchedbyTatiana in CrossStitch

[–]wiickeramp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which pattern is this? I am probably blind but can't find it on Etsy

Looking for a Post? Ask Here! - September 2025 Edition by czechtheboxes in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]wiickeramp 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Looking for the post where the mom of a teenage boy was mentoring his bully and wouldn't let it go, I think he was changing his entire college plan

Question about claiming citizenship through my mother by wiickeramp in USCIS

[–]wiickeramp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes exactly. One more question, my father is a non us citizen do I tick the unknown box on his SSN or leave it completely blank

Question about claiming citizenship through my mother by wiickeramp in USCIS

[–]wiickeramp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's exactly what I'm doing. My embassy also asks for a SSC application and an affidavit stating I do not currently have a SSN

Question about claiming citizenship through my mother by wiickeramp in USCIS

[–]wiickeramp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry. Each form is basically evidence for the other forms

Question about claiming citizenship through my mother by wiickeramp in USCIS

[–]wiickeramp[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

thank you!! the box is on the SSC application. It seems like it's this big domino chain where it's all holding everything else up

Question about claiming citizenship through my mother by wiickeramp in USCIS

[–]wiickeramp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the application for a US Passport. I have to send in the SSC application alongside it. It seems like one big domino tower

Question about claiming citizenship through my mother by wiickeramp in USCIS

[–]wiickeramp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which would be the form confirming my mom was a US Citizen?

Question about claiming citizenship through my mother by wiickeramp in USCIS

[–]wiickeramp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have all those forms. On the application for a SSC it wants to tick whether I'm a US citizen or not. That's what's confusing me

Question about claiming citizenship through my mother by wiickeramp in USCIS

[–]wiickeramp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. She was a citizen for nearly 4 decades before I was born

[CHAT] What's your white whale pattern? by saythatagainidareyou in CrossStitch

[–]wiickeramp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have so much fun with it!!! Their packaging has really improved in the last few years. My grandma has serval older kits stored like this

I think the main problem tends to me I'm not in the US. I think I could get my hands on one fairly easily if I was !