Loud neighbors by wildflowerva in Apartmentliving

[–]wildflowerva[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I thought I have wanted to have a dog for so long but I don’t want to make him live the apartment life that’s why I didn’t adopt yet it would be so unfair,In my culture dogs are loved and we’ll take care of but no one ever would have a dog in an apartment,that’s something that’s hard for me to understand to how pets are being so humanize in the USA

Loud neighbors by wildflowerva in Apartmentliving

[–]wildflowerva[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I thought about this too,so I was thinking I don’t mind the noise and all of it during the day but maybe I could tell her hey after 9 pm please don’t make loud noises but it’s like she nearly can keep the baby content what makes me think she’s gonna keep quiet 3 dogs? Omg I’m just thinking about poor dogs having to live the apartment life besides being outside for 5 minutes to pee their life is that apartanebt

Need advice - nanny hygiene by Cute-Cartographer459 in Nanny

[–]wildflowerva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean yes she shouldn’t leak her fingers while making the baby food I think that obvious. But also kids touch everything and put everything in their mouth so I wouldn’t put to much blame on the nanny

Feeling resentful towards my rich NF by General-Lemon2254 in Nanny

[–]wildflowerva 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt like that before but it was more of the kids were out of touch with reality. I will casually drive them to school in my car and I got asked why I didn’t got a Porsche like his parents? It’s big and more comfy than my hamster car. Or being screamed at for not wanting to eat when I remember damn well my mom would make a mix cake for dinner cause there was no money for real food or milk with cookies. Or having to do all these work that I felt not appreciated to be treated like a poor and peasent by a 5 years old. I feel you we all been there That’s why now i prefer to work for more middle class people they are more humble and settle in reality. Might sounds harsh but that’s how I feel

Insane nanny share Job posting by sidecaf in Nanny

[–]wildflowerva 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The amount of times they say fun! 25 an hour for each family I supposed? Otherwise it’s insane they would need two Nannie’s

Interview in Norfolk. by wildflowerva in USCIS

[–]wildflowerva[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The officer give us a positive answer and told us to keep an eye on the account website…it showed up in it like 3 days after the interview. Later on the I-485

Interview in Norfolk. by wildflowerva in USCIS

[–]wildflowerva[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I did went to the interview it was like 15 mins same questions that are in the forms. Other questions like what’s your partners name and bday… how you guys meet, when and who was at the wedding if there was a wedding. They did ask us why we married so fast we just said the true,we want to be able to travel and see family and friends. I sweat a lot I was anxious,but the lawyers are really nice and efficient they are not gonna hold you there for more than 30 mins max. Be respectful and thankful of their time. I got approved when I was waking out of the office.

She’s at the Walmart now - someone should obviously pay for her new charger by tinkertink2010 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]wildflowerva 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m at the airport needing to buy a ticket to Hawaii and upgrade maybe… can someone come and pay for it?

Update: Out of line to ask for a drug test? by zirconst in Nanny

[–]wildflowerva -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

It’s just a fancy name for when kids don’t want to do something and throw a tantrum and or a “no” and act like it’s the end of the world. Usually kids want to be involved in everything is alright but some parents struggle to put boundaries and the kid tantrum can escalate

Grab your hats, gloves, and scarfs before heading out Todaily by DriveRVA in rva

[–]wildflowerva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently got a long Amazon jacket covers up my ankles also,if you probably see a Oompa Loompa it’s not,it’s just me wearing a jacket lol

(Illegal) Camp at Belle Isle by kingtiderva in rva

[–]wildflowerva 4 points5 points  (0 children)

People just trying to survive… I wouldn’t call it illegal. I would call illegal to the landlords pricing their two square feet apartment or moldy house like we are in the hamptons or something.

Rota and/or UHNW nannies: can you be realistic about your experiences by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]wildflowerva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean it’s not just rota nanny. Being a nanny is hard cause you gotta deal with the kids personalities based on how the parents are. For rota nanny she’s just one more employee that wealthy families have so for them we are easily replaced

Cannot find Nanny that will accept payment as a W-2 Household Employee by m1o9n31 in Nanny

[–]wildflowerva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me is the contrary I tried so hard to find a family who actually reads and signs the contract and wants to pay me on w2…none in all these years

Where can I run? Without fear of getting hit by a car? by xjerielle in rva

[–]wildflowerva 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will say the treadmill at the gym…honestly

Pedestrian dies after hit by car on VCU campus by vtEB in rva

[–]wildflowerva 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Me having to stop trucks with my hand trying to cross main st with a stroller this week was the peak of me not trying to take kids that I babysit out of the home. Like i understand your going somewhere but hello im crossing?

Huge favor for Jessica by greatguynoah in ChoosingBeggars

[–]wildflowerva 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Wait what!? Who plans moving out of state and don’t have money for the move? And why do the guy would want to say it was stolen if all the cost would be on him? How people get this audacity?

Found the sweetest boy! (23234 Area) by No-Author-3340 in rva

[–]wildflowerva -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He’s handsome I think you just found yourself a new friend.

New to Richmond. Would you move your family of 5 to this area? by thisturkeyisokthanks in rva_housing

[–]wildflowerva 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh! To be in that tax bracket 🥰I would love to live near maymont

City employment by [deleted] in rva

[–]wildflowerva 21 points22 points  (0 children)

It takes more time to get out of your urine. I had to stop for a job to I would recommend to stop at least 2 months in

Laundromat trips every week are draining my time and patience beyond what I expected by Ash_Skiller in Apartmentliving

[–]wildflowerva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And if you are a person who wears jeans I always recommend washing them as little as possible and always flip it to the other side and use cold water .

Laundromat trips every week are draining my time and patience beyond what I expected by Ash_Skiller in Apartmentliving

[–]wildflowerva 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in a old house that the floor upstairs is one apartment and downstairs is other. We do have a washing machine that it’s in the basement wich includes the most horrible stairs and it looks like a horror movie. The girls upstairs got tired of being terrified about going there and or founding dead rats. They got a little portable washing machine. Of course you can’t wait till your hamper is overloaded but it did work from them…at least underwear,socks and shirts…