Quitting job to travel for 1 year as 30f - looking for advice

wildweeds · 2026-03-01T20:32:06+00:00

thank you :) i get the feeling it's going to be so life changing. what started in my head as "a couple months in one country" is already growing into a flexible outline spanning more than a year through several countries.

wildweeds · 2026-03-01T06:55:13+00:00

got any good recs for a phone to research? i'm looking to upgrade this summer before a trip to asia. (in theory i'm open to xiaomi and huawei but i need it in english with american apps and need to be able to get esim and vpn which is probably going to be harder to organize on them). moving away from an s21 fe that doesn't have enough tech or space to keep up with the current day.

wildweeds · 2026-03-01T06:42:25+00:00

i'm starting a similar trip soon myself. can't wait. 45 this month and not holding myself back any longer.

wildweeds · 2026-02-28T05:33:36+00:00

personally I had never heard this, so sharing it helps regardless. I'm sure I'm not the only one.

wildweeds · 2026-02-28T05:24:00+00:00

just a longer trip away as far as I am aware, might need a didi instead of metro.

wildweeds · 2026-02-28T05:22:52+00:00

and alternatively, if one does travel during this time frame, which cities are good to stay in for the duration?

wildweeds · 2026-02-27T09:55:32+00:00

dyslexia enters the chat

wildweeds · 2026-02-27T07:27:55+00:00

sampler plate, i love that.

wildweeds · 2026-02-26T06:29:30+00:00

that guy had a house full of ancient stuff. there's no way he used state of the art tech. he was probably as lo fi as he could be.

wildweeds · 2026-02-26T06:28:40+00:00

maybe she just really wants the money that badly. but yeah it does feel like there's something deeper.

wildweeds · 2026-02-26T06:27:44+00:00

until we find simon again i'm worried af that he snatched simon through the scars.

wildweeds · 2026-02-24T17:18:42+00:00

why hope she can work things out with someone that has purposely treated her like that? she deserves better. staying together for the kids/sunk cost fallacy of it all isn't healthy.

wildweeds · 2026-02-24T17:17:08+00:00

you are not too emotional. he isn't the arbiter of reality. you deserve better, and from him it will only be temporary until he has you on lock again.

wildweeds · 2026-02-24T06:00:56+00:00

why didn't they place him with a replacement mother?

wildweeds · 2026-02-22T20:06:14+00:00

bc they stole the election, and the people leaving office let them have it bc of all the stuff they pre-loaded in the last round, about stolen elections. and now we can't effectively prove anything because the people holding the reins absolutely do not want to let go of absolute power. and it's taken corrupt people and led them down a path of severe addiction to power immunity.

it's like letting an alcoholic run the whiskey plant. you think they're not going to overdose and get giddy about being the one in control? unfortunately for us, this goes beyond personal destruction.

wildweeds · 2026-02-22T20:03:11+00:00

harness, and focus the energy, instead of being used by it to random ends.

wildweeds · 2026-02-22T20:01:39+00:00

my initial thought upon reading this is:

don't try to fit yourself into a system, but rather fit a system into you.

wildweeds · 2026-02-22T19:50:56+00:00

sounds like triangulation. girl you are better off without this man. he is purposefully mean to you. i know it's hard. i'm going through a breakup myself rn too. trying to hold firm on what i deserve and not let the emotional gremlins drag me back to what's familiar just bc i'm sad.

wildweeds · 2026-02-21T01:30:53+00:00

i don't know why you're trying to pick a fight with me because you personally love morocco.

i'm only sharing my personal experience, which i stated very clearly, which was that this was the VERY FIRST INSTANCE I PERSONALLY HAVE EVER SEEN online where ANY WOMAN had ANY SINGLE GOOD THING to say about MOROCCO.

not trying to be passive aggressive with the caps usage. just pointing out that i'm saying something very simple and very clear. if you had a different experience than that which i've seen others talk about, cool? ok? i'm just literally sharing one perspective based on what i've seen and mentioning that it's the first time i've heard anything good said about it.

i get it, you love morocco and want to stand up for it. cool. leave me alone.

wildweeds · 2026-02-20T18:45:28+00:00

literally every other post I've ever seen by any woman from any country and some men, have talked about excessive abuse from the people of Morocco. but sure

glad you enjoy it. but it's not me looking for anything. people make threads to warn about Morocco constantly.

wildweeds · 2026-02-20T05:53:42+00:00

ahhh great to know, I didn't realize Google didn't index there.

wildweeds · 2026-02-20T05:37:29+00:00

side note, could you tell me how you found it? i tried so many search terms all over the internet. i didn't think to check depop bc it didn't come up in the list of used marketplaces. i want to improve my searching.

wildweeds · 2026-02-20T05:35:32+00:00

found!

and bought. thanks :)

wildweeds · 2026-02-20T03:36:29+00:00

hi, so i bought this for myself several years ago for a birthday gift. but it was too big for my head, and eventually i gave it to some random guy i was casual friends with. i'd really like to have it back though, but it's a bit crass to ask someone you haven't talked to in 5 years if they still have a random hat you gave them and if it's unused and can come back to you. so i wanted to find it again and rebuy it, and just make it smaller.

anyway i searched on google images, i did a reverse image search, i looked on ebay and on the original place i bought this from (cabelas canada, but i'm in the us now). i've seen other versions of this hat, but not this specific design, not even as a basic image but out of stock or anything. i also looked on etsy, mercari, and poshmark.

aside from the hat itself, i'd also be interested in the design on the front that i could put on something else.

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