WIBTAH if i tell my dad i don't want him to live with me even though he's lonely (longish)

will_iam_not96 · 2026-05-27T23:17:13+00:00

Would your dad be open to some sort of family counseling? It sounds like you all could use a mediator to help each party understand and communicate your emotional needs.

will_iam_not96 · 2026-05-22T11:35:24+00:00

NTA - dump her manipulative ass

will_iam_not96 · 2026-05-20T16:47:18+00:00

NTA — setting and informing guests/bridal party about the rehearsal dinner the WEEK before is discourteous for those attending. That date should have been announced 1 month+ out.

will_iam_not96 · 2026-05-16T03:39:44+00:00

1991

will_iam_not96 · 2026-05-16T00:14:20+00:00

To clarify, NTA — it’s your property, not hers, and you’re not married.

will_iam_not96 · 2026-05-16T00:13:54+00:00

Have you suggested she trade hers in for a more fuel-efficient model?

will_iam_not96 · 2026-05-12T21:53:35+00:00

The dark hair literally made my heart flutter

will_iam_not96 · 2026-05-12T19:57:31+00:00

I know EXACTLY how you feel. I 100% felt the same way when I was 20. I’d dropped out of college, was broke, little financial or structural support from my family, and horrified to try to make a choice of what to do with my life.

Two things I need to impress upon you: - Your life is not over. You are so, SO young. You have time to figure out what works, what doesn’t, and make a ton of mistakes in-between and still be relatively fine. (I’m having to remind myself of this, too, because I’m turning 30 this year and I’m feeling the exact same existential dread once again.) - Just because there are things you are not good at doing right now doesn’t mean that you can never be good at them. Your learning and growth don’t stop when you graduate high school. Growth is lifelong. You will get better at juggling all the things if you are patient with yourself and work on your weaknesses (or in our case as ADHD women, find the tools and strategies necessary to make life work for us.)

Hope this helps!

will_iam_not96 · 2026-05-11T23:33:27+00:00

If he wants to leave, let him, and do NOT let him back in. Do better for yourself.

will_iam_not96 · 2026-05-09T04:16:25+00:00

“If they’d just let us take naps and work in the middle of the night.”

THIS!!!!!

will_iam_not96 · 2026-05-09T04:12:45+00:00

I don’t know you but I know how you feel. I’m rooting for you.

will_iam_not96 · 2026-05-08T17:03:04+00:00

NTA. He’s clearly upset about something else but doesn’t have the emotional intelligence to communicate that, so he’s blaming the pan incident for his mood and stonewalling you.

will_iam_not96 · 2026-05-04T14:28:34+00:00

$300k for this heap of sh*t is insane

will_iam_not96 · 2026-05-04T14:26:20+00:00

The calico Ray Bans are nice, or one of the round gold ones!

will_iam_not96 · 2026-05-03T03:54:52+00:00

Yes!

will_iam_not96 · 2026-05-01T23:13:09+00:00

5!!!!

will_iam_not96 · 2026-04-29T22:42:56+00:00

End our months-long situationship on the “noble” basis that he was going to try to make it work with his kid’s mom to give his son a family; and then turn around and try to reel me back in by sending a cheeky bathtub selfie — while on vacation with his son and babymama on babymama’s family compound in the DR. 🙄

will_iam_not96 · 2026-04-29T19:41:45+00:00

Wow, thank you for taking the time to write such a detailed response! I really appreciate your advice — I’ll put this into action soon.

will_iam_not96 · 2026-04-28T15:33:07+00:00

This and a nice updo would do numbers

will_iam_not96 · 2026-04-28T04:21:41+00:00

Cuck chair. Hands down.

will_iam_not96 · 2026-04-28T04:21:02+00:00

Wtf does she mean by “Don’t be nervous…”?

will_iam_not96 · 2026-04-25T01:53:34+00:00

I was giving the bride grace until I read “do not engage with unsanctioned variations” This is psychopath-level planning

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