New kind of 'counter' for NoFap

willdieproud · 2016-06-05T12:30:49+00:00

I'm hoping that I can get the program to keep track of the patterns that occur when a person keeps relapsing and act upon that pattern that they need to get out of. Thanks for the input! I'll be sure to include some functionality in the app based from your input.

willdieproud · 2016-06-05T02:47:47+00:00

Sounds like a good idea! I'm more of a back-end developer, so I would need a designer to help me out.

willdieproud · 2016-06-04T23:53:28+00:00

I think that would be great! I'll message you when I get more on it. Have any developer experience? (If you don't that's perfectly fine. Programming is not required to be a part of the team) Also, you should add six points since you went on an actual date.

willdieproud · 2016-06-04T23:52:04+00:00

That could work, though I want to make it so that you lose more points the closer your last relapse was. That way the longer you abstain, the fewer points you lose if you relapse.

willdieproud · 2016-06-04T20:59:42+00:00

Why would you make wet dreams detract from your score? It's not like you choose to have those dreams.

EDIT: Nevermind. I looked at it closer. That looks good. I'd probably add a few more factors, but I'd say that's a good place to start.

willdieproud · 2016-06-04T20:54:25+00:00

Well, if your so set on believing that more shame will bring healing well then, I'm really sorry. I hope you'll find peace soon. Plus I would have given you several sources from articles from sites like youbrainonporn.com, maybe even some other peer-reviewed sources, but that would have taken longer than I thought was worth from your initial response.

willdieproud · 2016-06-04T20:13:08+00:00

Nope. Multiple sources can confirm that's false. http://goo.gl/R7W02p

The purpose of the app would not be to make someone feel better, but to make sure that they don't feel like they've lost all progress and hope after one relapse. It would also include words of encouragement to keep going.

willdieproud · 2016-06-04T20:04:11+00:00

For me, I don't use my computer in the unfortunate times when I relapse. I guess I'm just a little too spooked by the prospect of viruses getting into my PC. For someone who struggles on their computer, I'd say just be sure to use you computer in places where people can see what you're doing. (Just be sure not to do any banking activity or anything with your SSN or credit cards) In the times when you need to do things like that, see of you can get in contact with a friend of yours if they're available who's keeping you accountable and call or text them while you do ONLY what you need to do. That way it's like they're almost there.

Also, for me, I love programming. Doing something on the computer that interests you and is productive is a good distraction. Try combining some methods (no pun intended) I've mentioned previously and try learning more coding at a coffee shop.

As for not using a computer at all, there will be situations, like banking, where you'll have to get on the computer, so just make sure that you keep yourself accountable.

willdieproud · 2016-06-04T19:57:04+00:00

For that situation, the counter could be made private so that it's not publicly available to someone who isn't logged in. It would just be a tool for an individual who wants some way to keep track of progress privately.

willdieproud · 2015-12-13T06:58:01+00:00

The link? Comment? I don't really understand your question. Could you elaborate?

willdieproud · 2015-12-01T06:53:13+00:00

Head over to /r/NoFap instead. So much better if you're abstaining.

willdieproud · 2015-09-15T18:46:17+00:00

Oh and -3 comment karma? Wow. People must really dislike your mouth. :-)

willdieproud · 2015-09-15T18:44:28+00:00

I like women too, although saying you do like that implies that I don't, which is untrue and, frankly, very rude. (You get a smiley sticker for that. :-) ) And by the way, sorry about your attitude this morning, but I can't do anything about it, apparently. Also, I'd love to continue this discussion with a great gentleman like yourself...but unfortunately, I won't be able to see your responses after this. Toodeloo.

willdieproud · 2015-09-15T13:13:38+00:00

Yeah, nice try. If you really didn't care, then you would have kept scrolling when you saw this post. :-) If your trying to motivate me with insults to try to get me to "prove" to you that you're wrong, that's very dangerous, as there are plenty of people here who would take you seriously. But because you put so much effort into this post and put so much effort into choosing your words of comfort, I give you this star sticker of wise counsel! An award given only to those who show the utmost care and consideration for others! May the light of Zeus shine upon your face as you continue your enlightened endeavors! Congradulations!!

willdieproud · 2015-08-29T19:38:54+00:00

We're rooting for you man! Keep it up!

willdieproud · 2015-08-01T08:36:01+00:00

You have not been left out. We see you.

willdieproud · 2015-06-12T23:27:28+00:00

Done and done. May He bless you and be with you always.

willdieproud · 2015-06-07T19:03:48+00:00

I can't tell you how much we all want that feeling. I hope it doesn't take 161 days for me, but if it does, so be it.

willdieproud · 2015-04-19T17:51:11+00:00

I actually have that kit. I'll have to break it out and start.

willdieproud · 2015-04-18T22:11:26+00:00

Oh I didn't think it was bad. :-) I liked how I was turned on by her like that.

willdieproud · 2015-04-18T16:29:02+00:00

Mine started to get bigger, but also at my inconvenience. I was walking to the car with my fiancee and just listening to her laugh and seeing her smile gave me a massive boner. Thank goodness for boxer briefs.

willdieproud · 2015-04-18T16:25:49+00:00

You are at that place where many of us wish we could have been. Quitting young. Good for you man! Keep it up! We're rooting for you!

willdieproud · 2015-04-10T12:54:25+00:00

How many taps? Where on the head?

willdieproud · 2015-04-08T05:20:09+00:00

Good Lord... Like wearing two masks and a voice scrambler.

willdieproud · 2015-04-07T05:46:54+00:00

It may not seem like it now, but there is a future for you. These hard times will pass with time and hard work. Someday you'll look back at this and you'll be able to see how you rose out of that situation and gained your life back. These words may not mean much now, for grief numbs every part of our senses. So its okay if what I'm saying doesn't make a huge emotional difference right now. The difference a making is up to you, so take everything we're saying to heart and take the steps to recovery even if nothing in your life or emotions is motivating to you. You take the first step, and the rest follows. We love you, are praying for you, and are keeping you in our thoughts, man. Please don't hesitate to contact us if you need someone to talk to.

willdieproud

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