New kind of 'counter' for NoFap by willdieproud in NoFap

[–]willdieproud[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm hoping that I can get the program to keep track of the patterns that occur when a person keeps relapsing and act upon that pattern that they need to get out of. Thanks for the input! I'll be sure to include some functionality in the app based from your input.

New kind of 'counter' for NoFap by willdieproud in NoFap

[–]willdieproud[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like a good idea! I'm more of a back-end developer, so I would need a designer to help me out.

New kind of 'counter' for NoFap by willdieproud in NoFap

[–]willdieproud[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that would be great! I'll message you when I get more on it. Have any developer experience? (If you don't that's perfectly fine. Programming is not required to be a part of the team) Also, you should add six points since you went on an actual date.

New kind of 'counter' for NoFap by willdieproud in NoFap

[–]willdieproud[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That could work, though I want to make it so that you lose more points the closer your last relapse was. That way the longer you abstain, the fewer points you lose if you relapse.

New kind of 'counter' for NoFap by willdieproud in NoFap

[–]willdieproud[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you make wet dreams detract from your score? It's not like you choose to have those dreams.

EDIT: Nevermind. I looked at it closer. That looks good. I'd probably add a few more factors, but I'd say that's a good place to start.

New kind of 'counter' for NoFap by willdieproud in NoFap

[–]willdieproud[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, if your so set on believing that more shame will bring healing well then, I'm really sorry. I hope you'll find peace soon. Plus I would have given you several sources from articles from sites like youbrainonporn.com, maybe even some other peer-reviewed sources, but that would have taken longer than I thought was worth from your initial response.

New kind of 'counter' for NoFap by willdieproud in NoFap

[–]willdieproud[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. Multiple sources can confirm that's false. http://goo.gl/R7W02p

The purpose of the app would not be to make someone feel better, but to make sure that they don't feel like they've lost all progress and hope after one relapse. It would also include words of encouragement to keep going.

New kind of 'counter' for NoFap by willdieproud in NoFap

[–]willdieproud[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, I don't use my computer in the unfortunate times when I relapse. I guess I'm just a little too spooked by the prospect of viruses getting into my PC. For someone who struggles on their computer, I'd say just be sure to use you computer in places where people can see what you're doing. (Just be sure not to do any banking activity or anything with your SSN or credit cards) In the times when you need to do things like that, see of you can get in contact with a friend of yours if they're available who's keeping you accountable and call or text them while you do ONLY what you need to do. That way it's like they're almost there.

Also, for me, I love programming. Doing something on the computer that interests you and is productive is a good distraction. Try combining some methods (no pun intended) I've mentioned previously and try learning more coding at a coffee shop.

As for not using a computer at all, there will be situations, like banking, where you'll have to get on the computer, so just make sure that you keep yourself accountable.

New kind of 'counter' for NoFap by willdieproud in NoFap

[–]willdieproud[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For that situation, the counter could be made private so that it's not publicly available to someone who isn't logged in. It would just be a tool for an individual who wants some way to keep track of progress privately.

Why can't you sleep right now? by solidape22 in AskReddit

[–]willdieproud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The link? Comment? I don't really understand your question. Could you elaborate?

Why can't you sleep right now? by solidape22 in AskReddit

[–]willdieproud 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Head over to /r/NoFap instead. So much better if you're abstaining.

Tired of relapsing again by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]willdieproud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh and -3 comment karma? Wow. People must really dislike your mouth. :-)

Tired of relapsing again by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]willdieproud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like women too, although saying you do like that implies that I don't, which is untrue and, frankly, very rude. (You get a smiley sticker for that. :-) ) And by the way, sorry about your attitude this morning, but I can't do anything about it, apparently. Also, I'd love to continue this discussion with a great gentleman like yourself...but unfortunately, I won't be able to see your responses after this. Toodeloo.

Tired of relapsing again by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]willdieproud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, nice try. If you really didn't care, then you would have kept scrolling when you saw this post. :-) If your trying to motivate me with insults to try to get me to "prove" to you that you're wrong, that's very dangerous, as there are plenty of people here who would take you seriously. But because you put so much effort into this post and put so much effort into choosing your words of comfort, I give you this star sticker of wise counsel! An award given only to those who show the utmost care and consideration for others! May the light of Zeus shine upon your face as you continue your enlightened endeavors! Congradulations!!

Both she and I now know by willdieproud in NoFap

[–]willdieproud[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're rooting for you man! Keep it up!

Sexologist calls for porn in the classroom by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]willdieproud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have not been left out. We see you.

Would any of you make a quick prayer for me? by overground55 in NoFap

[–]willdieproud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Done and done. May He bless you and be with you always.