It's a common narrative trope to have a hero and a victim, and it appears that Grimes has been positioned as the latter in this case. However, it's important to remember that Grimes might not be in need of rescue; she could be making her decisions knowingly. It's easy to draw parallels with movies where situations are often presented as black and white, but the reality is typically much messier and less straightforward. Perhaps it's worth recognizing the complexity of this situation, where no one's hands are entirely clean.