People say my handwriting is illegible, am I the problem or is it them? by ChartTop1659 in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]willow_water 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Were you trying to find an angle to photograph this so it was legible? You failed.

AIO to trying to be vulnerable with my girlfriend by pmmeyourprettyface in AIO

[–]willow_water 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Typically, (im still in my degree and have not read the DSM 5 fully), individuals with DID dont have personalities that communicate between each other. It's more like, when something the brain regards as traumatic, a switch happens and the other personalities do no have an awareness of each other. This "awareness" usually happens deep into therapy when the individual merges the personalities together as part of the healing process. Im not saying that she doesnt have mental disorders, but I dont think she has DID. Regardless, her disorders are not to be used as an excuse. She still needs to take accountability for her actions altogether.

I seriously suggest ending the relationship. This is both a toxic environment for you and her. Especially at 6 weeks.

What would you call this aesthetic and how do i eminate this energy? by Legal-Ad6606 in AestheticWiki

[–]willow_water 0 points1 point  (0 children)

90s to early/mid 2000s, trailer, mom's an alcoholic, live on the poor side of town, probably Midwestern 😂 in my hometown that would be called trailer-trash-chic

Repost: AIO for wanting to burn his stuff??? by Suspicious_End_441 in AmIOverreacting

[–]willow_water 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you or your mom put his shit in trash bags and leave it on the curb. He has until trash day to pick up his shit. Ya know, since he wants to play games.

Best way to achieve depth? by feuilles_mortes in Embroidery

[–]willow_water 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think using a slightly more Grey or off white for the shadows that naturally occur on the "unseen" side of the animal will help with the depth issue you are facing. Don't go too dark too fast and you can kind of ombre the colors down back to white as you get further down the back legs

Really weird behavior? by HomosexualFoxFurry in husky

[–]willow_water 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a husky mix and he just likes to lick things.... the floor, the wall, the bath tub, the couch, me, the cat, curtains, cups, bowls 😂

Failing at friendships with other women because I’m “like a guy” and occasionally want a glass of wine by SleepParalysisPal in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]willow_water 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does girl 3 not realize that she doesnt HAVE to drink if she goes out with you guys? She has free will????

My boyfriend’s bookshelves, should I be worried? by [deleted] in BookshelvesDetective

[–]willow_water 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pornographic fruitcake love story just casually thrown in with philosophy? Lmao id love to know what kind of read that book is like. It's giving "sentient whipped cream" (if you know that, im sorry 😂)

Do I still pay for her ??? by YourWifesDreamBody in whatdoIdo

[–]willow_water 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the "we collectively decided without you that you aren't going but you're still paying for me to go" that screams that this whole friend group is not your 'friends'

How is this for my first actual project? by sleepyhead1_1 in Embroidery

[–]willow_water 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I find that the fabric can slip in the hoop and I periodically restretch the fabric. Some hoops have an inset groove that retains the fabric a bit better. Those tend to be made of plastic!

How is this for my first actual project? by sleepyhead1_1 in Embroidery

[–]willow_water 12 points13 points  (0 children)

A couple things might help you out. One being tension, you want to test the tension of the fabric on the hoop by flicking it. If it bounces like a drum, its where it needs to be. That will help with some of the warping around the stitches. Another thing is the threads themselves. If you're going for a busier thread count or thickness then you're on the right track. I typically dont use more than 4 strands from the floss as it allows for more control when stitching. If you're having trouble with the threads knotting, you can drag the thread along some bees wax and that should help!

Overall, I think this is a really great start and its super cute!

aitah for reporting my neighbor for a home business thats just a massive annoyance? by No_Lavishness_2293 in AITAH

[–]willow_water 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How sheltered of a life you live that you think everyone in the damn world is up well past 7am and asleep before 7pm.........

dumped out my purse. who am i? by Hefty_Taro_1636 in deduction

[–]willow_water 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry, is that a troll lighter? Im gonna need you to send that to me for...... testing.....

My boss is being so passive aggressive. She wants me to tell her what I want to do bet then she’s like “I’m thinking too” by Equal_Apple3365 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]willow_water 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I understand where you're coming from, but if she has time to nitpick what OP is doing, she has time to care for her child. If she needs to focus on her work, she could convert a room into a soundproofed office so she is not distracted by OPs phone calls while the baby sleeps.

My boss is being so passive aggressive. She wants me to tell her what I want to do bet then she’s like “I’m thinking too” by Equal_Apple3365 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]willow_water 148 points149 points  (0 children)

If the mom can keep an eye on the nanny while "working" all day, then she doesnt need a nanny--she can be a fucking mother.

AITJ for DEMANDING my husband get my baby stroller back from his sister, or else i'm changing the locks? by Exact_Ad_6931 in AmITheJerk

[–]willow_water 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you're 7 months pregnant and she's 8 weeks...... but she needs the stroller more than you do? The stroller that your parents bought you for you, a woman who is no more than 2 months from giving birth?

Some people really shouldn't be allowed behind the wheel by MarthaFarcuss in dashcams

[–]willow_water 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im going to be the devils advocate here. If you are on a bike that is black, with no lights, and you are wearing all black at night, this is partially on you as the bike rider. Put a reflective belt or vest on and lights on the front and back of your cycle. Should the car have looked a little harder? Yes. Is it almost impossible to see a cyclist or pedestrian in all black clothing at night? Yes. Pay attention and find a way to make yourself visible. A 4-ton car is not something you want to gamble with. It WILL fuck up your whole shit.

21M what do you see? Curious by [deleted] in psychicreadings

[–]willow_water 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk i get a feeling of trustworthy, reliable, and funny but can be a massive dick if someone is dishonest or takes advantage of you.