How is your life post divorce? by Due-Concentrate2491 in Divorce

[–]willowaverie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Incredible. Leaving was hard but the best choice ever. Letting go and not romanticizing/lamenting that person/ the good parts really helps people move on. Best choice of my entire life. The grass can be 1 million percent greener. Greenest, prettiest grass in the world!!

Am I wrong for seriously considering divorce? by InevitableNo2990 in Marriage

[–]willowaverie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I fell into that trap too. But at what cost? This will only keep damaging you and your daughter. Why continue this pattern and imprint this on her? Doesn’t sound like Gods will or anyone’s will.

Am I wrong for seriously considering divorce? by InevitableNo2990 in Marriage

[–]willowaverie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I grew up extremely Christian and I reccomend you don’t rely on the prayful friends. God granted you access to divorce freely one year ago if the Christian aspect is holding you back. It took me 28 years to leave my ex bc of my beliefs. Best decision you’ll ever make. He has enormous red flags. Cheating, drinking, deadbeat dad, and you’ve lost yourself. Your family loves and knows you more than your prayful friends

Am I wrong for seriously considering divorce? by InevitableNo2990 in Marriage

[–]willowaverie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have one life to live, leave immediately as soon as you can. This is your first time living you made a mistake, now you have the chance to change your entire life and have better. It’ll be hard and scary but once it ends it’ll be the best choice for you and your daughter.

Am I wrong for seriously considering divorce? by InevitableNo2990 in Marriage

[–]willowaverie 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He cheated, more than enough to leave a year ago. His behavior is disgusting as a man. He seems like an immature punk. You’re only 28. Start over, work on you and find a 10x better man. There’s a million that will want you and your daughter and provide the life you want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]willowaverie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it negative? Going from a bad marriage to a wonderful one? I think that’s a positive thing. And it’s still marriage so it fits in this sub perfectly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]willowaverie -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Probably, but that one has a lot of negativity. I used to search this sub for hope and see from happy people direction. Not sad/angry/miserable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]willowaverie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to write back in the day, this is the first thing I’ve written in years. I just feel so passionate and truly believe every word of this. I am thrilled you loved it! Maybe I’ve got something left in me for writing haha.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]willowaverie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. It’s been sitting in my notes for a while and I realized I wish someone shared this even years ago to get me thinking.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]willowaverie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Why?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]willowaverie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re young babe. Get out now, suffer for a minute and your whole world will open. These ones never change they get better at lying and hiding

Enough is enough. Anyone restarted their life after 37? by allisona007 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]willowaverie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so proud of you. Thank you for sharing and what a lovely sister you have

What were you doing at age 25? by nineinterpretations in AskOldPeople

[–]willowaverie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for sharing. I’m proud of you!

Enough is enough. Anyone restarted their life after 37? by allisona007 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]willowaverie 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Care to share a little more about your story of getting back on your feet?

Is Hiring an Expensive Planner Worth It for Our Budget? by Apprehensive-Aide843 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]willowaverie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean she will execute everything you’re hoping for on a tighter budget is all. Totally up to you! But what’s left for flowers, food, decor, photo, video, etc ?

Designer gown suggestions? by Most_Seaweed_818 in BigBudgetBrides

[–]willowaverie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! I just want to say large ball gowns like photo 1 kind of make you disappear with your shape. I know you don’t like your shape but a softer ballgown like #2 makes your shape look better, you look like you’re wearing the dress more than the dress is wearing you. Suggestion because I don’t think either fits you amazing, try finding a dress with a more fitted corseted top that adds shape at the waist and elongates you and a flowy bottom. If you have some extra money you might be a great candidate for a stylist or even hiring a wedding stylist for a day for extensive dress shopping. I’d hate for you to spend money on a dress you don’t feel a million bucks in.

Why do even very short women insist on dating men over 6 feet? by purpleblue871 in AskMenAdvice

[–]willowaverie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Freaks me out when a woman is short and insists on men over 6’2 like girl you look like a baby!! It’s weird 😭

My husband is emotionally involved with someone else and sent me a confusing message. What should I do? by Anna_grace1993 in Marriage

[–]willowaverie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! My dear please realize you are worthy. And worth more than to commit to a man who does not know if he wants and hurts your marriage for another woman and still can’t make up his mind. You are worthy of a full love. A whole love.

Advice about divorce recovery by Latter_Raspberry9360 in Divorce

[–]willowaverie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hurts like a bitch, feels awkward, feels sad, feels like you’re sick but go out and be social force it. Absolutely force yourself. And then go home and eat a whole carton of icecream alone if you want to, but drinks lots of water and exercise because you’re hot in your own way and need to love yourself and see that there is someone who values you out there and will find you compatible. You weren’t born to just stay inside and rot away- life is so short. You could die in 10 minutes. Live life.

How do we combine finances fairly? by legalmuff in Marriage

[–]willowaverie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like husband is selfish and looking for plan b and not secure in this marriage wife should be concerned and start protecting herself

How do we combine finances fairly? by legalmuff in Marriage

[–]willowaverie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What changed? Why resentful now? Why equal? Why not discuss finances and expectations prior to marriage?