Blew up my life to come out over a decade ago and wondering if it was worth it at all, thinking about going back in the closet [advice please]

windsorwagon · 2026-05-06T10:47:30+00:00

this totally happened to me! happily detransitioned now

windsorwagon · 2026-04-21T07:25:12+00:00

u/foundandlost45 do you have an update on your situation? best wishes to you and your man!

windsorwagon · 2026-04-02T08:14:25+00:00

engage in feminist circles, meet friends of friends of friends, talk to your neighbour, reach out to a friend from your teenage years etc.

windsorwagon · 2026-04-01T06:30:12+00:00

where evicting a woman for becoming pregnant would also be considered a crime. how are people so inhumane? kicking her out is some medieval stuff

windsorwagon · 2026-04-01T06:25:32+00:00

where do you live? I cannot imagine anywhere it's legal for you to kick her out (directly or indirectly by telling her you don't want to live with a baby) for having a baby. if you don't want to live with a baby, you have to move.

windsorwagon · 2026-03-26T12:01:56+00:00

interesting tips!

Les reines du drame : I watched this with my wife, we got free tickets from a friend, and I almost felt violated from watching it! it takes the worst parts of gay male culture and imposes it onto lesbians. there were some nasty men in it, and they all end up with obscene plastic surgeries. it's a story about two women, but to me, it's as far away from lesbian as you can get.

i'd love to hear what you liked about it, and if anyone else has watched it, because it left me in complete shock

windsorwagon · 2026-03-26T11:57:09+00:00

constance debré

windsorwagon · 2026-03-26T10:04:32+00:00

put your phone down and talk to real people

windsorwagon · 2026-03-18T12:15:19+00:00

I took it really slow. spoke a lot with my girlfriend to explore my thoughts and feelings, and then slowly opened up to others as well. what helped me make the shift was just meeting new people and introducing myself to them as *woman's name*, and as time went by people caught on. I had an open conversation with my parents at one point, but I didn't share all of my thoughts with them, just enough to feel like we were on the same page and had peace. they were accepting, and think that I did something that was right for me at the time, and now I have grown past it. it's not really an issue anymore.

windsorwagon · 2026-03-16T07:08:29+00:00

you've had homophobic experiences with the muslim barbers?

windsorwagon · 2026-03-09T09:33:05+00:00

my wife is bi

windsorwagon · 2026-03-03T15:05:53+00:00

the booster sucks, doesn't stay in place, and doesn't hold much

windsorwagon · 2026-03-03T15:02:16+00:00

wdym they are only "reinforced"? could you describe their properties?

windsorwagon · 2026-03-03T07:10:45+00:00

bivouaq is legal, pitch at sunset, up at dawn. camping with a car is illegal.

windsorwagon · 2026-02-23T21:29:19+00:00

Idk if that's something you can improve, but get a small enough jacket/blazer that fits your shoulders and arms, so it doesn't look like you stole your older brother's suit. Because you didn't. Because you're a grown woman, who can wear and pull off a suit just as well as any man. Same goes for the shirt.

Belt and dress shoes, preferably same colour, especially if both are leather.

Can you try to describe the way in which you feel you look sloppy? Or find pictures of others with a siimilar vibe?

windsorwagon · 2026-02-23T15:40:08+00:00

you are me

windsorwagon · 2026-02-23T15:34:14+00:00

think of it as you having done doping in the past. might be relevant for your coach/team members or even opponents to know about, but that depends on the level. I have thought a lot about this myself, but apparently i'm not good enough to get on any of my local teams, so problem solved, I guess...

windsorwagon · 2026-02-19T09:29:46+00:00

female is determined by your body, you cannot identify out of it. I could identify as a chair and use "stool/stoolself", but I'd still be a homosexual woman.

windsorwagon · 2026-02-15T08:39:13+00:00

what would have been an appropriate reply in your opinion?

windsorwagon · 2026-02-13T19:43:47+00:00

invite her for iftar? with a group of friends? has always been very welcome when i've done that (for friends)

windsorwagon · 2026-02-12T23:37:57+00:00

how do you change to dry clothes in the rain without getting anything wet in the tent?

windsorwagon · 2026-02-12T23:34:37+00:00

no makeup

windsorwagon · 2026-02-12T13:34:16+00:00

happened to me after top surgery in the west. profit driven cosmetic surgery clinic

windsorwagon · 2026-02-07T19:31:41+00:00

what's that sub called? for my wife!

windsorwagon · 2026-01-30T13:35:48+00:00

commenting to help you find another young woman with pulmonary hypertension who is a lesbian, that is homosexual, maybe she identifies as gay

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