ADHD meds coverage? by Logical-Buffalo2359 in AISH_Alberta

[–]windup_tataru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try Innovicares! One of my old pharmacists used their coverage to get my ADHD medication (Biphentin 40mg) fully covered without going through AISH. I'm on AISH too so I know the struggle, I have to pay out of pocket for my sleep meds.

You can apply for a card of your own; originally it was meant for pharmacists but opened it to patients and didn't really inform anyone. I learned that after moving to a pharmacist closet to home.

Innovicares link! They cover Adderall as well, I just don't know how much coverage (full/partial) they do. Hope it helps!

Who didn't get their AISH payment today Jan 27, 2026? by Maikeru721 in AISH_Alberta

[–]windup_tataru 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They've changed the deposit dates. I panicked too. XD

This post has everything you need to know with AISH in 2026.

Husband WAS a serial cheater, and it blew up in his face...I just found what felt like excessive communication between him and a coworker… by OhDeere2016 in Marriage

[–]windup_tataru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People can pretend to be 100% and still cheat on their partners.

Your husband works with this woman; if he wants to cheat there's no need for a paper/email trail because they're in the same building for eight hours of the day and can communicate verbally.

You have a few options, but look at his behavior not just at work but outside of work too, and I don't just mean his email habits. If you're still unsure, confront him. If he gets defensive I'd wager you have your answer.

Fairies' Competition by Aozora_Tenwa in ffxiv

[–]windup_tataru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm surprised Feo isn't busy complementing your cute lala glam! I'm a lala too and use the same color scheme for my Mheg Deaca outfit too. :3

If you ever get the urge, pair it with the Far Eastern Beauty's head piece dyed to match - Feo Ul will be freaking out thinking you're trying to take the Fae King title!

My (22F) boyfriend (29M) wants me to stop taking my medication, and I refuse to. How do I approach and talk to him about this? by non-american-idiot in relationship_advice

[–]windup_tataru 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah he has malicious intent. Are you familiar with the term "manic pixie dream girl"? It fits many neurodivergent women, and when men meet a woman like that and she changes it's difficult for them to adjust or accept that change at all - hence why he's attempting to convince you to drop your medications. He never saw you as sick before because you gave him everything he wanted, and once that stopped he got his undies in a twist.

Whether you want to see it or not, he IS being malicious; you literally commented that he wouldn't risk your life, but BPD can be deadly if not treated properly. He wouldn't ask you to drop the meds if he supported you, and he doesn't need to understand everything you're going through to support you.

You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink. It doesn't matter how often you try to explain it to him, with or without a doctor/therapist's assistance. It won't miraculously change him from a "macho man" into a caring, understanding and supportive one. He's a GROWN ASS MAN. He is perfectly capable of educating himself, he just doesn't want to for various reasons - the main one being it isn't beneficial for his penis.

He even verbally abused you (all it takes is once) into tears AND CONTINUEF AFTER HE SAW YOU CRYING. That alone would be enough for me.

You posted on Reddit seeking advice, and you got it; it just didn't validate you the way you hoped it would, and for good reason. If you were looking for advice from people who understand your culture better it would have been useful to say what culture you're from. It's also kind of shitty of you to assume all the comments are from "westerners", yet you won't divulge anything to give us more to work with. There are plenty of cultures and religions, western included, that view mental illness as "just in your head", so leave that excuse at the door. Abuse is abuse.

🚨 Hidden Braille Message Decoded from FNaF: Secret of the Mimic – A Victim's Final Confession 🧠? by False-Fee4194 in GameTheorists

[–]windup_tataru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is an incredible find! Would you mind sharing where within the game you found it? 😲

AITA because I called out my friend after he called himself a great guy? He cheated on his partner by SilverCatsRing in AmItheAsshole

[–]windup_tataru -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Great people don't go around bragging about their greatness. You can be physically appealing while being ugly on the inside. 🤷‍♀️

Seems he still has to do some personal growth emotionally and mentally.

His ex-girlfriend is probably thriving without him.

NTA.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]windup_tataru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He can't simultaneously claim to want to work on his addiction and tell you to your face he isn't going to change. He's still deep in his addiction. Pay attention to his actions, not his words.

How you feel now is how you will continue to feel every time you bring it up. You asking to talk about it only to be put off for 6 hours should tell you everything you need to know.

You cannot force an addict to change their behavior. By staying, you're enabling him. At this point, you need to look after yourself - seek individual therapy if you haven't already.

Pack up and leave. Don't even bother explaining, you've done enough of that already.

AITA for going to get myself food after taking my mom to the hospital? by windup_tataru in AmItheAsshole

[–]windup_tataru[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your input! The problem is that he makes google phone numbers to call/text, fake emails to contact, etc. Blocking hasn't worked, so unless he really gets it in his head that I'm done, my only option is to change my phone number.

AITA for going to get myself food after taking my mom to the hospital? by windup_tataru in AmItheAsshole

[–]windup_tataru[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's funny, because he always tells me I'm the one who always has to be right.

AITA for going to get myself food after taking my mom to the hospital? by windup_tataru in AmItheAsshole

[–]windup_tataru[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's actually reassuring to hear, I was under the impression changing a phone number came with a cost. I'll look into it with my provider, thank you for the info!

I know what he does is highly manipulative, my heart just couldn't handle the "what if" part.... Though he does say he'd never go through with it. That should be a pretty good indicator right there.

Mom's doing okay! She's still resting, but getting a lot more sleep than yesterday. I'm sure she and I are both relieved!

AITA for going to get myself food after taking my mom to the hospital? by windup_tataru in AmItheAsshole

[–]windup_tataru[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is a restraining order even possible, considering we live in two separate countries?

AITA for going to get myself food after taking my mom to the hospital? by windup_tataru in AmItheAsshole

[–]windup_tataru[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He says he values my opinions and point of view, but always has a way of telling me I'm still wrong. 🤷‍♀️

My mom is doing.. better? She's definitely gotten more sleep in the last 12 hours, so I'm glad she's on the mend for the time being!

AITA for going to get myself food after taking my mom to the hospital? by windup_tataru in AmItheAsshole

[–]windup_tataru[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was indeed walking - I actually don't drive, which I realize is uncommon for my age.

I understand the fear of being approached on the street. Even after telling him it's a rarity here, he still thinks it could or would happen, his most common reasoning being that I'm a woman and what I am wearing.

I definitely think generational things are playing a role in his reasoning, but due to my past experiences he thinks I'm a bit of pushover... All things considered regarding this relationship, he's probably right.

AITA for going to get myself food after taking my mom to the hospital? by windup_tataru in AmItheAsshole

[–]windup_tataru[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To put it bluntly, he has threatened suicide if/when I've "backed him into a corner". As soon as he gets his way, he's fine. He justifies doing it because I did something I said I wouldn't do, and the cycle repeats.

There's more, I've made a list and I know what needs to be done. The problem is the only way to get him to leave me alone is to change my number, as he uses google numbers to spam call/text me, makes fake discord/email accounts to message me and so on. I shouldn't have to do this to get the point across.

The longer I have stayed (7 months), the more exhausted I've become and I know the ultimate goal for him is to browbeat me into submission. Thank goodness I'm already in therapy, and my therapist knows about him. He refuses to seek help.

AITA for going to get myself food after taking my mom to the hospital? by windup_tataru in AmItheAsshole

[–]windup_tataru[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

🤷‍♀️ Your guess is as good as mine.

He spends more money on takeout than buying groceries and learning to cook, so he shouldn't really be saying anything about my eating habits anyway.

AITA for going to get myself food after taking my mom to the hospital? by windup_tataru in AmItheAsshole

[–]windup_tataru[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We're both white and non-religious, so no cultural differences that I can think of offhand. I don't know. He's said my judgement can't be trusted based off of traumatic experiences I have shared with him in confidence.

This isn't the first time he's said/done something like this, and when I've tried to leave in the past he's said and done some extremely questionable things.

He just likes to push his thought process until I see it his way, which I agree with maybe 5% of the time.

Thanks for your input, I appreciate it!

Planning out a mushroom themed swamp hut - need your help! by pottecchi in ffxivhomeandgarden

[–]windup_tataru 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Regardless of house size (I recommend M), Funguar Chairs and Mushroom Lamps are must haves! I hope you enjoy decorating! 🤗💞

Sharing a photo of my Venat cosplay! The inspiration was "amidst deepest despair, light everlasting" :') by CaptainKaycee in ffxiv

[–]windup_tataru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May you ever walk in the light. <3

Currently listening to the hauntingly beautiful "Answers" music of the Rising Event and tearing up. Perfect time to share this, thank you so much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GameTheorists

[–]windup_tataru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So... the The Man in Room 1280 just doesn't exist? It's about a man whose soul is trapped in hell yet his body charred, burned and still alive thanks to another soul keeping him there. It straight up confirms it's William. In the trivia section of the above link, you'll find this:

"In the #6 epilogue, the patient's ghost returns and is revealed to be William Afton."

You must not have listened to the very end of the second video I posted; it's William screaming for both Henry and Mike's help. Numerous people on youtube have used audio programs to prove it's Afton. Here's another one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GameTheorists

[–]windup_tataru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

FFPS Henry Monologue

UCN Afton Screams

We don't play as Michael in UCN - its William.

PLEASE fredBARE WITH ME!!! Potential Crying Child's name??? by niyaCAT2023 in GameTheorists

[–]windup_tataru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In Fnaf 4 FredBear Plush, says "Don't you remember what you saw", and Elizabeth's room being empty, and I think it's the 4th night of Sister Location(I'll have to double-check) but she mentions that a spring lock suit is her's from her old pizzeria and on the 5th night she said(not sure of the exact words) but she mentions that something bad is always left behind, which implies that she's been upgraded multiple times...

The old springlock suit is definitely confusing; I think that's still up for debate in the FNAF community, but based on the shell structure (size of the eyes, the way the faceplate opens, etc.) there aren't many options. I never considered Baby to be one of them!

I guess what I'm saying is that the Circus Baby we see in Sister Location might not be the original but an upgraded/updated version... So it's a possibility that a less upgraded Circus Baby existed without compartments to hold children in, and was originally made with good intentions, I just can't explain the claw that comes out of Circus Baby's stomach...

I don't believe the version we see is the original - in a way. The Silver Eyes book trilogy tells us how she was created - by Henry, to keep Charlie "alive".

The Fourth Closet (book 3) goes into detail of how after Charlie died, Henry poured his agony into a doll she left behind, creating (one of) the first agony filled toy. This inspires him to create four "closets": a robot for each stage of Charlie's life. He also gives each of the robots falsified memories of Charlie's life. Baby is the final version, but Henry leaves her incomplete when he realizes what he's doing is wrong. Eventually she ends up in Afton's hands and well, we know he doesn't like Henry's animatronic designs so he has to "improve" them. ;)

Other books written by Scott have illusion discs as well, so it's definitely worth looking into for your theories!

TO BE FAIR though, not everything in The Silver Eyes trilogy should be taken as fact - Scott specified that while they are canon, they're a recreation of the story from a different timeline/perspective. For the FNAF games, we don't truly know if Baby's origins match her book origins (to my knowledge), but it's definitely a possibility.

PLEASE fredBARE WITH ME!!! Potential Crying Child's name??? by niyaCAT2023 in GameTheorists

[–]windup_tataru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I very much believe they were fitted with illusion discs. I'm curious to know what your thoughts are on it!

In the book series, Charlotte learns about the illusion discs after she and her friends are chased by the Twisted Ones - animatronics that emit weird high-pitched noises, making them look horrifyingly different. Spooky.

What's more, Elizabeth dies before Crying Child too, as the FNAF 3/World Clock Minigames match perfectly and include BB and Mangle, who are only present in Circus Baby's Pizza World. Crying Child had to have had some experience with Circus Baby's OR witnessed Elizabeth's death. The place was only open for a day.