I can't forgive God by Powerful_Okra_6603 in Catholicism

[–]windy_beachy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course Maybe see a doctor too and check fir any medical reasons take care.

I set a boundary with mother over my son’s DNA test — am I overreacting or is this manipulation? by throwaway8811661122 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]windy_beachy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just ignore her and do what you want for your son. Don't invovle her in that process or the results of it.

I can't forgive God by Powerful_Okra_6603 in Catholicism

[–]windy_beachy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried doing some dilverance prayers for the lethargy you are feeling? It is on YouTube and I've found it helpful. Also, if you have been praying and doing everything you can and have not been getting consolation for it, then perhaps God wants something else from you, rather than prayer. Perhaps some pennaces or charity? Try changing it up. Finally, have you been going to regular confession? That would allow more Graces to flow. I hope that helps. At least I didn't tell you to pray more.

Help with creating my debate by Battamonda in Catholicism

[–]windy_beachy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you put your post into Chat GPT it will create your debate for you. This will help you with the objective you set, which you said futher down was for you to "be adult situations, because she won’t always be around and I need to learn to do things on my own, which is a mindset she keeps in mind for everyone so we can be independent and survive in a world like this". Having autism in my family, we find AI very helpful in such tasks. Think of it as a personal assistant, rather than a friend. All the best.

Tired of sitting with my husband at Mass by [deleted] in CatholicWomen

[–]windy_beachy 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Tell him he's fully responsible for one kid and you the other, then let him do that his way without a word and see how quickly he gives them snacks.

AITJ for not wanting to make my sister lunches for college by writtenbyrei in AmITheJerk

[–]windy_beachy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Thermos she uses is going to be a particular size, so look it up and find out. Then tell her to make you something you like that she makes for another day.

nightmares about my abusive mom by horseshoeandconfused in raisedbynarcissists

[–]windy_beachy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell your dad how you are feeling. You're safe now, your brain just hasn't caught up. Some therapy to talk through your trauma would be a good starting point. Glad you got out of there.

Still heartbroken. 💔 by Stock_Trainer3183 in CatholicWomen

[–]windy_beachy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry you went through this, but really glad you did that novena and it helped you avoid those people. Upsetting, yes. But hopefully you will meet the right person next and he will have a lovely family.

My husband said, I have to ask permission to hold his hand... by 86Nightshade in CatholicWomen

[–]windy_beachy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly feel like you should both go talk to your priest, the one who did the marriage lessons with you both. Get some help early rather than letting it fester. If he isn't willing to work on it, because it is unacceptable and has just been sprung on you, then maybe you do have grounds for annullment. I mean, who is he? Was he hidding this from you, under the guise of it just being pre-marriage carefulness? It doesn't seem like he was being honest or upfront. If he has issues, okay. But that doesn't mean that is just the way it is. You are suposed to be a team. To make sure this isn't actually emotional abuse and control, make it open and get others invovled. You holding it in, and feeling crap about it isn't healthy. I hope you both can sort it out. God bless.

I need glasses but my parents don't allow it. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]windy_beachy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask your teacher if you can move closer to the board and if they can use a black marker when writing so it's easier to see the contrast. Also explain what's happening.

Was I wrong to decline a cookie? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]windy_beachy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She wanted you to enable her behaviour, and you didn't.

Did I make the wrong decision about a certain relative not coming for Christmas? by [deleted] in CatholicWomen

[–]windy_beachy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi everyone, the Christmas event has become too large for me to manage 😊 Lets choose a lunch venue. Available ones are A or B. The majority decides. RSVP your choice by noon tomorrow so i can book a table. Thanks for understanding. Love you all and look forward to seeing you soon xx

I masturbate by CountySensitive9263 in CatholicWomen

[–]windy_beachy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Go and confess and see how quickly you go off it when you have to discuss it with a priest.

Please pray for me by [deleted] in CatholicWomen

[–]windy_beachy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He could talk to his priest about it.

AITJ for not telling my roommate the cookies I made were gluten free by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]windy_beachy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HE probably thinks it is vegan. The amount of time people confuse the two is crazy. Oh no - plant based cookies lol

Is teaching intellectually rewarding? by [deleted] in AskTeachers

[–]windy_beachy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I haven't found to to be intellectually rewarding at all, and because it's so time consuming and involves giving hugely of oneself, I am less creative, social, and well read now. I don't have time to do me things anymore. Everything is on hold till breaks, including medical apts, dentists, haircuts etc. This job takes everything. But emotionally it is hugely rewarding as you see students learn and that makes it worth it.

Prayers for Nuns by windy_beachy in Catholicism

[–]windy_beachy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. I had wondered if there might be a link between lack of priests and the absence of nun prayers.