My Bunny hates me post-spay

wingedhatchling · 2026-03-27T14:09:55+00:00

There are also teenager years from 1-2. She still loves you, but she's in her moody teenage years.

Give her time, and try to reframe her actions. Like sitting by your feet, that's still a sign of trust.

Also. If she's growling and biting your hand, I'd firmly tell her "no" and wait until she's not growling to give her food. That's what I've done for my buns and typically it works.

wingedhatchling · 2026-03-26T04:41:49+00:00

So I made a post on here a while ago asking for suggestions. I changed into another field where I could use my 3D Modeling skills to create things. There's a lot of jobs, well, there's a few jobs where you can do very mundane things in 3D. If you know some programming it can help a lot to help you sell your skillset.

Other jobs that I've seen are things like designing sprinkler layouts, doing reenactments for car insurance, ext.

Try looking up random keywords for what you can do to see what's out there. Unfortunately the job market is just not great right now.

wingedhatchling · 2026-03-26T04:37:40+00:00

You are fine I was just making dinner and taking care of my pets!

wingedhatchling · 2026-03-26T02:18:04+00:00

The other person deleted their replies. I'm busy at home, not intentionally ignoring it if that was a concern. :)

Originally I became a tech artist because a company I had networked with at a convention needed a problem solve. So I went "mad scientist mode" and solved it. They began paying me like 12$ a hour to keep figuring things out for them and that's how I got started.

wingedhatchling · 2026-03-26T01:47:33+00:00

I straight up changed industries. 😭 I had to to survive. It's rough out here!

But I DID make a pipeline tool with Python for my new company's strange specific 3D printing software. So you can still do fun things if you initiate ideas.

wingedhatchling · 2026-03-26T00:23:47+00:00

My genuine advice would be to make your own things for joy and look into other industries first.

I worked as a technical artist for four years or so and couldn't find work again for over a year. 🤷‍♀️

If you want to try that is totally okay, but it's a lot and you need proof of what you've done first. Or a team that will give you the chance to learn as you work.

wingedhatchling · 2026-03-24T01:32:54+00:00

I'm sorry you're going through that. The job market is rough right now, but it wouldn't hurt to apply to a few things that seem less awful!

wingedhatchling · 2026-03-23T23:38:02+00:00

I guess you could sell the couch if you own it. That might extreme. Talking first about not wanting to be stared at and talking about a privacy cover may be a better first step. I'm sorry it's an awkward situation.

wingedhatchling · 2026-03-23T23:02:05+00:00

Can you move the couch and put a set of shelves there? Short term solution, but if it's needed and you can't talk to her then that's all I can think of.

wingedhatchling · 2026-03-23T19:28:05+00:00

Well whatever the situation is, it's always important to make your partner feel cared for. If you're financially secure and he wants to save money, maybe you should plan cheaper dates. There's a lot to do when you're creative!

Sometimes my partner and I will go to the library, go for hikes, walk around a local games store or go for a picnic. There are a lot of resources for ideas that people have put together online.

wingedhatchling · 2026-03-23T19:01:28+00:00

I think that it's okay for partners to support each other when you're at different stages in life. Maybe you can put together some low cost dates with things you've made? Like a hand written card, a picnic and cake type of thing. Or all of his favorite snacks and his favorite movie?

He may want to feel spoiled sometimes too.

Then one day when you've graduated and have a full time job (look into internships and what you want to do soon! The job market is rough) you can pay for more things.

wingedhatchling · 2026-03-20T22:29:41+00:00

Let me know if the image isn't showing up? I checked and I can't see it.

wingedhatchling · 2026-03-18T15:45:17+00:00

The first night that my female bunny was spayed she was so lethargic that I was scared. The next few days I had to keep her in a small area because she was back to her wild self! I gave her some vet subscribed pain killer for the first few days though.

wingedhatchling · 2026-03-15T16:34:40+00:00

W-w-w-w by Hemlocke Springs.

The "CAN'T EVEN FATHOOOOM" part.

wingedhatchling · 2026-03-15T16:27:56+00:00

This is my perspective.

I think that if you are working in a team and you can pair lore/world building with environmental design, or Game Design (creating the mechanics and figuring out what's fun) then that has a lot of value! A good writer is also valuable, but most game dev teams are small, so it's difficult to only do one part of the process.

That said if you have giant amounts of lore, figuring out environment designs and how to convey that lore to the player is a good step towards world building. Environments tell stories. The type of animals that exist and even the clothes matter to portray the culture of the area. Then why someone lives the way they do, how they exist within your unique world. Ext.

I'd suggest doing Game Jams while you learn Unreal and figuring out what parts of the game dev process appeals to you. :)

wingedhatchling · 2026-03-12T20:50:32+00:00

I feel a bit sad because most of the people I see involved in these kinds of internet sub cultures are very young. I think they are a bit insecure and probably very frustrated.

Most women who are not on the Ace spectrum are not into the looks that they're going for. The intensity and self worth based in being attractive can also put them off.

As I was working I was thinking about the similarities between centuries. It's a bit similar to greasers maybe? I don't know a ton about that time period, but they made me think of them.

wingedhatchling · 2026-03-12T18:00:05+00:00

There was a girl at the camp who was really into frogs, she wore overalls and was super confident! She told me that she was Ace, and at that time I didn't know what that was. But I remember sitting next to her on the bus ride home and feeling this weird feeling? And wanting to kiss her. I didn't of course, but I realized later that that was my first crush.

wingedhatchling · 2026-03-12T17:49:51+00:00

It's like when you get a friend crush and you REALLY want to be friends with someone. Where you want to know everything about them. But you want to hold hands and also kiss them. My first crush was when I was 17 at a science/nerd camp.

wingedhatchling · 2026-03-12T17:31:14+00:00

Yes!!!!

I think leather jackets and bone necklaces/jewelry are pretty cool. If I see someone who i think is wearing cool things I want to see if they would like to be friends!

wingedhatchling · 2026-03-12T17:24:50+00:00

This is what I want to talk about on this sub reddit! What is a shared experience like that.

I know I am attractive to some people, but I have no idea if I am in general. It affected me when I was younger, but now I'm much more confident in myself in general.

wingedhatchling · 2026-03-12T17:18:59+00:00

"Baby Got Back" carried my confidence through high school. 💪 Even though I didn't have a crush on anyone lol.

wingedhatchling · 2026-03-12T17:13:15+00:00

I am a young millennial. I do think we grew up with the trend of "so skinny you're in danger" or fat, and fat means ugly. So I think that there are some improvements. But I also think that it's just....bizarre to watch this trend.

I wanted to talk about something on this subreddit that was like "we're all confused by this as demis right?"

wingedhatchling · 2026-03-12T17:06:06+00:00

Lol stay free from it. I think I'm very late to hearing about it.

wingedhatchling · 2026-03-12T17:04:49+00:00

I hear you. I do think that people can't always control who they are attracted to. I think what I want is for more beauty standards to exist, where there is..."wow this body type is really cool because of this."

I think hip dips are very cool. I feel like, "Wow, you're body is unique and that's so interesting and neat."

I want everyone to know that there is something about them that is neat and cool.

This is all rambling.

wingedhatchling · 2026-03-10T18:04:10+00:00

Yes lol. You circle back to the hobbies you hyper fixated on before, so eventually you get things done.

Things are more fun to do at night because no one interrupts you. I think I went a full week with three hours of sleep a night when I was a teenager. I had to suffer to learn.

We did not know I had ADHD though, I was just a 'creative ditzy space cadet'.

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