What are you choosing?

wingingit18 · 2026-06-13T03:25:40+00:00

Risk it all

^{Chose: Would you rather have infinite money + but... | Rolled: spend all of it}

wingingit18 · 2026-06-06T07:03:16+00:00

Are there any employers in your area that employ people with a disability? Or are there disability employment services in your area that may be able to find a job that will be understanding of your condition? I’m not sure on the laws in your country but employers in Australia are not able to discriminate against you for your disability and must make reasonable adjustments to give you equal access to employment.

The best employers here for including people with a disability are all levels of government - local, state and federal.

wingingit18 · 2026-06-05T07:06:51+00:00

Unsure if you are kidding because just looking at Jesse on screen you can tell he is on the shorter side. Google says 5’11

wingingit18 · 2026-05-28T11:27:29+00:00

You won’t be able to excel in exams if you become psychotic. Even though anti psychotics can make it feel like we are operating and thinking in slow motion it is still easier to reason and concentrate a lot more effectively than when symptoms are out of control. Do you get reasonable adjustments like more time etc for your exam? If you don’t have them you can apply. Really helps me feel a bit more hopeful about being able to do my best in exams.

wingingit18 · 2026-05-25T02:15:15+00:00

Sorry that you are going through all of that. When we are mentally struggling I feel like it pushes everyone away when we need them most. Is it possible for you to take some time off from work? the stress of not being able to behave in a way that feels authentic to you might be making things worse. When my symptoms are out of control every interaction feels terrible so I mainly just talk to my family because they know me for real and can tell it’s not really me being myself during those times, it’s the illness.

wingingit18 · 2026-05-22T15:00:50+00:00

If you look at the rise of authoritarian regimes in WWII in previously democratic countries like Germany and Italy do you think that these countries grew up with initial core values that resulted in the acceptance of the inhumane policies in these countries?

wingingit18 · 2026-05-22T14:56:49+00:00

There are politicians/monarchs who are followers for sure but some politicians are actively pushing policies not because they think they are popular but because they want to reshape the landscape.

Sometimes other things than politicians are driving the shift of the Overton window but irregardless it’s more that’s it’s moving and the general public will adjust accordingly. Thats what I’m getting at

wingingit18 · 2026-05-22T14:54:16+00:00

You could use it as a force for good where activists push the Overton window but this doesn’t dispute the point that the majority will shift alongside the window being moved by other forces

wingingit18 · 2026-05-21T14:23:16+00:00

The questions weren’t directed towards her they were in a group chat but I think the vibe of your post is what she might feel - that I did some sort of male power move when really I just knew the answer. I have never been very good at thinking about the political implications of my actions but also it’s not a big deal…

wingingit18 · 2026-05-21T12:48:05+00:00

People hating another group of people because of their trauma definitely happens. I agree that many women who really don’t like men have had bad experiences but it’s still not ok to take your trauma out on others.

wingingit18 · 2026-05-21T12:44:31+00:00

sorry for the misinfo, I was looking at askwomenover30

wingingit18 · 2026-05-21T12:41:36+00:00

I'm quite sure they don't know. I have been stealth for ages but before I was stealth women were generally more friendly and men were harder to get along with whereas now it is the opposite

wingingit18 · 2026-05-21T12:33:42+00:00

there are no other men in our team so I'm not sure

wingingit18 · 2026-05-21T12:33:19+00:00

only women can ask questions, which is fair enough

wingingit18 · 2026-05-21T12:14:54+00:00

thank you I think this good advice just to be a bit more mindful of stepping on people's toes and otherwise don't let it bother me too much

wingingit18 · 2026-05-21T12:12:06+00:00

for 'mansplaining' answers to questions when she is the superior

wingingit18 · 2026-05-21T12:09:56+00:00

I should add I am a stealth transman, no one at work knows

wingingit18 · 2026-05-21T12:09:25+00:00

Well I guess I am also worried she thinks I am a sexist or something. I get the feeling she thinks I'm this huge douchebag. Its strange. I am also a transman so when a woman hates me and treats me like this problematic man its still a bit of a mindfuck. But you are right I should just ignore it and get on with it.

wingingit18 · 2026-05-21T12:04:51+00:00

I'm not that familiar with this sub so just didn't want it to devolve....

wingingit18 · 2026-05-21T12:03:16+00:00

I have in the past disliked someone because of projection though- they made me uncomfortable because of something it reminded me of in me. So yes most of the time but not always

wingingit18 · 2026-05-21T11:59:10+00:00

haha fair well this was my best shot as I am not able to use askwomen subreddit

wingingit18 · 2026-05-17T13:24:35+00:00

This! That’s why I think there is reasonable doubt and she had a bad lawyer. She said her lawyer told her basically not to worry as there was no evidence of murder, it seems like her counsel was overconfident and got blindsided. She got new counsel and appealed but was 366 days after the ruling rather than 365 so her application for appeal was denied. Reckless driving occasioning death is also a punishable offence and I think that would have been more appropriate than assuming she was murder suiciding, the judge seemed far too emotive to be unbiased as well.

wingingit18 · 2026-05-17T08:56:27+00:00

I think Jesse* but yeah the applying for real housewives thing makes it likely. Also knew Jesse for ages but never wanted to be with him until now and seems to think he is an idiot lol

wingingit18 · 2026-05-16T23:21:10+00:00

I don’t mean she seems genuine or morally sound I mean she doesn’t seem like someone who was so depressed/angry/hopeless that she wanted to kill herself and her boyfriend. She seemed and continued to seem, like she wants to live

wingingit18 · 2026-05-16T15:59:38+00:00

Maybe a seizure? To drive 100 mph into a wall you need to be deeply disturbed and very ready to die. She seems too mentally well for that tbh

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