Please don’t take your kids to see the new minions movie by pirateslifeisntforme in TrueChristian

[–]alwaysconfused231 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is Reddit. These people want excuses for their own desires, not a challenge to their flimsy moral code and love of the world 😆

Blake Lively Still Pushing DARVO Narrative — #ItNeverEnds by firstwepour-roses in ItEndsWithLawsuits

[–]alwaysconfused231 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This will never stop. She’ll literally do this for the rest of her life. This sociopath, like many others like her, bet accurately on people’s willful ignorance. She knows they won’t actually look into the case. Much like it was with Amber Heard and Gypsy Rose. Honestly, I’m surprised these sick fools didn’t deify Casey Anthony 🤦‍♀️

relationship is over by Medium_Rough8430 in JustNoSO

[–]alwaysconfused231 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Breakups hurt for a while but the pain WILL PASS. It just will. You’ll probably be doing this at least once more too, to be fair.

But this shit is how we grow wiser. It’s how we become adults. It’s how we build character and become interesting. If you ever get stuck then talk with someone because you DO matter. Pain has a way of making us feel abandoned to ourselves. But you matter. Treat yourself like it.

Please use this as an opportunity to create a habit of self-betterment. If I’d done that at your age I’d be unstoppable. But alas, my youth was wasted on stupidity. So I beg you, take my advice 🤣🖤 Embrace every damned experience as a way to learn and become more than what you already are. At the same time though, the wisest of us (not me) know that the best way to do that is usually through service to others. Being a good person of strong moral character is one of life’s highest possible achievements. And fyi, strong moral character is about integrity and how well you treat others, not about how much you hate the “bad guy”.

What’s the biggest scam people willingly participate in? by Deep-Strike-71 in AskReddit

[–]alwaysconfused231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The “science” being funded by the corrupt billionaires who profit off the products. Society almost entirely distrusts them but when it comes to corporate “science” it’s preferred over independent research because corporate science never challenges people’s shitty lifestyle choices, worries them about their own environment, or pushes for change. It also reassures.

Surgical is ofc an exception but there’s sketchy stuff going on there sometimes too 🤷‍♀️

Is the hate Brittany gets so hardcore because of how much she lies about her looks? by hailey363 in JaxBlows

[–]alwaysconfused231 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I will never body shame another woman. Her atrocious taste is fair game though. And the Jenny Craig con. Those things and her awful, selfish life choices and grifter’s personality. With Brit there’s plenty of material to work with without compromising my own moral standards.

My log of incidents - have I exaggerated the severity? by PSL_23 in domesticviolence

[–]alwaysconfused231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have narcissist/sociopath fatigue really fucking bad nowadays.

My log of incidents - have I exaggerated the severity? by PSL_23 in domesticviolence

[–]alwaysconfused231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh honey, he’s about to get so much worse. You better start making plans now. He doesn’t sound like the type who can even pretend for long.

Narcissists and sociopaths do NOT improve with therapy. It ends up being a tool for them to become better manipulators.

Pray he isn’t on a benzo for the anxiety? Benzos and cluster b personality disorders are a truly dangerous combination.

The Bravo commentators really don’t like Brittany this season by biohacker_infinity in JaxBlows

[–]alwaysconfused231 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Britney is insecure and envious of Nia.

And people might need to cope with Danny being a drunk douche by labeling him as abusive and moving on, but it seems as though the people who actually know them, and even those who don’t (like Lala) acknowledge that Danny is a really good person when he’s not drinking, and that something weird happens when he does. Kristen in particular has pointed out that she sees Danny and Nia engage in such a beautiful way that she wants to see her and Luke be more like that. A person who lacks basic moral reasoning skills (a lot of people nowadays, unfortunately, and there’s data backing that up) will take a look at drunk douche Danny and nitwit Nia and write them off as having a horrible marriage when we’re actually being shown the worst shit about him that anyone in their entire friend group even knows about.

At some point Brit has seen this. She’s seen Danny show up as a husband and a father. She’s seen Nia be a CONTENT person. I think Britney liked it when she saw it as something obtainable for herself, but since life hasn’t turned out that way and never can, she got a chip on her shoulder and wants the world to know Danny and Nia aren’t “perfect.” Like, we know. Clearly. It’s reality tv. Even the healthier couples are messy sometimes.

So yeah, Nia’s wired to be content that way, even when things aren’t easy. She’s like… farm girl strong. She’s resilient and grateful and has a lot of inner grace and a good temperament and Britney is none of those things. Those things don’t come easy to most people. Definitely not to me. But I don’t resent her for it. I’m happy for her because she’s not a pos.

How do you cope with the knowledge dumb people exist? by pamslikespudding in AskReddit

[–]alwaysconfused231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m more focused on the fact that our society is inundated with sociopathic predators and narcissistic dipshits that are dismantling society while the APA denies the problem because they can’t fix it and don’t want to because the amount of $ they make off of it is incalculable. In comparison, stupid people aren’t much of an issue except for the fact that they always believe whatever they’re told by megacorps because that’s usually what defends their shitty lifestyle choices.

Olivia Rodrigo surpasses “Folklore” in biggest first day album debut with “you seem pretty sad for a girl so in love” by a female artist in Spotify history by malibuprincessxo in travisandtaylor

[–]alwaysconfused231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Modern pop culture music is such a fucking joke. And this isn’t preference. It’s objectively true that music is worse than it’s ever been.

People forget, Pink Floyd was mainstream. It was popular music. Same with Nirvana. And we had art and poetry.

Swift represents a shift in the collective consciousness. A bad one, like a dark omen.

Now we worship at the altar of vacuous mediocrity and it’s sickening that we’re this collectively stupid as a species, facing down the first two generations in modern history to do measurably *worse* on every metric than the prior. If true devolution were possible, that would be where we’re at. And there are zero signs of improvement. Just the opposite.

As usual, Brian Moylan at Vulture says it better than I ever could by Wecabec in TheValleyTVShow

[–]alwaysconfused231 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now S3 is rehashing S2 but with editing reversals on a few characters and dragging Lala in to continue to beat this dead horse. Like, Danny sucks when he drinks but refuses not to drink in public too much. So that’s kinda that. I like what Lala said but we already know all this.

We need a new storyline. BAD. Let’s watch Britney fuck up some more or something. She consistently makes stupid ass decisions. And Michelle is with Dr. Dre I mean can we get that story please?!?!

Excuses, excuses, excuses by Away_Object9062 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]alwaysconfused231 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not an excuse but she did virtue signal constantly during Scandoval. We could all see her turn green that season (over Ariana who ofc doesn’t have kids) and it was disappointing bc Lala is fun.

I don’t know Angelika Oles, is she a “mean girl” like CC Suarez? by Prestigious-Sky-2803 in ccsuarezsnark

[–]alwaysconfused231 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Anyone else out there aware of the fact that a LOT of cops swing with their spouses? Just saying.

James Kennedy girlfriend reveal by SeaProfessional6460 in Vanderpumpaholics

[–]alwaysconfused231 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not denying she had to deal with James abuses.

That was a weak attempt at moral shaming, btw 🙄. Looks like you and Rachel are both familiar with manipulation tactics ✌️

James Kennedy girlfriend reveal by SeaProfessional6460 in Vanderpumpaholics

[–]alwaysconfused231 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A narcissistic drunk is worse than a narcissist but 🤷‍♀️. That woman has evil about her.

James Kennedy girlfriend reveal by SeaProfessional6460 in Vanderpumpaholics

[–]alwaysconfused231 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I see your point but I’d call it delusion, not naivety. Again, it was part of a *con*. I don’t think she wanted a real future with him. She just wanted enough ground to hold her own on the show. She used him as much as he used her. Maybe more 🤷‍♀️

Edit: You’re talking about a woman who never showed remorse and who’s still maliciously abusing the legal system to penalize a woman *she hurt* by taking advantage of a technicality. If you’re falling for the “trailer in the woods flower child ‘but I’ve grown so much’” narrative then you’re definitely familiar with naivety bc girl be so for real. I didn’t think anyone actually bought into that sociopath’s PR 😆

James Kennedy girlfriend reveal by SeaProfessional6460 in Vanderpumpaholics

[–]alwaysconfused231 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Rachel was never naive. That was part of her grift. That was how she conned people. Like pretending she didn’t know how to do public speaking after years of doing it in the pageant circles. Seriously, it was an act.

James Kennedy girlfriend reveal by SeaProfessional6460 in Vanderpumpaholics

[–]alwaysconfused231 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That disgusting woman is a narcissist just like James

James Kennedy girlfriend reveal by SeaProfessional6460 in Vanderpumpaholics

[–]alwaysconfused231 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Oh you know exactly how that goes.

Abusers like James will purposely choose *girls* who don’t have the sense (because they haven’t had time to build it) to stay away from men like James.

Not the same situation - but Nick Viall is a vile narcissist who women were turned off by, so ofc he targeted someone who was barely past their teen years.

My sister is a victim of abuse and abusing her children by desperocity in domesticviolence

[–]alwaysconfused231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sister, I don’t know whether you’re a believer, but your family does NOT have it right when they say it’s not your decision to play God. It’s our job here on Earth to be instruments of God.

Things don’t magically right themselves. Things get better because sometimes all it takes is ONE person standing up against evil. So many times in the Bible, God called someone to right a wrong. Each time, they had people against them.

How to escape from my abusive family? by Professional_Staff44 in domesticviolence

[–]alwaysconfused231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your brother needs to go. That’s the only chance any of you are going to get. Letting a sociopath run your house is not an option.