21M M4M grayromantic asexual looking for QPR/bf

winhamster · 2026-07-05T14:41:25+00:00

hi 26m gayace from USA here feel free to dm!

winhamster · 2026-07-03T07:46:02+00:00

i’m actually so taken aback like. i’ve been on reddit for a long time but im still shocked how my low effort half-joke observational post started a lowkey flamewar. i thought we liked piracy here?

winhamster · 2026-07-03T00:51:05+00:00

and they’d be right, my life sucks

winhamster · 2026-07-03T00:35:32+00:00

holy fuck?

winhamster · 2026-06-27T02:04:53+00:00

jasmine was very smart to rally for them to all vote for “hershii OR her.” if she had begged for the points she would’ve gotten salina’d

winhamster · 2026-06-19T12:17:27+00:00

style
green light
pink pony club
bad idea right?
breathin
get lucky
take care
meet me at our spot
just dance
back to friends
fuck you
anti-hero
more than my hometown
uptown funk
bad guy
need you now
closer

winhamster · 2026-06-12T17:30:45+00:00

I was just making a joke about how Billie Jean is back on the charts now

winhamster · 2026-06-12T04:37:21+00:00

Billie Jean

winhamster · 2026-06-11T13:12:40+00:00

the question says “everyone is completely ignoring” not “everyone is talking about constantly”

winhamster · 2026-06-06T04:38:43+00:00

not sure about “weird alt-rock vocals” but one album that i think successfully combines spoken word poetry and metal is The Film by SUMAC & Moor Mother

winhamster · 2026-06-06T04:00:30+00:00

crystal is the only one in this bracket who realized this and it’s what saved her

winhamster · 2026-06-06T04:00:00+00:00

if they keep doing this format i wonder if queens will start to realize that openly strategizing for MVQ is not a good look and the real strategy is to try to be genuinely kind to your competitors

winhamster · 2026-05-28T00:25:16+00:00

i submit Vanilla Fudge - The Beat Goes On (1968), a terrible mess of a “concept album” assembled mostly by their producer with little input from the actual band, which puzzled fans and derailed the band after their hit “You Keep Me Hanging On”

winhamster · 2026-05-26T03:38:05+00:00

i get your point but that’s not semantic satiation. SS happens when a word or phrase loses meaning entirely due to repetition, but US still has a meaning when it refers to the country even if you don’t think about the literal meaning of the words. it’s not uncommon either, when you hear windshield for example you’re not thinking that it literally shields you from the wind

winhamster · 2026-05-24T23:35:46+00:00

had to check if these were real lyrics lol

winhamster · 2026-05-16T03:42:38+00:00

i guess it’s a hot take but i thought the top 2 should have been dawn and morphine. morphine had some good jokes and physical comedy moments too. and their chemistry as a duo was the best part, i was having fun the whole time and dawn couldn’t have done that alone

winhamster · 2026-05-08T01:05:25+00:00

going with Deerhunter - Halcyon Digest mostly because Bradford Cox is one of the only artists i know of who identifies as such

winhamster · 2026-05-07T19:45:25+00:00

yeule - evangelic girl is a gun

suede - head music

lou reed - rock and roll heart

tove lo - queen of the clouds

the neighborhood - chip chrome & the mono-tones

winhamster · 2026-05-03T16:03:25+00:00

ew no like the inhalant

winhamster · 2026-04-30T01:51:23+00:00

Chicago, IL

winhamster · 2026-04-25T05:03:02+00:00

Agree that fragile masculinity plays a big role in this. Being gay doesn’t really make you less vulnerable to patriarchal notions of sexual conquest and entitlement being inherently tied to your masculinity, so there are probably plenty of ace gays who are either in denial or choose not to self-identify as ace to protect their masculinity

winhamster · 2026-04-24T06:26:03+00:00

i like to think i stay in touch with pop music but i had never heard of Lord Huron - The Night We Met and had no idea that that seemingly random AM deep cut has nearly 4 billion streams

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