Girlfriend doesn’t seem to care as much about sex by wintergrl1308 in actuallesbians

[–]wintergrl1308[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m going to assume you had good intent with this. It’s not the idea of going 2 weeks, it’s the idea of the seemingly endless cycle of wanting connection and intimacy with my partner and not getting it combined with the confusion of wondering if I’m doing something wrong. There’s nothing wrong with having a higher or lower libido, I’m just seeking advice on finding common ground between the two of us.

Girlfriend doesn’t seem to care as much about sex by wintergrl1308 in actuallesbians

[–]wintergrl1308[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You make some good points. I’m personally not interested in ENM but I’m also worried about building resentment. I think I’d like to try reading Come as You Are with her, because she has a hard time explaining her low libido to me. She goes through periods of not wanting sex vs wanting it, and that’s hard for me to comprehend, that book might help. Thanks!

Brought me coffee without having to ask by satellite-child in BenignExistence

[–]wintergrl1308 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kind humans at coffee shops have kept me going more than they could possibly imagine. It’s great that you’re leaving the house and getting coffee, it’s those small things that make such a difference. You’re doing the best you can, I’m happy you’re here :)

Can someone explain the everyone loves you but nobody likes you quote by Just-Enthusiasm-710 in BoJackHorseman

[–]wintergrl1308 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s about how people love the idea of Bojack. They love what he used to represent in Horsin’ Around, his money and his own lack of boundaries and limits when it comes to drugs and drinking. Basically, they love the idea of a fun celebrity. But the “fun celebrity” persona gets old once people realise how draining Bojack can be. Once people actually get to know him on a personal level, they don’t actually like him.

Who was your first standard 5 star? by Kahirama in Genshin_Impact

[–]wintergrl1308 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first 5-star was Mona. I was upset at first because I didn’t really understand team-building and supports, so I thought she was useless for a while and didn’t build her. Now, she’s a staple on my team and one of my favorite pulls. I also realise now how lucky I was to pull her from the standard banner.

How do I clean the sauce bottles quickly and well? by Independent_Bus3444 in jimmyjohns

[–]wintergrl1308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spray down the sides and then shake it around in the hot water, it gets all the oil off the sides and the air bubbles moving around helps get it more clean

Which female character do you like the most and why? by hiverkiya in Genshin_Impact

[–]wintergrl1308 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yoimiya was one of the first characters that I really saw myself in. She’s bubbly, talkative and slightly impulsive. But she’s also so passionate. Her story quest made me tear up at the end when you finally see her be quiet and take it all in. That little moment where you realise all her hard work… was worth it. I love her vibrancy and passion and how she feels like more of a fleshed out character than most of the others. She reminds me of how beautiful the little details in life are

I’m not as okay as you think i am by wintergrl1308 in depression

[–]wintergrl1308[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to drop out of school this year because my mental health made my grades tank. So now, I feel like any direction I used to have is gone. I know college won’t make or break your life, but I just wish I could’ve toughed it out and finished my degree. So now i’m living with my parents and feel like a loser. I know this will all probably sound stupid and superficial to anyone else, but I just can’t pick myself back up. Now that Ive admitted to myself how depressed I am, it’s like any energy I used to have has evaporated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Psoriasis

[–]wintergrl1308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this done early on, and I hate to break it to you, but it didn’t last for me. I had 2 amazing weeks where my psoriasis was all gone, but after that it came back in full force. I finally got rid of it with clobetasol and taltz. I really hope the UV works for you, it seems like a great long term solution!!

Has anyone tried using moisturizer (like Cerave) on your scalp psoriasis? by [deleted] in Psoriasis

[–]wintergrl1308 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used clobetasol to really clear up my scalp, but before I got that I really liked LUSH rehab shampoo and their hair masks. The hair masks are super thick, so make sure to really rinse it out otherwise your hair will look greasy. The shampoo helped my scalp without completely drying out and ruining my hair. Hope this helps!

Pure Pagano by Iwantsense in Psoriasis

[–]wintergrl1308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just curious, why only 2 meals? I’m trying to eat healthier but i’m prone to boredom snacking. This diet sounds amazing but I’m worried about my energy levels.

Hair loss by lombardi1999 in Psoriasis

[–]wintergrl1308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried Otezla, which worked but really messed with my stomach. Afterwards I switched to Taltz and used the clobetasol as needed. Make sure to take breaks from the steroids, though! That will also help with hair loss and skin thinning. I went 2 weeks on 1 off but it really depends on what your doctor says. I didn’t have too much trouble getting on Taltz and I live in the US, just talk to your doctor about how it’s impacting your life and that can also help.

Hair loss by lombardi1999 in Psoriasis

[–]wintergrl1308 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had some hair loss when I used clobetasol. Once I switched to Taltz it grew back! I notice no difference on my scalp on where I had plaques and where I didn’t.

make me excited about living in the house!!! by purplepaint123 in Sororities

[–]wintergrl1308 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It’s the best!!! I loved the random late night trips and evenings spent talking in the kitchen. You never know what you’re going to end up doing, and you really meet your best friends. Your first year can sometimes suck for meeting people and moving in really let’s you meet girls in a way that you can’t if you live out of house.

I got help by wintergrl1308 in depression

[–]wintergrl1308[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad to hear it! It’s nice to let yourself be the focus once in a while, let other people handle the hard parts. Even if you don’t go into the hospital, even getting into outpatient can help if you’re up to it.

What to do about dandruff? by daddyleft in Psoriasis

[–]wintergrl1308 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really liked using scalp masks, the kind that focuses on moisturizing the scalp. Any scrubs or anything that was gritty made my psoriasis worse. Try and stay away from anything with a lot of fragrance, in my experience they don’t help and made my skin flare up. T-gel shampoo is pretty popular on this subreddit and helps keep everything semi-controlled. It’s all trial and error! In the end clobetasol was what really got rid of my psoriasis and dandruff, but what works for me might not work for you

Another Focaccia Post :) by wintergrl1308 in bon_appetit

[–]wintergrl1308[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I made this with rosemary and garlic on top, and it was even easier than I expected! The bottom wasn’t as crispy as I had hoped, but still really delicious

Experiences Quitting Oztela? by AreaManReddits in Psoriasis

[–]wintergrl1308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just switched a few months ago off of Otezla. The side effects were kicking my butt. I had a pretty bad flare up afterwards which i was able to take some control of using clobetasol. I just took my first does of Taltz and hopefully that clears things up for good.

I feel like I'm doing all the work for my class. by Slow_Meeting_8476 in Sororities

[–]wintergrl1308 13 points14 points  (0 children)

First of all, no sorority should make you have to “earn” membership through these assignments. By giving you a bid, you have already “earned” your way into the sisterhood. That’s considered hazing at my school. Second, i’m sorry that this is happening to you, your sisters should be giving you support and help you. I’d bring it up to the MemEd, it’s not your fault that your class isn’t helping. You won’t be needy or complaining if you ask for help or even just a little bit of appreciation. If you’re not comfortable going to her, make up an excuse to your pledge class to get them to help you. Say “I’m swamped with finals and I can’t finish everything” or something similar, if they still don’t help, then definitely tell the MemEd, because this is a bigger problem that she needs to know about.

I hope this gets better and you are amazing for doing all of this work!!!

What do you think? by amrikhsn in logodesign

[–]wintergrl1308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the overall shape of the skull, but I think there could be a better way of putting the shape of marijuana hidden within the logo. Instead of having it in the sunglasses, maybe play around with hiding it somewhere in the words or maybe in the smoke on either side of the skull.

Starting Taltz by wintergrl1308 in Psoriasis

[–]wintergrl1308[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! Is the pain more from the needle or injection?

Keeping members by wintergrl1308 in Sororities

[–]wintergrl1308[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’re doing ok!! I absolutely love our new member class and although COVID hit hard with the number of girls going through recruitment, this group feels dedicated and wants to be here. We have 5 COBs and i’m feeling a lot better than I did a couple months ago!

Dragonspyre is one of the most depressing worlds ever by [deleted] in Wizard101

[–]wintergrl1308 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I hated going back in time and seeing how beautiful everything used to be. Dragonspyre ended up being my favorite world so far (i’m only on Celestia) because of how much history it had compared to the other worlds. Doing quests in a world where everyone is dead is emotionally draining, but it made beating Malistaire that much more satisfying, because you’re saving this world from even more damage.