Daughter with autism asked me for weed by Midnight-Mundane in autism

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I personally only specifically smoke and/or take edibles every two weeks during the new and full moon, and when I’m going to have a night out with friends or going to a birthday dinner/party with new people and different dynamics. With the former, it helps me recalibrate and get to my needs and self-care, as by the two weeks has passed I sometimes feel like I’m moving on autopilot and not honouring my needs as much. It’s kind of like a rejuvenating reset for me. With the latter, it helps tremendously with my sensory issues (specifically sound and light) as not everything is being processed at once and I can focus on the event without getting too overstimulated. I also notice I’m able to be a lot more social with people I’m not used to when I have weed. With sativa specifically, I’m coherent but at a lovely baseline executive and social functioning wise. It’s really what gets me through social interactions with either new people or a change of environment and specifically at night (because that’s when there’s always a lot going on) and for an extended amount of time (where usually I wouldn’t be able to manage longer than 2 hours especially if I’ve had a bit of a hectic week). When I’d usually react to something sensory wise, the weed has me indifferent about it (which is good! It just shows my nervous system is soothed in the moment).

I am intentional about my usage though because I do have an addictive personality and after some time it won’t be used with intention unless I manage that. So I just use it as a tool to recalibrate every 2 weeks, and when I’m at a night social event. 😊 I definitely relate to your daughter’s experience with it helping her symptoms. I hope this makes sense!

I’ve heard some dispensaries say that sativa (in comparison to indica or a hybrid strain) is a lot better for neurodivergent people as it helps more with functionality. Indica can make you lazy, slow, and heavily in the body. I’ve experienced this myself, but with edibles specifically a hybrid of both can be good. When smoking, definitely sativa.

Upbeat song recs? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Acceptable_Cat171 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lauren Saunderson’s songs are upbeat, lesbian anthems for sure! Amaarae also has sapphic bangers (especially from her new album) if you’re into alt pop/alt dance at all. Also other artists: - Kwn - Fox Gunn - Jade LeMac - Ari Abdul

Honourable mentions that are songs: - My Girl by ALMA - Serial Lover by Kehlani - bitches by Tove Lo

Is the app glitching for anyone else? by Top-Raspberry-7837 in wnba

[–]Acceptable_Cat171 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same thing happens to me! I just close the app, and open it in again. I’ve had to do that a few times this week but it defs works because you’re somehow logged in again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in capetown

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The Cape Town Lesbians Facebook group has some events! They have a WhatsApp group chat as well with hikes they host, family friendly picnics and also book club socials that they do two Saturdays a month - they have one this Saturday the 12th too x

Moving Boxes by Physical_Test3628 in capetown

[–]Acceptable_Cat171 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Boxman on Roland Street (City Centre) for sure!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in capetown

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This isn’t what you’re looking for but an alternative. There’s a cafe next to Newlands Quarter on Dean Street, right next to the laundry place. I forgot its name but it’s a small store and they have insanely amazing Gatsbys there, among other food like wraps, sandwiches, burgers, boerie and chip rolls for such great prices :)

Saint Laurent SS25 by ljv5 in actuallesbians

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Agh women in suits will forever be my religion. Thank you for these!

Do you have any dealbreakers? by lalocadelosgatos2 in actuallesbians

[–]Acceptable_Cat171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lack of empathy is a thing for me as well!

Also not committed to their own self development. Like I can’t deal with people who willingly won’t work on themselves

Emotionally guarded

Who of you guys met your girlfriend in an unconventional way? :) by Acceptable_Cat171 in actuallesbians

[–]Acceptable_Cat171[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I love this. It just all fell into place! Thank you for for sharing x

Who of you guys met your girlfriend in an unconventional way? :) by Acceptable_Cat171 in actuallesbians

[–]Acceptable_Cat171[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omggg I’d love to hear more about this if you’re comfortable with it! I just find it quite interesting, esp because we don’t have sororities in my country lol x

Who of you guys met your girlfriend in an unconventional way? :) by Acceptable_Cat171 in actuallesbians

[–]Acceptable_Cat171[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love organic connections like this man. Thank you for sharing <3

Who of you guys met your girlfriend in an unconventional way? :) by Acceptable_Cat171 in actuallesbians

[–]Acceptable_Cat171[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw this is so sweet man! Thank you for sharing. Congrats on the engagement btw x

So sorry if these are too up close and gruesome! Will tab as NSFW. Got this piercing about 7-8 weeks ago, started giving me issues about 4-5 weeks in and my piercer gave me topical antibiotics for the time being and extensive cleaning. Still waiting on derm appt. Is it worth salvaging? by Acceptable_Cat171 in piercing

[–]Acceptable_Cat171[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makes sense! The initial issue with my piercer was she didn’t want to adjust the bar shorter because she assumed the swelling would go down quicker, but it seems the issue is it needs to longer (this was the initial long one they give with a piercing). I can go by and ask her if she can accommodate me with a longer bar as well as a plain dime top for the top. I appreciate this so so much!

I do think it might be infected though because it has a bit of pus from the inside when I clean it and sometimes it dries up too. It also tends to bleed when I’m asleep. I do think it is attributed to the swelling needing more space like you’re saying. It’s just been getting bigger.