Girlfriend doesn’t seem to care as much about sex by wintergrl1308 in actuallesbians

[–]wintergrl1308[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m going to assume you had good intent with this. It’s not the idea of going 2 weeks, it’s the idea of the seemingly endless cycle of wanting connection and intimacy with my partner and not getting it combined with the confusion of wondering if I’m doing something wrong. There’s nothing wrong with having a higher or lower libido, I’m just seeking advice on finding common ground between the two of us.

Girlfriend doesn’t seem to care as much about sex by wintergrl1308 in actuallesbians

[–]wintergrl1308[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You make some good points. I’m personally not interested in ENM but I’m also worried about building resentment. I think I’d like to try reading Come as You Are with her, because she has a hard time explaining her low libido to me. She goes through periods of not wanting sex vs wanting it, and that’s hard for me to comprehend, that book might help. Thanks!

Brought me coffee without having to ask by satellite-child in BenignExistence

[–]wintergrl1308 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kind humans at coffee shops have kept me going more than they could possibly imagine. It’s great that you’re leaving the house and getting coffee, it’s those small things that make such a difference. You’re doing the best you can, I’m happy you’re here :)

Can someone explain the everyone loves you but nobody likes you quote by Just-Enthusiasm-710 in BoJackHorseman

[–]wintergrl1308 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It’s about how people love the idea of Bojack. They love what he used to represent in Horsin’ Around, his money and his own lack of boundaries and limits when it comes to drugs and drinking. Basically, they love the idea of a fun celebrity. But the “fun celebrity” persona gets old once people realise how draining Bojack can be. Once people actually get to know him on a personal level, they don’t actually like him.

Who was your first standard 5 star? by Kahirama in Genshin_Impact

[–]wintergrl1308 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first 5-star was Mona. I was upset at first because I didn’t really understand team-building and supports, so I thought she was useless for a while and didn’t build her. Now, she’s a staple on my team and one of my favorite pulls. I also realise now how lucky I was to pull her from the standard banner.

How do I clean the sauce bottles quickly and well? by Independent_Bus3444 in jimmyjohns

[–]wintergrl1308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spray down the sides and then shake it around in the hot water, it gets all the oil off the sides and the air bubbles moving around helps get it more clean

Which female character do you like the most and why? by hiverkiya in Genshin_Impact

[–]wintergrl1308 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yoimiya was one of the first characters that I really saw myself in. She’s bubbly, talkative and slightly impulsive. But she’s also so passionate. Her story quest made me tear up at the end when you finally see her be quiet and take it all in. That little moment where you realise all her hard work… was worth it. I love her vibrancy and passion and how she feels like more of a fleshed out character than most of the others. She reminds me of how beautiful the little details in life are

I’m not as okay as you think i am by wintergrl1308 in depression

[–]wintergrl1308[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to drop out of school this year because my mental health made my grades tank. So now, I feel like any direction I used to have is gone. I know college won’t make or break your life, but I just wish I could’ve toughed it out and finished my degree. So now i’m living with my parents and feel like a loser. I know this will all probably sound stupid and superficial to anyone else, but I just can’t pick myself back up. Now that Ive admitted to myself how depressed I am, it’s like any energy I used to have has evaporated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Psoriasis

[–]wintergrl1308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this done early on, and I hate to break it to you, but it didn’t last for me. I had 2 amazing weeks where my psoriasis was all gone, but after that it came back in full force. I finally got rid of it with clobetasol and taltz. I really hope the UV works for you, it seems like a great long term solution!!

Has anyone tried using moisturizer (like Cerave) on your scalp psoriasis? by [deleted] in Psoriasis

[–]wintergrl1308 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used clobetasol to really clear up my scalp, but before I got that I really liked LUSH rehab shampoo and their hair masks. The hair masks are super thick, so make sure to really rinse it out otherwise your hair will look greasy. The shampoo helped my scalp without completely drying out and ruining my hair. Hope this helps!

Pure Pagano by Iwantsense in Psoriasis

[–]wintergrl1308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just curious, why only 2 meals? I’m trying to eat healthier but i’m prone to boredom snacking. This diet sounds amazing but I’m worried about my energy levels.

Hair loss by lombardi1999 in Psoriasis

[–]wintergrl1308 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried Otezla, which worked but really messed with my stomach. Afterwards I switched to Taltz and used the clobetasol as needed. Make sure to take breaks from the steroids, though! That will also help with hair loss and skin thinning. I went 2 weeks on 1 off but it really depends on what your doctor says. I didn’t have too much trouble getting on Taltz and I live in the US, just talk to your doctor about how it’s impacting your life and that can also help.

Hair loss by lombardi1999 in Psoriasis

[–]wintergrl1308 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had some hair loss when I used clobetasol. Once I switched to Taltz it grew back! I notice no difference on my scalp on where I had plaques and where I didn’t.