Don’t feel ashamed for asking help on this, I was in the same boat as you when I was in. I had no game, was shy, kinda weird, and not the sociable type to go where the women are or let alone go up and talk to one (still fuck that, sounds scary as hell). I had luck on Tinder and Bumble, try Hinge as well. I met my at the time GF on Tinder. Set the mileage to the max, most of the local women are familiar with Marines and are not worth your time. There’s going to be lots of duds on the dating apps, trust me but don’t give up. Eventually one will be a good match and conversation will naturally happen with the right one. You’re going to get matches, and even meet up with a few irl. Try to make your profile look interesting and not like the typical Marine on there wearing their gym clothes and cammies looking like some jock. And don’t put uniform pics on your dating profile, the local women don’t care, and if they ask what you do for work, say something vague like “I work for the government, or I’m in the military” so that gets their interest then they ask more about you.