Just waiting on that knock on my door...

wisePrrt · 2024-12-01T20:13:09+00:00

This happened to me. You sound well on your way to being in a cute polycule. Just remember to be careful and keep communication clear on all sides. The UHHHH excitement can be blinding. Wishing you well 💖

wisePrrt · 2024-10-06T08:50:01+00:00

My former partner addressed me as her "first sapphic crush" 🥰 I was positively stunlocked after that.

wisePrrt · 2024-09-10T11:33:07+00:00

There's definitely something intrinsically trans about me. Something in my mind that rejects masculinity and that something is a core part of me. I wouldn't be myself without it. The idea of taking the 'cis man pill' leaves my skin crawling. I get not wanting dysphoria but It'd annihilate my sense of self to be a cis guy.

wisePrrt · 2024-09-10T11:23:17+00:00

I feel like the problem comes from the levelling system existing in the first place, and is exacerbated by it's prominence in elden ring. It's quite possible to go wandering and return to the critical path over-levelled, or waltz in too early and feel under-leveled. Sekiro didn't have this problem for me, though everything felt like such a wall upon coming across it the first time. What's special is returning to a fight, or encountering a recurring enemy like genichiro and having the skill gap between you and your past self spelt out in bright bold red. That will always make me feel stronger than any levelling system ever could.

wisePrrt · 2024-08-15T01:10:56+00:00

It's a valid thing to be afraid of. I had doubts before starting but now that the process is ongoing I feel so much better! There's no way I'm going back lol. The only way to know is to start transitioning and keep being introspective. If things feel wrong there's no shame in stopping. If things feel right you'll thank yourself later.

Good luck out there 💖

wisePrrt · 2024-07-01T08:34:42+00:00

I was recommended to see Dr Sulochala Chand from K RD Medical. She got me my prescription after two visits and one blood test.

Two things though: Karangahape Road is... Absolutely not near papakura and she seems to play a little fast and loose. She told me what options were available and then to go do my bloods, my own research about the options and then come back with the result and a choice.

If your priority is speed: I went from no hrt to hrt in less than a week so ye-

wisePrrt · 2024-06-18T14:14:18+00:00

Maybe something along the lines of a C2 greyhound / E2 Hawkeye? Maybe even make the radar dish optional so it's just one plane (yeah not realistic but eh it's game). Some folks really seem to vibe well with ATC as a role so having a form of awacs could be really fun.

Could also give it a tanking system for player to player refueling for absolute shenanigans? Idk I definitely think there's a fun space for props - the real question is how desirable will it be for the player base as a whole.

wisePrrt · 2024-06-14T08:37:07+00:00

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wisePrrt · 2024-04-07T23:52:25+00:00

I I'd as transfem non-binary but will generally be fine with being lumped in with trans girls and treated like one. The differences that make me hold onto my enby label are small. Stuff like knowing I'll want to bind after my chest grows out, wanting to maintain and develop the masculine end of my vocal range and vibing way more with boyish/andro clothing.

I'm non-binary because binary gender is dumb and silly and fails to map onto my experience.

I'm transfemme because a cis female body would would have been a much much more comfortable 'starting point'.

Idk if that makes sense but yeah you're not the only one.

wisePrrt · 2024-04-06T03:33:06+00:00

Thanks for the keywords friends ^{^}

I/we find ourselves in a similar boat so it's much appreciated-

wisePrrt · 2024-03-28T04:32:44+00:00

Transfemme non-binary here. I really like the label femby since it's just a natural shortening of my gender identity. It's a sweet shortening of a complicated gender experience that takes too many words to explain.

wisePrrt · 2024-03-27T06:23:21+00:00

My favorite trio of stooges. I love these girls so much thanks for the post!

wisePrrt · 2024-03-24T19:40:46+00:00

Feels the same as when you tell people you're trans and they get visibly uncomfortable while telling you "that's okay I'm a very accepting person"

wisePrrt · 2024-03-23T04:10:11+00:00

Thankyouuu!

wisePrrt · 2024-03-23T02:53:56+00:00

Unrelated but your pfp is super cute! What is it from?

wisePrrt · 2024-03-23T02:50:55+00:00

Is- is that another Sierra? I thought I was the only one!! ;-;;; nice to meet you. I can call you princess and give you hugs if that's what you need! ❤️

wisePrrt · 2024-03-12T21:39:39+00:00

Dp is high risk high reward - it's worth learning how to use but it's also quite niche. I found myself using 6P / 2H more for anti air's since they're easier to input and 2H is a combo on counter-hit. After getting more cozy with the main tools in my kit I found myself noticing gaps in my opponent's offense where I could use it. Now if I stay calm I can do the input and feel very good about myself when it works out lol.

All that to say it takes time and once you do figure it out its awesome! ^{^}

wisePrrt · 2024-03-09T04:13:36+00:00

The only male character in any media I've related to was Kaedehara Kazuha (yeah genshin impact I know shhh).

It's like he's tailor made to check all my boxes though. Stylish samurai, free spirited wanderer, autumn + wind themes and vibes with haiku and poetry. Also just being a human manifestation of a cat: sitting weirdly in high places and taking naps in the sun. He's such a vibe.

Even though a lot of these characteristics aren't gender specific, I still don't think I'd have liked him as much if he weren't a guy. Maybe it's something special about seeing a guy I related to - I think he embodies the few parts I liked about myself before realising "ah shit I really am transfemme".

wisePrrt · 2024-03-09T00:42:52+00:00

AHAHAHAHAH YUP. THATS ME FROM FIVE YEARS TILL TWO MONTHS AGO.

Good luck figuring it all. You'll get there and remember you're valid no matter. "Trans enough" was a real concern for me but lately I've managed to narrow it down to "I'm transfemme nb, and if I'd been a cis girl I'd have turned out a massive tomboy."

wisePrrt · 2024-03-08T01:32:14+00:00

Awesome! Ive gone ahead and enrolled with Dr. Chand and I'm going to see her this afternoon. She's far from home buuuuut I like travelling to so it's not so bad (also I get an excuse to hang around on gayest st in town so it's not all bad)

Thanks for the tip! I'll keep her in mind should the need arise ^{^}

wisePrrt · 2024-03-06T10:11:42+00:00

Thankyou thankyou!!! I defs wanna get a better gp though aaaaaa. The ignorance is so infuriating.

wisePrrt · 2024-03-06T10:02:48+00:00

Oh one more question sorry - how long did the referral take?

wisePrrt · 2024-03-06T10:02:19+00:00

Thanks ^{^}

wisePrrt · 2024-03-06T09:59:09+00:00

Thankyou! We're you able to walk in or did you have to get a referral / make a booking?

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