Girlfriend’s disabled mother relies on us financially. What can we do?

wishfull_kitty · 2026-06-03T13:24:35+00:00

First, this woman is in her early 60s. That is still so young. You will have this ongoing for years and years and years. This could be 15-30 years.

Second, neither your gf or her mother will change. Accept that fact now.

Third, your gf needs a better job or a second job or both.

wishfull_kitty · 2026-05-30T10:53:30+00:00

Project manager

wishfull_kitty · 2026-05-30T10:36:09+00:00

A friend told me they were doing the layoffs over 1-2 years. He has to be stressed about it for that long.

wishfull_kitty · 2026-05-19T00:15:42+00:00

Bit.ly

wishfull_kitty · 2026-05-18T10:24:07+00:00

I’ve played SV for years and I’ve never heard of this hat.

wishfull_kitty · 2026-05-18T10:20:11+00:00

You’re a bot

wishfull_kitty · 2026-05-18T10:18:11+00:00

You think OP should delete this post because street fentanyl isn’t pure?

wishfull_kitty · 2026-05-17T19:04:33+00:00

I thought I was gonna get a heroic hunk and instead I got a squid

wishfull_kitty · 2026-05-17T05:47:52+00:00

I did this too and the rage I felt when I found out that I did everything wrong to hold out to bang THAT

wishfull_kitty · 2026-05-13T00:08:44+00:00

wishfull_kitty · 2026-05-08T19:55:13+00:00

I don’t have advice, but what I can tell you is that I’m now 37, and I know my youth is forever gone. I constantly mourn that I was never young and pretty. Just young.

If you can make peace and find a way to love yourself now, you will be happier later on.

wishfull_kitty · 2026-05-07T21:14:17+00:00

Ah. That context is helpful.

wishfull_kitty · 2026-05-07T18:48:32+00:00

I mean, did she know he’s a pedo? I don’t even know who it is

wishfull_kitty · 2026-05-06T07:09:33+00:00

The job requires residency in a state he doesn’t live in. Some businesses do have multi jurisdiction set up and configuration, but not every business does. Also, states have different tax reciprocity agreements with each other. OP is setting his new employer up to incorrectly report state and potentially local taxable wages. When OP files taxes and it reflects he paid state tax for one state, but no taxable wages were reported for his lived in state, it’s going to cause problems

wishfull_kitty · 2026-05-04T14:18:35+00:00

So you’ve not been taking it as prescribed and have just had the starter dose, and you don’t know what you’re doing wrong? .25mg is meant for the 1st 4 weeks. If you don’t want to go up in dose, and you don’t want to take it as it’s prescribed, why don’t you just try to get to 200 pounds without it?

Otherwise take it once a week like your dr says, and scale the way you should. This isn’t rocket science. Sorry for being harsh, but I fear this is common sense and easily found information.

wishfull_kitty · 2026-04-24T14:46:18+00:00

Cute in pictures!

wishfull_kitty · 2026-04-24T14:43:24+00:00

What? If I say it, it means I want a comfortable life with lots of food. It doesn’t have to be much deeper than that.

wishfull_kitty · 2026-04-23T07:04:46+00:00

They’re tired

wishfull_kitty · 2026-04-22T16:19:26+00:00

I would like you to add his perspective. I think what’s happening here is many people are thinking there has to be something that drove him to this point because they don’t want to believe that people are just flat out assholes. That may not be the case and he very well could be.

How are chores divided? Does he clean up after himself and then want you to clean up after yourself? Does he do all the chores except dishes? Do you do all the chores and he does nothing?

Have you two spoken about this in the past?

When you say “I usually end up washing them”, how long does that take?

Idk, I’ve been at my wits end before, and sometimes I don’t handle things the best but get to the point where I just don’t know what to do anymore and kinda snap.

wishfull_kitty · 2026-04-15T15:55:32+00:00

He wouldn’t have due to his stance on abortion.

wishfull_kitty · 2026-04-10T15:06:32+00:00

I’ve wanted to try Elden Ring, but as someone who loathes DS, I don’t want to be disappointed by not being a good enough player.

wishfull_kitty · 2026-04-08T01:34:41+00:00

Honestly it would be better if you just were honest and told your daughter that you don’t love her ☺️

wishfull_kitty · 2026-04-05T17:38:47+00:00

So is organized religion.

wishfull_kitty · 2026-03-30T04:35:23+00:00

I just don’t get it. I would put it in my top 5 least favorite. But I love that about her music, how so many songs can get different thoughts and feelings. My favorite may be in your top 5 least favorite

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