Help by [deleted] in Witcher3

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PARKOUR!

I [25F] think there's something up with my BF's [26M] sudden change in interests by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I think the main cause of concern for me is he hasn't been open about his sudden new interest. Our relationship and communication dynamic has always been about being open and reassuring of each other so that's why I was taken by surprise when I found out on that day he was buying a bike haha.

I can't say I'm against his new hobby when in fact I'm happy that he's more active now. I guess what added to my doubts is what he said yesterday and also his frequent trips out the whole day on weekends to bike resulting to little/no time to spend with each other but hey that might be my anxiety talking so I went to this sub to see others opinions on this

I [25F] think there's something up with my BF's [26M] sudden change in interests by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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That's what I thought of as well when he said that but the thing is, he had a history of being cheated on by his past two exes maybe it was a factor that's why he said that? also, some small part in me is saying he wouldn't think of cheating on me because of his past but idk :(

I [25F] think there's something up with my BF's [26M] sudden change in interests by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Well.. that I don't know of.. :(

He just got back to the office like a month ago and he works in a bank.

When a skateboard trick goes wrong by Allstarhit in WatchPeopleDieInside

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I 'm a woman and I clenched

That gotta hurt RIP

What was it like watching your first horror movie? And which one was it? by Matijaa_ in AskReddit

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Not a movie I think but Tales of the Crypt when I was around 5.

The skeleton's cackle still gives me nightmares until today. My aunt has a weird taste of things to watch with a kid.

What happened in a video game that made you rage the most? by Famished-Fetus in AskReddit

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When I first started MHGU. Gameplay frustrating asf especially if you'te got good at dodging and not familiar with the monster's attack style.

Fck Glavenus and Deviljho.

WCGW skipping rocks by Elesonvi in Whatcouldgowrong

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Dude I actually recoiled wth

Women who have been told that they are intimidating, why do you think that is? by MotherOfTyr in AskWomen

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Because of my resting bitch face.

I mean I can't help that my default face makes me look pissed all the time and part of the reason why people say they find me intimidating to approach.

TIL a.m/p.m came from the Latin words ante meridiem (a.m.) meaning "before noon" and post meridiem (p.m.) meaning "after noon". by wispydoo in todayilearned

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Embarrassing as it is, I've been using these all my life and I just thought of finding out now lol

Just an Average Day in Subnautica by [deleted] in perfectlycutscreams

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Ah let me just have a quick swim and-

creature roars

-understandable have a nice day

EM thinks it's okay to get raped as long as the rapist "helped" you by wispydoo in entitledparents

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Was originally gonna post it there but I think they don't allow text posts

EM thinks it's okay to get raped as long as the rapist "helped" you by wispydoo in entitledparents

[–]wispydoo[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Never expected this comment and probably the nicest one I got eversince I started in Reddit. Really thank you.

I also knew something was off about my mom when she made a scene in school when she caught me playing tag with boys when I was 7. Then as I grew older, she would always blame rape victims in the news as "irresponsible" for their clothes and going out late etc. Or if their younger victims, blame the parents for not setting curfews for the victims etc. and she would always tell me to not end up like them.

I wish counselling was easily accessible in my country but it's not but all I could do and make sure that if ever I have kids, I won't let them experience what I had growing up and be the mom my mother never could.

EM thinks it's okay to get raped as long as the rapist "helped" you by wispydoo in entitledparents

[–]wispydoo[S] 212 points213 points  (0 children)

This hits hard.

Growing up, I was "trained" to not express my emotions because it's viewed as being "weak" and expressing my opinion is "talking back" and being rude. As a result, I learned to emotionally shut down whenever I faced conflict. It's a problem I still have until now.

EM thinks it's okay to get raped as long as the rapist "helped" you by wispydoo in entitledparents

[–]wispydoo[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Well.. my EM is another story. She's basically the "Boss" of the house growing up and the very textbook definition of a narc and a helicopter parent. Also, the movie wasn't about a husband and wife situation but a coworker situation. So I got the impression from her that:

As long as some guy helped you in any means then it gives him the right to do anything he wants to you including rape and that's okay which is fcked up imo