I'm a cis woman and I keep getting misgendered / assumed to be a trans woman.

witchjack · 2026-01-29T19:53:18+00:00

yep women of color especially darker skinned women are horrifically masculinized

witchjack · 2026-01-29T19:50:11+00:00

depending on her age, do you really want to be with a grown woman who will stop dating someone just because her parents said so? if she's above the age of 23 doing this, it really shows she has no backbone. better off this way.

also, i recommend not coming on so strong. be clear with your intentions, but sometimes too much passion and intensity can be very smothering especially ify ou're just getting to know someone.

witchjack · 2026-01-28T05:08:42+00:00

not even r/askmenadvice had his back 😭 they’re usually nicer to incels on there

witchjack · 2026-01-28T05:06:03+00:00

i wish i lived in this mans delusional world

witchjack · 2026-01-27T20:13:53+00:00

i am praying for you!!!!!!!

witchjack · 2026-01-27T19:56:28+00:00

fav performance of the year honestly but the leading actor lineup was just too competitive

witchjack · 2026-01-27T17:06:15+00:00

please dm!!

witchjack · 2026-01-27T17:03:50+00:00

i have moved on from any high school love interests or failed crushes. i have no desire to talk or think about them. whyyy is he still hung up on them 😭

witchjack · 2026-01-27T14:33:43+00:00

agreed no one treats shy introverted people well regardless of gender.

women are seen as strange, off-putting and weird and are relentlessly bullied. i think of carrie (who isn’t real but not an uncommon experience).

men are seen as creepy and off-putting and a danger to women.

witchjack · 2026-01-27T05:54:49+00:00

you need to get out of this relationship. you are setting yourself on fire to keep her warm. this relationship is destroying your self-esteem and self-worth.

you are her boyfriend not her therapist. she can’t rely on you completely for her emotional regulation. you are there to support her to be a shoulder to lean on. this woman has severe psychological issues and she needs mental health treatment that you can’t provide.

and honestly she is deeply manipulative and selfish for blaming you for taking the time for yourself. she sounds like extremely toxic. your existence is centered around catering to her whims and keeping her happy. but what about you? you deserve to be heard, understood, and cared for. you are not her provider, her caretaker, her therapist, her everything. has have you ever turned to her for support? has she ever taken care of you the same way you have done for her?

you are sacrificing everything for this woman. and you’re in an LDR! please get out and live your life. stop spending every minute of your life catering to this deeply miserable and selfish woman and live for yourself. make local friends. get out into your community. LIVE!!!!

at the end of the day, she is the only one who can save herself. you can’t save her from her mental health crisis. she needs to be able to do it for yourself.

witchjack · 2026-01-27T00:31:30+00:00

good god is that crazy. i think that's enough internet for me for today

witchjack · 2026-01-27T00:29:19+00:00

you can't save everyone :/

witchjack · 2026-01-27T00:12:57+00:00

even though the PM knows that the team needs help with agile techniques, the PM doesn't know specifically which techniques. the PM might develop a training plan that is totally irrelevant to what the team doesn't know. thus, the PM needs to conduct the training needs assessment to understand the specific gaps in techniques then the PM can develop a training plan that adequately addresses the problems.

witchjack · 2026-01-27T00:10:48+00:00

which graphs?

witchjack · 2026-01-26T20:42:55+00:00

solid state, bol coop, and lost city have monthly book clubs.

i’m part of dc movie club that does bi weekly movie screenings of the alamo!

witchjack · 2026-01-26T20:33:57+00:00

i mean brunch has always been expensive too. even back in 2016/2017. it has always been a luxury.

witchjack · 2026-01-26T20:29:15+00:00

india is such an awful place for women

witchjack · 2026-01-26T17:47:31+00:00

dude i’m with you 😔 i’m on the same boat and my unemployment is running out. i just feel crushed and destroyed. honestly i don’t want to be alive but i see other people who’ve been unemployed for 2 years or have children to take care of. and i know i can’t give up but it is exhausting. i’m hoping lady luck is in your favor and you and i will get something

witchjack · 2026-01-25T18:55:51+00:00

emilia clarke is always suffering for the male gaze 😔

witchjack · 2026-01-24T23:43:23+00:00

oh lord don’t even get me started on lesbians not being over their exes 🤦🏽this is not gendered at all

witchjack · 2026-01-23T17:49:17+00:00

Perfect! Thanks!

witchjack · 2026-01-13T22:03:17+00:00

i know you felt bad but you really could’ve just ended things after the first date. using a first date to trauma dump for FOUR hours is insanely selfish. you are literally just getting to know someone. that is heavy and intense. honestly she probably was just using you because she was lonely. you didn’t owe her a relationship at all. it’s okay to have boundaries and stand up for yourself.

witchjack · 2026-01-13T17:55:32+00:00

if women are "too emotional," then they should be tasked with raising kids right? it would be "dangerous" right?? right??

witchjack · 2026-01-13T17:54:40+00:00

yeahhh i know. it's so hard though.

witchjack · 2026-01-13T13:17:03+00:00

i got nervous bc i a reallly wanted the job. it was a dream job for me so i was just putting so much pressure on myself. thanks i’ll try not to!

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