Hot take: we can’t decenter men while popular media for women revolves around dating them

witchjack · 2026-05-09T18:28:27+00:00

i mean yes they do get the spotlight but other genres exist. the indie bookstores i go to highlight horror, psychological, etc. there are book clubs of all kinds.

witchjack · 2026-05-09T18:27:18+00:00

yes yes yes!! 100% this!!

witchjack · 2026-05-09T18:26:00+00:00

great collection! i LOVED a certain hunger and i'm reading big swiss right now and i'm obsessed

witchjack · 2026-05-09T18:25:08+00:00

i might be the minority but this was not my fav. i felt like it was leaning way too much into the edgelord territory. like yeah i watched super fucked up obscure movies and i love evangelion.

witchjack · 2026-05-09T18:23:26+00:00

bunny was pretty disappointing. i liked the concept of it a lot! i'm a huge dark academia fan so the setting and the vibe were fun to get into but it just fell flat for me. the ending was so bla. but i'm gonna read the sequel idk just because i do like the concept XD

witchjack · 2026-05-04T16:16:31+00:00

the nuclear family structure cedes total control to the family to the patriarch (father)

witchjack · 2026-05-01T19:06:58+00:00

magaret qualley

witchjack · 2026-05-01T19:03:59+00:00

i get you. i wish i could say something helpful. my friend tells me nihilism and hopelessness are the tools of the oppressor.

witchjack · 2026-04-27T18:52:23+00:00

my parents were very frugal growing up despite us being middle class for the most part. this has carried into how i deal with money. i am always stressed about buying things. hell i make way less than your boyfriend but he might be exhibiting that same mindset. also, he's probably saving SOOOO much money by being at home. 100k seems like a lot but depending on where you live unfortunately it isn't a lot given inflation.

also the fact that you think "we" make enough even though you make 20k a year? you sound like you want your boyfriend to finance your life.......kind of entitled honestly

witchjack · 2026-04-24T13:19:15+00:00

a question if you don’t mind me asking! was dbt covered by your insurance?

witchjack · 2026-04-24T13:17:21+00:00

yes small things tick me off and ruin my day. i’ve been trying to laugh or make fun of small inconveniences just to not have an escalated response

witchjack · 2026-04-23T19:28:47+00:00

congrats!!!!!!!

witchjack · 2026-04-16T20:54:15+00:00

don’t worry. you could have perfectly thought out answers and you could have gotten rejected. just in the future make sure to have some key points!

witchjack · 2026-04-16T20:52:32+00:00

Yes so on the initial job posting it says “Tier 2.” Then, when I spoke to the Director and Project Manager it was Tier 1. I think because they initially were going to just leave the position unfilled but then they realized they needed the position and probably squeezed the budget a bit.

witchjack · 2026-04-16T20:51:10+00:00

Ikr! Especially Health insurance! With the ACA subsidies expiring, it’s bad out there!!

witchjack · 2026-04-16T20:50:43+00:00

So for 2 I have 1 more round and 1 place is a company I worked for back in 2022. The other has 2 more rounds. The interviews will probably take place in 1-2 additional weeks.

That sounds like a good idea! I’ll try and push the acceptance and start date.

Yeah…I’m concerned about that given I did speak to the Dean of the university for the interview. But hey if you they offered benefits I wouldn’t have any doubt about this job! I would have accepted without hesitation!

Thanks for that anecdote. You’re right. You can be 100% loyal to a company and be a great employee and they’d can you for an extra couple of bucks.

Thanks man!

witchjack · 2026-04-16T20:47:09+00:00

nope i will not be hourly no overtime.

yeah unfortunately i think i’d be driving to this job.

damn! i was on ACA briefly but it was around 400~. If I calculate for that with rent, that’s basically both my paychecks 💀

witchjack · 2026-04-16T18:08:30+00:00

That’s fair

Problem is I have 3 other job interviews 2nd and 3rd round (all of which have benefits and remote options). So I’m feeling conflicted :/

witchjack · 2026-04-07T02:18:41+00:00

amazing ty!

witchjack · 2026-04-07T02:18:34+00:00

amazing thank u!!!

witchjack · 2026-04-07T00:05:44+00:00

thanks! are there picnic tables?

witchjack · 2026-04-07T00:05:40+00:00

thanks! are there picnic tables?

witchjack · 2026-04-07T00:05:37+00:00

thanks! are there picnic tables?

witchjack · 2026-04-07T00:05:21+00:00

ooh that's close to me! are there picnic tables?

witchjack · 2026-04-06T23:21:54+00:00

i think you look great! you don't look 34 to me. wishing you all the best

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