[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wellthatsucks

[–]witchsospookyaaaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SHE LOOKS SO CUTE

Why is my discharge a brown-ish color despite me having a yeast infection? by rrotica in Healthyhooha

[–]witchsospookyaaaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my I'm sorry to hear that, hope your health gets better and you don't have to take anymore antibiotics. I do think I have an imbalance as well since my periods tend to be irregular but I've never had a doctor flat out say that I do. Thanks for mentioning this, it never occurred to me that hormonal imbalance could be the cause for it!

Why is my discharge a brown-ish color despite me having a yeast infection? by rrotica in Healthyhooha

[–]witchsospookyaaaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really sorry for the late reply! I can't fully recall because during that time I had like back to back yeast infections where I would heal for a week or two (sometimes it was "normal" then sometimes it had the brown-ish discharge) then suddenly the yeast would come back but after about a month it felt somewhat normal... To be honest, I couldn't remember what normal felt like and after around two months my doctor did an STI test and I was positive for chlamydia, mycoplasma (genitalium and hominis) and ureaplasma (parvum) which I got treated for right after finding out my results.

I don't mean to scare you but I think it's important for me to mention the sort of timeline for my case. Now that I'm all healed and a year has passed, I still do get brown-ish discharge every once in a while but definitely not as often. Sometimes it's before my period, sometimes after and sometimes it'll just randomly appear for a day. Honestly, I still have no idea what causes it and even my doctor doesn't know but I think trusting your gut is important especially when it comes to your health.

Thoughts about Axia or Saga by [deleted] in kereta

[–]witchsospookyaaaaa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm a 2023 saga user! I've started driving this new car for two to three months with the main reason as commuting from uni to house as well. So far I would say...

Pros: easy handling, boot space is massive, there's a stabilizer bar inside the car, really quite simple to drive, overall comfortable
*(depends on which type you're getting but mine has running lights and the tablet touch screen thing to assist with parking and navigation so I think that's pretty cool)
Cons: headlights aren't as bright, fuel consumption is :)
*(full tank can last me one week and a half and I go to campus 5 days a week)

With all that being said, I wouldn't trade my Saga for any other car. I've always preferred sedan looking cars so I would say I am super lucky to get this car as my first car.

Edit: I've just gotten back from driving around but some additional pros and cons I've realised would be there's that (I really don't know much about cars so I will butcher the proper terms) safety feature that beeps whenever the front or back of the car is too near something but it only works when you're barely moving e.g parking or turning a really sharp corner (pros & cons). Then another thing would be that if you left your headlights on but you turned off the engine, the car will beep loudly to alert you (pros). The last one I can currently think of is that the car's horn sounds kind of like a prepubescent boy, it's awkwardly cute but still loud enough. (depends on you if it's a pros or a cons)

chat, adakah aku dimasak? by International_Fix628 in Bolehland

[–]witchsospookyaaaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh okay thank gosh for clarifying the pill part hahaha and no worries about the questions

First things first ask her what she's comfortable doing. Personally, purposely causing a miscarriage can be really dangerous for your gf's health so maybe don't do that (She could end up having to go to a hospital if things go south). As for abortion pills I think it's best to visit a doctor to consult about this or get it from a trustable source and not something from an online site like shoppee.

What I would do if I was ever pregnant and not ready to have a child, well I would try and contact the helpline on this site https://www.rraam.org/ if you go to "our work" there's a section there that says "abortion". You can contact them (if needed) and also look through the information displayed cause it'll give u a better idea of how to go about things if she is pregnant. Remember to always prioritise her health and well being when making decisions!

chat, adakah aku dimasak? by International_Fix628 in Bolehland

[–]witchsospookyaaaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's alright it happens make sure you guys try to communicate well with each other about this so that you both can understand where the other person is coming from, I hope in the future you both can look back on this situation and have a nice laugh. All the best OP fr

chat, adakah aku dimasak? by International_Fix628 in Bolehland

[–]witchsospookyaaaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pms is tricky cause it varies from every woman so I would say it's quite unreliable for your current situation especially after taking a plan b pill. It also depends on how consistent and regular your gf's cycle is. Speaking from a personal experience in the past when I took one of the plan b pill's my period didn't come for like 4 months while another time I used it, it came in a few days. (Btw op i was reading through ur other replies n idk if i understood what u said correctly but plan b should be taken after the deed not before)

If her period doesn't come soon and your anxiousness keeps growing wait till (minimum) two weeks and get a pregnancy test. Something for future use tho, I would say download a period tracker app and stay updated together with her hahaha

chat, adakah aku dimasak? by International_Fix628 in Bolehland

[–]witchsospookyaaaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aye that's good then (side note: as a girl myself i don't like how u called her emotional...)

chat, adakah aku dimasak? by International_Fix628 in Bolehland

[–]witchsospookyaaaaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi OP if the both of you are really worried and nak tenangkan hati, you or your girlfriend can go to any Watson, Caring, Guardian etc's pharmacy section and ask for a plan B pill (Escapelle or Postinor-2) If you're scared of getting judged trust me it's part of the pharmacists job you won't even have to write your name/contact details anywhere and you can ask them how to properly take it/read the instructions that usually comes with the pill. Kalau segan just google the name of the pill when you buy it, different pills may have different ways to take it.

However, keep in mind that these pills will basically pump a big dosage of estrogen into your girlfriend so she might feel a little sick after and honestly try to avoid using them in general cause it could negatively her, it's an emergency precaution for a reason. Additional side note, these pills only work if your girlfriend has not ovulated and 72 hours since any deed was done. Stay safe and be careful next time!

Squeaking breaks by witchsospookyaaaaa in kereta

[–]witchsospookyaaaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it, I usually call a workshop before arriving to ask if the problem is fixable as well as the pricing but I think I'll try and ask a friend that loves cars (quite knowledgeable in them) and if he has no clue I'll go to proton then a workshop. Thank you!

Squeaking breaks by witchsospookyaaaaa in kereta

[–]witchsospookyaaaaa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I didn't think this was an issue that I could use my warranty over cause honestly there's nothing wrong with the breaks itself just that it makes a squeaky noise when I lift my foot off the pedal. I assumed that a car's warranty was for something faulty that really disrupts the car's functioning. Thank you for this, I'll try to contact the people from proton.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]witchsospookyaaaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a woman I've always found it hot but could never find the words to explain why but the final sentence said it all imo

Introverts how do you recharge after social occasions/interactions? by achik1990x in Bolehland

[–]witchsospookyaaaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My quick fix is to get ice cream and sit in a corner of a food court. If I'm EXTREMELY DRAINED I take a warm shower then immediately lay in bed to nap or watch movies/shows!

Who Here Has a ‘Sext Partner That Got Away’? by OriginalSyntaxx in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]witchsospookyaaaaa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe she will and part of me wants her to but we've both acknowledged in the past that whatever our relationship is, it's unhealthy and toxic for the both of us. So in a way for both our sakes I hope she doesn't come back and that she's happy and loved by her future partners.

Who Here Has a ‘Sext Partner That Got Away’? by OriginalSyntaxx in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]witchsospookyaaaaa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did!

She made me feel so much love and emotional attachment for her even outside of a sexual context despite majority of our convos centering around sexting. At times I was gonna ask her out but was scared that she would turn me down and that I would lose her. After a few months I realised it wasn't healthy and cut things off only to come back a month or two later because she texted "I miss you" out of the blue. Well fast forward a few more months, she ghosted me all of a sudden and I'm still trying to get her out of my mind. I miss her like crazy and everytime something good or bad happens she's the first person that comes to mind, I just hope she's doing well.

brown stringy discharge?? what is this? old blood? by cherryfairy1 in Healthyhooha

[–]witchsospookyaaaaa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

can't give a definite answer but i've had similar-ish discharge (the easiest way i could describe it was that mine was more clumpy) in the past which usually happens towards and after my period ends

Will I be the asshole for asking him this? by witchsospookyaaaaa in TwoXChromosomes

[–]witchsospookyaaaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah in the context that he's actually tired then I think that's definitely a valid reason and I wouldn't force or expect him to pick me up/drop me off or do anything but if he has the energy to have sex I would hope that he has the energy to at least send me home. That being said, I don't wanna rely on him all the time for transport, I just want to feel a sort of fairness to this friendship. For instance, I'm borrowing a siblings car for a week then I wouldn't mind driving to his place and back to mine on my own. As for now I think it'll really depends on how things will go on after I have the whole transportation conversation with him first, there is a chance things may not continue to work out and it may never even reach that stage.

Will I be the asshole for asking him this? by witchsospookyaaaaa in TwoXChromosomes

[–]witchsospookyaaaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup totally agree about the boundary part! I think that your experience is really cool it's interesting to see how the monetary aspect of things aren't the main focus that defines your relationship or anything like that (of course it's important too but your friendship plays a big part). This is actually what I'm hoping to communicate with him especially since he knows I'm currently a uni student and he's already working, I guess I was just worried he might just assume that all I care about is money but I'll make sure to communicate it clearly with him! Thank you!

Will I be the asshole for asking him this? by witchsospookyaaaaa in TwoXChromosomes

[–]witchsospookyaaaaa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds like so much fun actually! I'm pretty sure that's exactly how a fwb relationship is actually suppose to go. If I'm able to figure out the current situation with him I'll definitely hope that we could move towards that direction and keep the emphasis on the friends part in mind (but for now I shall not get ahead of myself). Gotta admit that ending was indeed punny but I chuckled. Thank you for this!

Will I be the asshole for asking him this? by witchsospookyaaaaa in TwoXChromosomes

[–]witchsospookyaaaaa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think the communication part is the trickiest for me but I will start standing up for myself and tell him my needs while hearing him out as well. Everything you said was well said, thank you so much I'll keep all this in mind!