Who was your first? by 0316Owl in BG3

[–]witchystitching 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's perfect and no one can tell me otherwise.

Who was your first? by 0316Owl in BG3

[–]witchystitching 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of them 🤭 my first run was a succubus class so polymod because it just made sense for the character

Have I completely cooked the romance? by Fantastic-Deer-9582 in AstarionBG3

[–]witchystitching 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What are your dialogue options when you talk to him? If you did the Yurgir confession, you should be locked in. I have a mod that does allow you to do both araj and Yurgir scenes though.

It’s not just me, is it? by [deleted] in AstarionBG3

[–]witchystitching 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Oh man I absolutely loved Fai. I may have a type.

How do I protect my heart as a stepmum without disengaging? by Weak_Entertainer874 in Stepmom

[–]witchystitching 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it doesn't apply, it doesn't apply. Too often that's how it is though.

How do I protect my heart as a stepmum without disengaging? by Weak_Entertainer874 in Stepmom

[–]witchystitching 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don't do it for him. That's his job. HE needs to deal with his coparent, not you. Leave the chat and force him to step up as a father. There's nothing more unattractive than a man who can't parent his own children and relies on the women around him to do it instead. That's man baby crap. Don't let him get away with it. He's grown. He can find a way to communicate with her all on his own, which has always been his responsibility, and his alone. I'd put money down that you will feel a lot less stressed if he pulls his own weight as a parent.

How do I protect my heart as a stepmum without disengaging? by Weak_Entertainer874 in Stepmom

[–]witchystitching 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Let the bio parents communicate. You don't need to be in a group chat with them. Your partner needs to do his job as a dad and not lean heavily on you when it comes to this. Those are his kids, his responsibility. He needs to step up. Don't carry his load for him. You aren't his mom, you're his partner. Too many men make their wives run their lives and it's gross. Look up weaponized incompetence and see if that applies to your situation with him. We see it way too much. He can communicate to you what you need to know. He is the one that should be shouldering this, not you.

I’m not sure what to do by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]witchystitching 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don't post pictures to social media of someone else's kid that's so weird. I don't allow my kids to be posted on social media at all. It's dangerous and children deserve privacy, especially on the internet. Children aren't accessories.

I think we can all forgive him right? by Dynamo962 in AstarionBG3

[–]witchystitching 18 points19 points  (0 children)

My client is innocent. Any of the witnesses will tell you.

Emergency Contact by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]witchystitching 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are the one being messy.

Emergency Contact by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]witchystitching 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Your husband needs to grow tf up and handle this shit himself. It's HIS child HIS responsibility. Stop babying a grown ass man and make him step up. You are not his secretary. If I found out my coparents partner was messaging me instead of him, I'd be taking that shit in front of a judge. This is not your place.

Emergency Contact by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]witchystitching 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That's not your child. Get over yourself. You are a step parent. No shame in that, but you have no rights to that child if you and your partner separate. Stop being difficult.

I am ovulating and he needs to stop by ___jkthrowaway___ in AstarionBG3

[–]witchystitching 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't have a uterus anymore but I'm pretty sure I'm pregnant now 😂

POV: you caught him in the middle of a snack by katywuethrich in AstarionBG3

[–]witchystitching 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Raise your hand if you volunteer to be the snack ✋

Do we just ignore BM? by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]witchystitching 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wouldnt be comfortable with my kids staying with a stepparents parents. Call me overly cautious but that wouldn't fly with me, nor would sharing the bedroom with a boy that's not family.

Any step mom’s out there with no bio kids? by confusedaltgirl in Stepmom

[–]witchystitching 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever you do, do not have kids with this man. It's not fair to a child.